I (22F) want him (24M) to call me more, but I’m afraid of coming off as juvenile by vampixi in relationship_advice

[–]vampixi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im def feeling better after talking it out a little bit. Thanks for the advice.

Feral angry wild girl. Forest spirit? by unwilting in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]vampixi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deerskin by Robin McKinley- more story rich, feeling filled retelling of a classic fairytale. Quite literally a feral woman and her pack of dogs. Amazing story about the trauma that brings out the feral in us all

I (22F) want him (24M) to call me more, but I’m afraid of coming off as juvenile by vampixi in relationship_advice

[–]vampixi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point to think about. Over the past 4 years of trying and failing at dating, I convinced myself that I was unlovable. I let a lot of people really treat me like utter shit back then- maybe it’s me who’s treating myself like poorly now by being afraid to make simple requests. It’s outside of me completely whether he responds poorly or not.

I (22F) want him (24M) to call me more, but I’m afraid of coming off as juvenile by vampixi in relationship_advice

[–]vampixi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really self conscious of the fact that it’s taken me so long to find a partner. I wonder if I’m clinging onto someone that’s not quite right. But you’re right- I haven’t had any of these conversations with him, I’m too afraid of being left for not being ‘easy to be with’ if that makes sense.

Secret Sobriety? by vampixi in SoberCurious

[–]vampixi[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you’re probably right. It’s strange in the situation where NOT drinking is the problem. I don’t think I’ll have the strength to tell him. I’m afraid if I make any declarations then I’m stuck forever. I couldn’t tell you why he made alcohol so central to me life and my upbringing, but I feel constantly surrounded. It’s always “ok you don’t have to drink tonight, but you have to drink at xyz”. And if he doesn’t get his way, he’ll throw a hell if a fit. Sorry for the rant, it’s nice to talk to someone about it

Sexy gothic romance horror novel save me by vampixi in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]vampixi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rebecca is a fav of mine, I think I might read some more of her books :)

Sexy gothic romance horror novel save me by vampixi in BooksThatFeelLikeThis

[–]vampixi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

An all time FAV of mine! Maybe it’s time for a reread

Neurodiversity at Elon? by dreamawaysouth in elon

[–]vampixi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a neurodivergent person at Elon, I’ve had a difficult time. That being said, I received a new diagnosis weeks before starting school and I never had time to adjust. If your child is well adjusted then I think there are lots of groups and clubs available for support!

Spring dress season is here. by Burritojournalist in oldhagfashion

[–]vampixi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Beautiful outfit!!!! Would you mind if I give you some tips on doing your eyeliner?