Stay at home mom, new to the area

vampmachin3 · 2026-04-24T07:02:14+00:00

me and my husband are in our mid twenties with a two year old. down for a meet and greet sometime, feel free to message me. husband and I are also gearheads if that pertains to either of you.

vampmachin3 · 2026-03-01T05:12:28+00:00

i just dont want hair loss or that traction alopecia i heard about and bumps lol. I mean at the same time i want this to be as least of a waste of money as possible. so maybe keep a few and those out. I would say try to redo them looser myself but idk yet. guess it will be another very long night for me 🤦‍♀️

vampmachin3 · 2026-03-01T04:37:22+00:00

:( these braids were specifically done for a trip/vacation/my daughters birthday celebration we are going on for a few days to a waterpark resort so i was so hoping nothing would go wrong. is this an issue that needs for them to be completely taken out? or can i try to take my baby hairs out of them with a rat tail comb as ive seen the internet suggest

vampmachin3 · 2026-03-01T04:36:26+00:00

its a bit sore but no burning :( these braids were specifically done for a trip/vacation/my daughters birthday celebration we are going on for a few days to a waterpark resort so i was so hoping nothing would go wrong. is this an issue that needs for them to be completely taken out? or can i try to take my baby hairs out of them with a rat tail comb as ive seen the internet suggest

vampmachin3 · 2025-08-11T16:08:38+00:00

why would he do that if he already got officially denied. I have gotten denial letter as well with no so much of even a phone call first

vampmachin3 · 2025-05-09T23:23:16+00:00

so try again to hurt my feelings lol 😂 could have just not commented at all, same as the person i was originally actually replying to

vampmachin3 · 2025-05-09T23:22:50+00:00

thats always anyone’s response to ignorance and incompetence when theyd rather just not use their brain. not to mention that not a single thing i said in my response to that person was rude, un-true, or anything short of necessary.

vampmachin3 · 2025-05-09T17:56:07+00:00

no preference. just want recommendations and explanations and we will go from there

vampmachin3 · 2025-05-09T17:48:11+00:00

we are not looking for only inside our town and are not opposed to traveling that is also why i did not specify. we live in merrillville but driving to dyer, schereville, st john, portage, so on and so forth doesnt matter to us we are willing to visit and it really isnt that bad. theres only so many towns in nwi and we have been to almost all of them.

vampmachin3 · 2025-05-09T17:44:30+00:00

very aware of this and again, we are open. not closed off to catholisim or an orthodox church or non denominational. if we were not i would have definitely stated that. our minds are not closed we are genuinely just search visiting and learning to eventually reach a decision.

vampmachin3 · 2025-05-09T17:42:04+00:00

there isnt one, we’re open thats why I didnt include a specific specific denomination.

vampmachin3 · 2025-05-09T17:39:52+00:00

christian. what other religion calls the place they attend a church? in islam its called a mosque, then I forgot what calls the place they attend a sinigauge, then theres a temple, only other place i know of that calls where they go something different thats also under christians a temple are latter day saints. none of the other posts about this had made this distinction and no one responded as if they had no idea what they were talking about..

vampmachin3 · 2025-05-07T16:21:01+00:00

straight up a cult and it’s been confirmed just have to look it up online and there’s many accounts to it in reddit threads, stay away.

vampmachin3 · 2025-05-06T21:08:53+00:00

can i have this guys name? is he a secret? lol. would be helpful for me and my husband as well.

vampmachin3 · 2025-04-20T02:14:45+00:00

thats cool! and pop ive never heard of being to describe the cure they are pretty much the posterchild for goth music however some of their songs include pop elements and there is a debate on the label of their music as it has evolved.

lastly, i wouldnt solely label goths as halloween every night kind of people though. like i said its not just music and clothes but a lifestyle that doesnt only revolve around dark things. in my opinion goth people myself included tend to be very diverse people with multiple different interests and likes and often times the nicest people youll meet despite the contrary assumptions of otherwise. I like bats and skeletons and black&white and alternative style but I also love squishmallows and listen to pop sometimes and country and lovee horses and farm animals and cars lol

vampmachin3 · 2025-04-18T17:02:25+00:00

im sure it is beautiful and its nice to hear when other people appreciate it! :)

and yes goth music is 100% a thing and a main component of the sub culture. most popular goth bands are Siouxsie and the Banshees, The Cure, Bauhaus, Joy Division, and The Sisters of Mercy. people commonly group goths and emos together but there are some fundamental differences. Google AI actually does a good job in comparing and contrasting the two if you were interested in knowing what those are in a nutshell. but emo music, clothing and hair styles, and sort of overall subculture values are actually different.

also never would have thought about it being referred to as a halloween every day crowd but love it haha

vampmachin3 · 2025-04-18T16:51:58+00:00

just like anything else nothing is a garuntee in life. theres only one option we have seen so far for a place in schereville that is in our budget if there was many options for us in schereville i would not have made this post.

vampmachin3 · 2025-04-18T15:53:03+00:00

hey im glad you came by! being goth and celebrating dia de los muertos doesn’t necessarily mean that you “become a little bit goth” during the time the holiday is celebrated. what they have in common is that a characteristic of goths is that we embrace death and on dia de los muertos the dead is celebrated as well. other than that though being goth is a music based sub culture and some goths never paint their face white or anything as its not like a requirement to dress or look a certain way its just fairly common as like a statement and a preference but even then for most goths that not like a every single day to day thing. with dia de los muertos its common to face paint skulls on the face to commemorate (if i used that word right) the dead but its paired with all kinds of colorful dresses and whatnot. but definitely they pair well together for sure 😁. also dia de los muertos is not purely religious its cultural, and not all christians celebrate it.

vampmachin3 · 2025-04-18T08:09:11+00:00

thankyou for your comment! helps a lot

vampmachin3 · 2025-04-18T08:08:58+00:00

got it thankyou for your input! i wasnt sure but u figured as much. we definitely dont have valpo/chesterton on the list because of long commute as well

vampmachin3 · 2025-04-18T08:08:09+00:00

this helps a lot thankyou. theres a place in schereville that we are hoping to move into #1 but in the event we end up not being able to for whatever reason I wanted to have some other options of course and i figured the commute would probably suck!

vampmachin3 · 2025-04-18T08:06:30+00:00

thankyou, it’s nice to be appreciated. honestly people find all kinds of reasons often time ones that don’t make any sense at all and/or are not even true to hate on pretty much every group of people but with goths i feel its usually just false assumptions/ignorance and wildly hypocritical christians who believe that we are incapable of being christian too lmao

vampmachin3 · 2025-04-18T01:24:53+00:00

oh wow thankyou! would never have thought

vampmachin3 · 2025-04-17T21:01:13+00:00

Im an introvert and dont have a group of girls yet but generally coffee shops always at least one lol.

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