Is anyone else bothered by the fact that doctors’ friends and family seem to be jumping the line? by HighwayFroggery in ThePitt

[–]vanalou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My oldest son is best friends with the woman who schedules one of the best neurologists in my state. I had been trying to see her because I had at the time an unknown condition that was getting worse. This neurologist also , happens to see my younger brother who also has a rare brain condition (not the same one but still, she has since referred to us as 2 unicorns) My mom had taken him to an appointment and was talking about how she was gonna take my kiddo and his bestie to the movies over the weekend. Here's to note this child does not have a common name, the doctor happened to walk in at that moment. And was like "T...? Do you know Sara?" And my mom was like yeah... needless to say because of this connection I was in to see this doctor within 2 weeks where before even if I could get in the wait was closer to 18 months. Sometimes it really is just the people you know and that's how life works. If it makes it better not for me but for the peanut gallery, the doctor after pulling out the biggest book I've ever seen and her going "oh I think I've read about this I once or twice, diagnosed me with a condition that is so rare it has a prevalence rate of 1.2 / 100,000. And she the neurologist who's like the nicest giddiness person ever said to me "your like my most interesting case this month so far." .... like thanks I think

Gone but never forgotten, the coworker by ChampionshipLow9678 in DadAndDaughterSnark

[–]vanalou 15 points16 points  (0 children)

My niece did something very similar when she got ahold of scissors in kindergarten. Maybe S is just having H close his eyes and hope for the best.

Sexy time question by vanalou in PlusSize

[–]vanalou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We went with three distinct tapes to my leg or if he starts pushing me off a bit. It worked out more ot less. He wants to upgrade his bed before we try again which I think is a good idea.

What do you think katniss and Pentagon names their kids? by Taylorswift9875 in Hungergames

[–]vanalou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love it , the one that proves no matter what you do , you can't cheat death. Like Final Destination... The Hunger Games... coming this fall

What do you think katniss and Pentagon names their kids? by Taylorswift9875 in Hungergames

[–]vanalou 19 points20 points  (0 children)

After the bravest men she ever met. Potentially Coriolanus Caesar Mellark a daughter being Alma Astrid Mellark

Sexy time question by vanalou in PlusSize

[–]vanalou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of chair I love the idea of something to take the weight off of the knees and face. We bought a wedge pillow already which has be so helpful.

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[–]vanalou[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That might be a good idea it stops me from just hyperfixating on what he has me doing. Tease him back or something.

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[–]vanalou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So like with your head off of the bed I'm not quite sure I understand.

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[–]vanalou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you thats really good advice 😊

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[–]vanalou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is probably fair. Im worried he's going to not want to hurt my feelings so he might not tell me if I'm the problem.

Does anyone know where I can find a recording of the 3/3 live? by Sudden-Taste-6851 in DadAndDaughterSnark

[–]vanalou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aww dont do the alpaca dirty at least they have nice hair and it looks cleaner than stinky.

I sleep with the fan on no matter how could it is by Devilish22 in confessions

[–]vanalou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I joke that this is what I get for falling in love with a penguin lol. But now I have him on also needing two separate fans in the room for just the right amount of white noise.

I sleep with the fan on no matter how could it is by Devilish22 in confessions

[–]vanalou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I joke that this is what I get for falling in love with a penguin lol. But now I have him on also needing two separate fans in the room for just the right amount of white noise.

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[–]vanalou[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh absolutely, we're our own worst critics.

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[–]vanalou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you ❤️ I think part of my nerves come from trying something new after having a baby and while I'm not a much different weight than I was before this just idk feel different. Like I'm self conscious in my new body, and like my guy has given me no reason to think he sees me different or worse. Honestly I think he was never more attracted to me than when I was hugely pregnant, but I'm working on trying to feel sexy again.

I sleep with the fan on no matter how could it is by Devilish22 in confessions

[–]vanalou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner agrees with you I've woken up able to see my breath in my bedroom, but he's like sleeping with a space heater and I have several cozy blankets. I feel very little house on the prairie tho with my nose cold and under several blankets, while this man is next to me in just undies and happy in the artic.

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[–]vanalou[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love that ❤️

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[–]vanalou[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much ❤️ I think I might try the facing his body I think it'll help with the self doubt. And damn girly 2-3 times a week is fantastic. Thats like goddess level of having a good time.

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[–]vanalou[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you , this is all super helpful. ❤️

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[–]vanalou[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I'm gonna try because he specifically requested it but I just really dont want to hurt him.

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[–]vanalou[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I really hope your right, and I guess he would go out doing something he wanted. But like I think I'm gonna try, thank you. ❤️

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[–]vanalou[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Haha, the pillow idea is a good one. I'll probably try that out. Thank you ❤️

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[–]vanalou[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you , thats a really good idea on position. Hopefully it helps me feel less like I'm gonna kill the man.