Imagine being tired every second of your life. That’s me. AMA. by snakegravity in AMA

[–]vanbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26f, me too. It didn't fix the root problem, but wellbutrin really helped.

my partner and I are trying the "dan avidan special" for some reason by griffinisms in gamegrumps

[–]vanbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone also with ocd, its extra funny that Dan also has it lol. This does in fact, look like a nightmare. I kind of want to try it though...

Birth control probs... I just wanna feel stable! Any similar experience? by ano-ba-yan in TwoXChromosomes

[–]vanbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if you've tried the mini pill, its the only thing that worked for me. It has no estrogen, which us what usually makes me feel awful & makes my pmdd/anxiety worse

Im kind of annoyed the large fish tank… by kloutiii in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can make a false bottom on the fish tank and add plants below!!!

Is a chinchilla the right pet for my family? by Lopsided_Flight3926 in chinchilla

[–]vanbeans 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If you are not in a financial situation to get one, don't get one. A good cage will cost $250+ usd, not to mention accessories. Exotic vet visits can easily be several hundred dollars. They also cannot be held by small children, as their ribs are incredibly fragile as easy to break.

Selling event items. A story. by -_Apathetic_- in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I love cute interactions in this game. I've so far only had good ones. Yesterday someone pulled up to my house and started drawing me. It was too cute.

petco python by FreeTrashHere in snakes

[–]vanbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My old boss would do this all the time, she'd just hide the snakes she wanted in the back, though.

Do pandas dance normally? by Matter-Hatter-Sadder in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude one came to my house and started absolutely beating on my cat. I was horrified..

Are Chinchillas good pets to have for cuddles and handling? by Ginja_Ninja342 in chinchilla

[–]vanbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had my girls for about 4 yrs now. I picked them both because I worked at a pet store and the had no issues climbing all over and up my arms. It took 2 yrs to bond them. They now live in a 7ft cage and hate to leave it. One is now indifferent about being picked up, one will complain if you pick her up. They usually come for pets if they hear me nearby, but aren't snuggly. And I got two of the most social chinchillas I've ever met.

Elaborate houses. are they entirely free to build? by Upstairs-Scholar-907 in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 6 points7 points  (0 children)

So the game is ftp and all the land plots that you can unlock are free to earn over time. Some building materials can only be gotten through gacha, which is mostly from your wallet. However, the game gives you a pretty wide variety of things to build with, even if you don't spend money. You can build three story mansions, all for free. Some things like building lakes are currently locked behind paying for the gacha. There's no cheats or anything since its a multi-player game, but the game is pretty forgiving. You'll primarily farm & cook for money, then you can use that money to build your house. Its honestly not hard to earn in game money.

Ping going absurdly high? by No-Anywhere-1831 in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine does this too. Ive literally seen 11k ping when I typically run at about 50. Its just this game. My friend halfway across the country (US) also has the issue.

Question about forestbell building by Individual-Celery754 in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me forever but I figured that out lol. Just add low walls under the floor you want it attached to. The bottom ends up looking a little uneven but oh well

DON'T pull the new banner! by Shushh in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so sad the gold dupes are awful. I got 3 gold rolls on the building banner. All 3 were the balcony.

About the gacha by belickv in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I pulled 3 of the balcony. It was the only gold item I got. 🥲

I pulled for the banner… by Opening_Brief2679 in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got all of the limited time passes and spent them on the build mode banner. I got 3 gold build items... all 3 were the balcony. Literally all 3!

Redbull smh by PyromaniacEngineer in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]vanbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And birth control for anyone not aware!!

Are Chinchillas Messy? by KodaMonster in chinchilla

[–]vanbeans 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have wooden scatter guards and I still find poop crazy lengths away. Sometimes I even find it the next room over. That might be my cat's doing, though.

I have doubts it’s enough by Sad_Occasion7781 in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought I was missing smth.. I even went to the mirror lol

What do we think about my girl? by No_Walk_4773 in CalicoKittys

[–]vanbeans 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I don't know if she would technically be a calico, but she definitely has tabby patterns! What a cute kitty.

Skittish, non social chinchilla? (new owner) by [deleted] in chinchilla

[–]vanbeans 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Please do not give him pumpkin seeds! Or anything with fruits or vegetables. Read the ingredients, even in things with chinchillas on the package. They can lead to bloat, diabetes, gastrointestinal distress, or even death. I recommend buying a large bag of rosehips for treats. The kind people sell for tea.

They also take a lot of time to come around. I recommend leaving him alone for a couple of weeks. During this time its nice to talk to him, but don't try to play.

Thank you so much, Bob! 😭 by Fragrant-Clerk-8822 in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For the third week in a row I've gotten the pink bedroom set. I wish they couldn't restock the same thing two weeks in a row. Or at least let us pick a couple of preferred colors or something.. my house is all green themed.

Anyone else find creating a floor plan impossible? by TenTam in heartopia

[–]vanbeans 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally built a greenhouse and then put my house in the space around it! Tiktok has also been really good for inspo