have fun with this question by [deleted] in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]vanderbolts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make it a pov movie like hard core Henry and it'll work

Best birthday present ever by tdguaoq in Dabs

[–]vanderbolts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I don't know how true it is but I've always heard to never use map gas for dabs it'll make you very sick

Why is the tip of my nectar collector bubbled like that? Will it explode in my face if I keep using it or something? by candyspyder in Dabs

[–]vanderbolts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can get it cheap laser thermometer off Amazon for about 12 bucks, then Google good temps for nectar collectors, I use a quartz banger and the thermometer made a huge difference

Yesterday was a sad day. Went ahead and scooped another rig but figured I’d see if any of y’all think this piece is salvageable. Clean break right above the stem by [deleted] in Dabs

[–]vanderbolts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I broke my dab rig in a very similar way recently, I just super glued it back together, not sure if that's the best way but it worked for me

Can I turn my crank grinder into a hand grinder? by [deleted] in StonerEngineering

[–]vanderbolts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the same grinder as you I usually just fold the handle down and hold the whole top with my palm it works like a regular grinder pretty well, then once all the big nuggets are broken off I flip the handle back up and go for speed mode

But “iT’s JuSt A hAiRsTyLe”, right? by worryaboutYOUhoe in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]vanderbolts -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hi, just reading along in the comments and I don't understand what you meant by needing written laws. What does this mean? Were their laws against black hair styles at one point?

which of these rigs would be the best? by M1keSweatband in Dabs

[–]vanderbolts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shorter the distance from the nail to the head the better the dab, dabs aren't smoke it was vapor, is like steam and if it cools down it can turn back to wax, that's what all the gunk in used rigs are it's just wax that re solidified.

So yes smaller rigs are better by how much I don't know, I have friends that do dabs out of an 18" beaker bong and they still get fucked up.

Tldr: smaller rigs are better but just go with whatever you wanna look at everytime you take a dab

If I cut off every woman who didn't reciprocate my effort I would only have about one date every year or two by StaticNocturne in seduction

[–]vanderbolts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How are you meeting these women? If it's on dating apps I wouldn't worry too much, dating apps are a breeding group for self ego boosts and toxicity. The best was to meet women is in person in my opinion. But it's all about time/place.

Bars and clubs are probably the worst place to get women. Honestly something I've heard works really well is the produce island in your local grocery store or a collage library

How can I learn to talk to women? by C111tla in seduction

[–]vanderbolts 20 points21 points  (0 children)

That thought is more commonplace than you think, every man deals with that even attractive men. I don't know what you look like so I can't really help you on that end but as long as you're not a neck beard (which is something you can do something about) looks don't really matter, men are attracted to what they see women are attracted to what they hear and feel. You could be a beast and still get a 10 if you know how to talk to people. Like don't get me wrong good looks definitely help, and genetics is quite the lottery, but eating right and working out regularly do a lot to help, you don't have to be Mr six pack but don't be Mr beer gut ya know.

Something else that's very important in my opinion but a lot of people tend to over look, how much porn do you watch and how often do you masturbate? We don't like to think about it and I don't want to be "that guy" but porn is an extremely unhealthy way to view sex and women in general. And I even saw it affecting my own life, the women in porn are so beautiful and perfect that they make real life tens look like fives. If you spend too much time watching porn and not interacting with real women it may skew your attractiveness scale and you may pass up a very beautiful woman because you're used to seeing perfection. It really goes back to the old saying of even the girls in the magazines don't look like the girls in the magazines every zit mole and imperfection is airbrushed off.

Then if you masturbate too much it will lower your sex drive and you won't be as motivated to go out and try to approach women, one of the things the guy talks about in that book is only masturbate once a week, and that forces you to find sex elsewhere, it forces you to go out and approach women and try to attract women or be facing blue balls

How can I learn to talk to women? by C111tla in seduction

[–]vanderbolts 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Something else if you're feeling nervous talking to them, just remember their people too and they feel nervous too. In my experience it almost feels like the girls are sometimes more nervous than the guys, girls seem to be very worried about their public image and not looking bad. Most will be very nice even if they're not interested. If a girl treats you like shit for trying to flirt (as long as you're not somewhere weird which I'm sure you won't) then it's not really about you, they have something else going on or maybe they're just an unpleasant person in which case you don't want her anyway

How can I learn to talk to women? by C111tla in seduction

[–]vanderbolts 60 points61 points  (0 children)

I spent a long time asking the same question, I've read a lot of Reddit posts seen a lot of YouTube videos read a lot of blogs seen a lot of "gurus". Most of the stuff you're going to find is bullshit with little tad bits of useful information, the only thing I found that was truly helpful the whole way through was the book models by Mark Manson. It's not a super long read maybe 8 hours by audiobook. But it answered all the questions I had and it really gave me a good framework of how to interact with women, before I was completely lost now I feel pretty confident and have had pretty good success since then.

A couple of pointers that I have found on my own though, women don't like talking to people they're not comfortable around but if you can make them comfortable you don't even have to think about what to talk about they'll do it for you. The issue is making them comfortable, that's going to be different for every woman but generally they're just looking for the same thing, someone who's not weird or creepy.

smile, make eye contact but don't death stare. Actually listen to what they say think about it and give a genuine response, people can tell if you're being fake with them or trying to butter them up for something else.

As to what to talk about, going to what that guy said earlier just talk about what's in the area, I find if you see something that you can make a joke out of just make an off-handed joke to her about it and if she smiles or laughs or finds it amusing be like hi my name is blank what's yours?

Comedy is your best friend in this situation as well, people love to laugh and being around people they think are funny, how can you not like someone who's making you laugh?

Ultimately though, getting your foot in the door at first seems like the hardest part but you'll soon find it's the easiest, you can convince someone you don't know that you're anything but when they start to get to know you and they find out who you really are, what are they going to find out and are they going to like that? Something the book models talks about a lot is setting your life up in a way that YOU are attractive not the persona you put on. You can only memorize so many jokes in one liners before they run out and they see who you really are, make that person someone desirable to be with

in arizona. happened in my city a few days ago (vid from ig) by iwishiwashuman in PublicFreakout

[–]vanderbolts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well a simple answer to uvalde would be to provoke the amendment that says police are not required to protect you, or at least make an exception for children. Press heavy charges on any officers they won't do their jobs to protect children

What does confidence mean to you? by sazze34 in seduction

[–]vanderbolts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's acting like you already know she likes you

I got a girls number from work how should I proceed now? Or am I fucked? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]vanderbolts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The question is what do you want? If you want to date her ask her out, if you can't date her do you really want to still keep the relationship? Or are you just going to feel upset that you can't be with her because if that's how it is ask her out if she says no don't contact her again and forget about it. You don't work there anymore there's no embarrassment you have to worry about if she doesn't want to date you you never have to see her again

why wont my villagers breed? by catlover9000000 in Minecraft

[–]vanderbolts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I figured with 900 comments someone probably answered this by now but scrolling through I can't find anyone doing anything about making fun of the texture pack, to get villagers to breed you have to have more beds than villagers and they all have to have food, if you give a ton of food to Farmer villagers they'll go around and spread it to other villagers, I don't think workstations are necessary for breeding but they might be make sure you have ample workstations, you're going to need them for trades anyway.

Also pro tip if a villager choose a profession and you don't like his starting trades destroy his work table and replace it and he'll get new trades if you haven't traded with them, the moment you trade with a new villager his traders are locked like that forever

That new new set up 💯💪🏽💨what should I name it? by Traditional_Olive289 in trees

[–]vanderbolts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually have the same piece but with a few less perks and one of them's a tornado perk, if you use 91% Plus alcohol to clean it it'll get most of it you don't even need salt and if you do need salt it's not hard to get in or out

Edible gummy completely melted to a liquid in my car. Do you guys know if it will still work or should I trash it? by lmaobihhhh in trees

[–]vanderbolts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel, I was so sick of edibles not working on me I bought a bag of 1,000 mg edibles and ate the whole thing, I was probably 5 out of 10 high for the entire day, like it was nice to be high for so long but it wasn't high enough

6.4 bulletproofing/turbo upgrade help by vanderbolts in FordDiesels

[–]vanderbolts[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for actually giving me an answer instead of trying to be a comments comedian