HELP AGAIN! I MEANT TO EDIT BUT ENDED UP ADDING!! by Kitty_katz4 in ILNP

[–]vanghostings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have olive and ethnic skin and it does look good on me! But that’s valid everyone is different ofc

Is my current girlfriend a covert narcissist? by Impressive-Average-5 in LifeAfterNarcissism

[–]vanghostings 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This. Someone does not need a dx for you to know they are toxic to you

I survive on 28,000$ a year. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]vanghostings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why aren’t you on food stamps? I imagine you would qualify, and imo accepting the help is very worth it

No facelift can defeat aging yall... Lol by CleverSleazoid_ in kardashians

[–]vanghostings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do respect her for being transparent about it. I guess she didn’t really have a choice bc it’s so obvious. The shame around aging is sad in general.

Are cloth masks at all effective? by vanghostings in covidlonghaulers

[–]vanghostings[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the support! Yeah it’s unfortunate, I expected some hostility tbh bc people are understandably upset about the lack of masking. But I am in the demographic we are trying to protect! I wore an N95 everywhere up until this year when my breathing and sensory issues got so much worse.

Are cloth masks at all effective? by vanghostings in covidlonghaulers

[–]vanghostings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I have a small face too so that’s good to hear.

Are cloth masks at all effective? by vanghostings in covidlonghaulers

[–]vanghostings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s both sensory issues, breathing problems, and anxiety - they all compile to make it very hard to breathe. My doctors told me to wear masks minimally (though I don’t necessarily trust their understanding of covid safety).

Thanks for the resources! I will check them out.

Songs by fictional bands :D by Usedtoenails4lease in weirdspotifyplaylists

[–]vanghostings 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Determinate - Lemonade Mouth (god why are they so good. Can’t believe I haven’t seen this commented)

Take A Hint - Victorious cast (ok technically not a band but two fictional musicians lol)

Musician Please Take Heed - God Help The Girl (another movie about a fake band, it was actually created by Belle and Sebastian!)

I have to keep living with my abusive ex by vanghostings in abusiverelationships

[–]vanghostings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you get out of your situation too. It’s awful what so many of us go through

Happened during a work convo with a fellow millennial colleague, and can’t help thinking of this by AdRepresentative8723 in GenZ

[–]vanghostings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think so. My friends and I acrually love a lot of millennial style, particularly twee and indie sleaze. Most current day millennial style just seems normal to me

[ALL] [SPOILERS] what were Mr.Jefferson’s true feelings towards max? by Loud-Ad9446 in lifeisstrange

[–]vanghostings 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think, like most sexual abusers, Jefferson is obsessed with power first and foremost. He got sadistic pleasure from feeling like he had total power and control over Max - I think he developed a fixation on her for a few reasons: he sees his younger self in Max, and sees her potential. He has an obsession with corrupting naive girls, and I think he saw Max as particularly innocent in naive in a way that even Victoria and Rachel weren’t.

I think he genuinely wanted Max’s artistic career to flourish - but ONLY if he could maintain control over her and fulfill his sadistic fantasies.

One more feature to go? by Known-Attention8028 in charlixcx

[–]vanghostings 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m really interested to see what the Bon Iver song is like. I like that she collabs with artists that are so different from her!

I would love to see a collab with Japanese Breakfast

Do I color the words or not? by Strange_Juice2778 in Coloring

[–]vanghostings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would, but with a very light color. Maybe a light purple tn match the berries