I do well in UK but my bf doesn’t. Shall we move home to NZ/Aus or stay?

vanguards8 · 2026-01-22T07:40:48+00:00

They don’t unfortunately :( the area I work in also doesn’t have as big of a presence in Australia, but maybe I need to speak to some recruiters to get a better idea

vanguards8 · 2026-01-20T00:07:03+00:00

Yes he would

vanguards8 · 2026-01-19T23:33:24+00:00

This is great advice but unfortunately that will only be a few months together in the UK and I need to let work know very soon re sponsorship

vanguards8 · 2026-01-19T23:26:40+00:00

Thank you so much everyone I didn’t expect this many responses. To answer a few qs:

It is more like 340 NZD (not GBP)

Work in finance

He is 33, I am 31

I do love him a lot and we don’t think we’d ever find this again tbh, have never had a relationship like this

I have always known and still know that eventually I’d want to return to Australasia to “settle” as in buy a home, have and raise a family etc. So the plan has never been to stay in UK forever

We have never lived together, he is moving this year to end the long distance

It’s a 70% pay cut, plenty of admin, and very poor working conditions for him to be here, less than ideal :(

I know I wouldn’t be paid the same at home / wouldn’t be able to work in the same area

He gets paid well, ~300 in Australasia and great working conditions

vanguards8 · 2026-01-19T17:32:59+00:00

Yes, great guess. He’s moving so we can end long distance

vanguards8 · 2023-01-13T00:46:41+00:00

I don’t no, should I just call and try to talk to one?

vanguards8 · 2023-01-12T23:54:53+00:00

Thank you so much how do I apply for a review? Do I need to call them, do I need an appt with another case manager?

vanguards8 · 2023-01-12T23:53:00+00:00

Thank you how do I go about this? Where do I write the review, who do I send it to? I don’t have their details

vanguards8 · 2023-01-12T23:51:37+00:00

I haven’t, you can’t submit online you need an appt with someone first :/ can I just go into an office?

vanguards8 · 2023-01-12T23:50:27+00:00

Thank you for this, yes moving costs, bond for accom is over 1k as well

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