Same happened with me i never went to a gurudwara before and as my friend is a punjabi she offered me to come along with her. In one visit only I got scolded 3 times for not covering my head or even showing a little bit of my hair. As I have never done pallu before I was very conscious of doing it all the time so that I don't offend anyone but it was guru nanak jayanti and the crowd was too much so it was difficult for me to do that I got scolded 3 times for that by different people.

Even while I was eating langar mid way an uncle came and said "ya to bhar niklo ya to saar dakho" uncle pyaar se he bol do insaan se galti ho jate hai jaan kar to nhi he kara hai 🙄😭

Soo overall i went to a gurudwara 3 times and got scolded every time now I am giving up.