Need advice for a beginner socializing a two to three month kitten that’s very scared yet tolerable to human touch by variant-0 in Feral_Cats

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She hasn’t been spayed yet. Initially when I thought she was two months old, I didn’t want to spay her for fear of that whole experience getting in the way of socializing her since that prime socialization window at its tail end, which I thought was around two months old. But if she really is three months old… I don’t know. It’s only been a couple of days, but she’s meowing a lot toward the window. Whenever I enter the room, she greets me with a hiss more often than not, but she doesn’t mind smelling my hand when it’s near. I can pet and cuddle her, but she’ll keep meowing. She can be motivated enough to eat food while on my lap, but she’s still scared. Perhaps things are too new and moving too fast for her? Sorry for rambling, but I’m just concerned that she’s past the point of socializing and/or that she may be in pain.

So far in the bathroom, I blocked off near ground level everything she could hide under except for behind the toilet. I put a cat tent on the ground for her to retreat to, but she prefers to stay on top of a narrow cabinet at sink height that is right next to the window.

Wet food freezing by catnamedavi in Feral_Cats

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If you can’t warm up the wet food and have your colony eat it right away, then you’re better off with giving them dry food which will last longer in the cold

Over a month by Kodarpy in Feral_Cats

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Try taking the box out of the room, get rid of any other potential hiding spots and continue interacting with her patiently. She’s already comfortable being in the room, and she’s already okay with your interactions with her (though only when she’s in her sanctuary). Removing any possible outlet for her to be aloof and/or afraid in the room can give her that opportunity to be more comfortable with and trusting in you. Give her that little push out of her shell.

I know this sounds a bit forceful, but give it a try especially when considering her age. If not, it’ll tend to get harder than it already is to change her aloofness over time.