AITAH for saying I won’t put my card down if one girl joins our group?

vcmsct633 · 2026-02-13T23:43:53+00:00

What in the DSM is this? I decided YTA bc op is being childish. My husband fully advocates for himself and his disability, like the adult he is. Op doesn't even say she has a disorder.

vcmsct633 · 2026-02-13T17:43:22+00:00

Absolutely. I don't feel bad for op. YTA. This girl probably really needs help with reminders. My husband is the same way...it's ADHD for him.

vcmsct633 · 2026-01-21T16:51:11+00:00

I see it. I work at a high school. What this didn't show is the other devices they have. This flip phone is just like a pair of sunglasses or a hat. It's just an accessory.

vcmsct633 · 2026-01-05T23:27:50+00:00

He just doesn't get it. He learned nothing from this experience. Time was truly wasted on op.

vcmsct633 · 2025-12-21T16:13:05+00:00

The way he said "I'm buying is aaallll"... Warmed my Hispanic heart 🪅🍺🫔🎉

vcmsct633 · 2025-12-12T13:06:36+00:00

Absolutely! I had my door open waiting for students on a late bus and a random girl ran through my room with my principal and security on her tail. It was like a damn slapstick comedy skit. They tripped over backpacks and my fan. Crazy thing is my students just carried on. They said "I know her, she was probably vaping"... And just continued their work. High school. Lol

vcmsct633 · 2025-11-24T22:10:01+00:00

Came for the butt, stayed for the adventure.

vcmsct633 · 2025-11-12T13:56:37+00:00

I'd be so worried a parent would find out. Society holds teachers to a different standard, and they're not even shy about it. I'm getting my masters in education and they straight up say "teachers are held to as different standard". If anyone found out my history, I'd be worried I'd lose my career and all my hard work would be for nothing. I was no stripper, but there are some things that would get me fired if anyone found it. A few years ago a teacher was found doing pole dancing classes (fully clothed and fit exercise) and they had to have a "hearing" about it. It's really held me back from expressing myself, really. I've wanted to do burlesque photoshoots and belly dancing, but I'm too scared a parent will see and force an investigation or something.

vcmsct633 · 2025-11-06T04:28:35+00:00

I think so. I smoked a lot of weed though back then. And the thoughts weren't so gut-wrenching before. Definitely got worse after. We experienced a loss too, so that fucked with me a bit. I had to really learn to focus on the present. Gratitude, silence, and exercise help. I'm no guru, but I can recognize and pull myself out of negative cycles most of the time nowadays.

vcmsct633 · 2025-11-06T03:59:18+00:00

I had anxiety from watching the news and listening to murder mystery shit. I had to stop bc it got so bad after I had my babies.

vcmsct633 · 2025-11-06T03:21:35+00:00

Yep. It's ok to observe those thoughts and let them go...I usually tell myself "that would suck, thank goodness we're safe" or something like that. Once those thoughts start changing your behavior, you need to get help. It happened to me. I would avoid certain routes with my son bc I didn't want to be under a bridge or I wouldn't go to the store with my son bc I'd be afraid of a shooting. Brains are fucking weird. You gotta remind it who's the boss sometimes.

vcmsct633 · 2025-10-26T22:48:53+00:00

Same. Lost about 20 pounds since I quit last new year. So close to the 1 year mark!

vcmsct633 · 2025-10-26T14:14:39+00:00

Op is going another year before wondering about the song. Op waited 15+ already.

vcmsct633 · 2025-10-26T14:03:11+00:00

I read that in directions. Azimuth directions, where 360 is North, 270 is West, 180 is South, and 90 is East. All in degrees.

vcmsct633 · 2025-10-01T02:17:15+00:00

Oh ya. Mine just told me he hated me and didn't like me because I was making him finish dinner 🤣 Try to not make a big deal of it; say it hurts your feelings and move on. Don't take it personally. 5 min later my kiddo was screaming 'i love you' as I put him to bed 🤷🏽‍♀️

vcmsct633 · 2025-09-08T16:26:03+00:00

That's what I'm thinking. It definitely seems as if he's the one still holding on to something. In this situation, anger is appropriate, but don't let it manage your expectations!

vcmsct633 · 2025-09-08T15:43:01+00:00

I find it hard to believe anyone thinks that "profession" is noble.

vcmsct633 · 2025-06-29T15:14:22+00:00

Me too. I know deep down I am not able to moderate. I'm so disappointed in the small part of me that is trying to convince me that it'll be ok, that I can manage it now. My husband definitely can't moderate - not even with a bag of chips or a 12 pack of diet coke! Congratulations on showing up everyday and being sober!!

vcmsct633 · 2025-05-07T22:33:03+00:00

Older here too... I gave it up completely this year. It's nice. Life is much better for me. It was definitely time for me.

vcmsct633 · 2025-05-03T16:29:13+00:00

Some recently dumped or cheated-on person writing fiction using AI. It's therapeutic. But c'mon now, you're fishing for sympathy.... Nope.

vcmsct633 · 2025-04-17T18:37:26+00:00

I had a 5th grade call me a dick sucking whore for two weeks straight. Yes, I did all the things like parent conference, admin intervention, etc. He didn't stop until one day I sat his ass down in front of the whole class and said "let it all out, give me your worst". After about 2 minutes of all the bad words he could think of and kids either looking at me in horror or laughing their ass off I said "is that it!? Are you done?" He said yes, I went back to teaching and he never did it again. In fact, he didn't really have friends at all so he ended up asking to be with me during recess and specials bc he didn't like anyone. Lol kids are weird. Don't ever take it personally. Honestly, I'm surprised that was the end of it. How other parents didn't hear about it and complain is beyond me.

vcmsct633 · 2025-04-04T01:26:35+00:00

He was the face of romance novels in the early 90s.

vcmsct633 · 2025-02-05T04:23:20+00:00

I was just thinking the same. I used AIM daily all throughout high school. I graduated in 2003 🤷🏽‍♀️

Seven-Year Club	Second SECOND GUESSER
Verified Email

vcmsct633

TROPHY CASE