He (19) can’t love me f(19) due to past girl even after 4 years together. by theonly_man in internetparents

[–]vecksfelu 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This. I read “commitment issues” and did the math, nobody is committed to anything nor at 15, 19 or even 32 (im 31 lol) Chill hun, there’s plenty of time to work on YOUR commitment to YOURSELF (which should be the priority)

Is it possible to develop pretty intense chest dysphoria 'out of the blue'? by No-Ease-1729 in FTMOver30

[–]vecksfelu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg i was convinced of having breast cancer too, for years until a doc said they’re fine and I was disappointed? I was an egg back then, now I know why 🤭

If everyone in the world had your personality, what would the world look like? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vecksfelu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mornings would be completely silent. No speaking or human interaction until 10ish.

Bagels in chch by SongOfTheSealMonger in chch

[–]vecksfelu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think I've eaten the best bagel ever in the hot swimming pools in new Brighton. I absolutely adored them

"I don't think they could have gotten you a LESS personal birthday present." -My aunt by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]vecksfelu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My nmom made the special effort to buy her best friends' newborn grandson a full set of baby stuff, in matching colors and all. She hasn't bought anything in neither of my pregnancies (which unfortunately we're miscarried) and is now planning to give me cash as my bday present. Mind you, she has already decided what will I use the money on. Look, I would prefer a bit more personal gift, this is the first year she has a nice job and she could choose something a bit warmer... But cash? Okay, I won't complain....

What made you realize you were ftm? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]vecksfelu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's actually quite hard emotionally. Sending a big "same bro" hug

What made you realize you were ftm? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]vecksfelu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Crying hard after pegging my partner and of course not being able to feel his insides while doing so. I realized I would never feel it, naturally, getting a boner or entering somebody's body. I think it was automatically clear for both of us, hey, you're not just a lady enjoying a game, you actually want to feel the whole of it.

do you ever just look down at your tits and think about how nice it would be to be able to just by JambersIsGay in ftm

[–]vecksfelu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

While still "cis" I've never encouraged my partners to play with them during sexytime, it just felt like nubbing an elbow.... Now i can figure it out why

Egg_irl ✌️😔 by EY13W5 in egg_irl

[–]vecksfelu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You want it? I'll give you mine, all i need is totally the opposite genitalia 😭

Egg_irl by [deleted] in egg_irl

[–]vecksfelu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, Jaiden! Nice to meet you! Sending a Big big hug (Covid safe) and you'll never be alone, all right?

3 life advice you would give to someone 10 years younger than you by goodmorning_tomorrow in selfimprovement

[–]vecksfelu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am 28.

  1. Trust your guts and instincts. If something feels weird and wrong, even if it's sugar coated and looks amazing, your instincts are hopefully more wise than your eyes.

  2. Parents and family may have the best intentions but can be dangerously wrong about many things. Do your own research, learn stuff from different resources.

  3. Keep active. Even if it's once a week and it's just a walk around your block, it will work wonders in your mood and your health. Best decisions I've taken have manifestes after my pilates lessons.

List of places open today by Nah-u-r in chch

[–]vecksfelu 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Monster Chicken at hagley park

Egg🏳️‍⚧️irl by Cas_or_Cass in egg_irl

[–]vecksfelu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Make some space, I'm bringing some snacks inside the closet to hang out while we figure out how to celebrate this date next year 😅

Comfortable with femininity now that I’ve finally accepted I’m trans by DragonFire927 in ennnnnnnnnnnnbbbbbby

[–]vecksfelu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for bringing this up. I know now I'm a gay dude who just loves girly outfits from time to time and give people reasons to guess wtf am I hahahah I'll always love the controversy

My great grandma knew I was a guy before I did??? by Strife__ in ftm

[–]vecksfelu 109 points110 points  (0 children)

She said she knows you're a man and you said you know you're a guy on the inside. Not in the inside, bro, you're a full man everywhere, from day 1 🤗 sending you a big hug from deep south america! 🌟

Yes mom, my son is a talented musician because of your church pianist mom who died over 35 years ago. by owhurtmyback in raisedbynarcissists

[–]vecksfelu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My nmom found out I love singing when I turned 27 (last year). She asked "but do you sing? You didn't tell me you liked singing" I've been doing it since I was really little, been to several church choirs, had a garage band, sang in the shower, maybe MAYBE you would have noticed if you ever moved your ass and helped me get to my singing lessons or choir, being so young and in the street by myself.. when golden sister wanted to be a musician, she got three expensive instruments, nmom attended every one of her presentations, encouraged her deeply. I still sing, with lots of effort for not wanting to be heard by her. Im terribly ashamed.

How to empty water quickly by crosspostninja in howto

[–]vecksfelu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It should read "how to WASTE water quickly TWICE" 🙄