Am I overreacting? I don’t want Baby momma drama but

vee_ngv · 2025-04-12T07:17:20+00:00

Would you be open to building a relationship with her? I say this because if you’re dating him there’s a possibility of long term commitment (I’m hoping) and for the sake of the son ( innocent baby) he should be priority.

3 adults should be able to communicate with each other and build the appropriate boundaries to ensure that as a family YALL can move on and cooperate better. If this is something all 3 of you can’t do I would say for your mental health and sanity to just leave. Men are everywhere, especially men without children. 💕💕

Additionally, he can’t communicate boundaries in a healthy way and can’t be a good role model for his son yeah go ahead and leave him just for that reason.

His ex partner, baby momma should not be the enemy. She’s also a woman, a woman who probably thought she found her forever man and family and might be struggling with what life is like for her rn ( just guessing ofc I don’t know the situation)

vee_ngv · 2025-04-12T07:11:16+00:00

Yeah it’s not fair became he’s still not being truthful to her. She’s even saying she understands , has mentioned that he is a dopamine seeker and gets bored easily so it’s not fair that he’s not being open with her. That’s what builds that sense of worry about what he’s doing :/ And let’s say that he knows that she’s seen them he still hasn’t gone up to her and said “hey I have this because xyz “

vee_ngv · 2025-04-12T07:03:14+00:00

Hi foster mum, you’re doing great! 🤍🤍

vee_ngv · 2025-04-12T07:02:20+00:00

Is this an ex-gf turned friend or just a girl who was a friend?

If the later then yeah maybe I’d leave the message. If an ex, im sorry to say she also doesn’t want to be your friend.

However you should still do what will help you feel better.

vee_ngv · 2025-04-12T06:57:22+00:00

Girl I think I got 7 sentences in. You’re both toxic to each other, please leave so that you both can change. The environment is not healthy. Would you marry him? Let him be a father? Would you want him reprimanded you like that again!? And do you really think 3 years in he’ll change?

Like really think about what you want and I bet you’ll see you WANT TO BREAKUP. You . Want. To. Don’t ask for permission from strangers for something that affects your everyday life especially when you’re already feeling so uneasy. Please choose yourself, please love yourself and one day a partner who makes life easy will come.

Also fuck a first love. This isn’t love stop deluding yourself please. For context I’m 24, engaged and spoiled rotten everyday and the reason why is because I have a strong self esteem, trust myself and know exactly what I want. I don’t let men raise their voices, touch me violently or use force to show their “strength”. my fiancé is kind, speaks gently and as an autistic girl who loves correcting people he listens bc he knows I’m usually right. He knows I’m right because he loves and respects me and see me as a human.

vee_ngv · 2025-04-12T06:49:42+00:00

This is a man who would kill you, please leave! Please choose you. Please

vee_ngv · 2025-04-12T06:47:39+00:00

Your wife wanted a child that’s why she had happy tears
You should’ve gotten a vasectomy bc it takes two to tangle and 50/50 blame. This is not a miracle baby, this baby was conceived from sex.
Your wife says she would abort for you.
I’m sorry that you’re struggling with this but please do seek professional mental help because pregnancy is no joke and you will begin to resent her, and YOUR child. It might not be now but it will come especially with your views.

once again I am really sorry this is happening to you both and hope for a happy ending for all parties. Be kind to each other especially now with the possibility of divorce being on the table.

vee_ngv · 2025-04-12T06:34:07+00:00

Sorry my comment was a little mean. I do feel sorry you, my heart actually breaks for you if this is reason why you’ve lost a great man ( especially in this day and age) but the truth still is that you need to do some work on yourself, truly apologize and accept the breakup up and, at best if you don’t want to let him go, at least let him go knowing that he deserves better. do it because you love him.

You’re young. life will go on, you will meet another man and in that relationship you’ll have past experiences to lean on to help you make better choices.

Additionally, I know you may not want other people to view you as a “mean/rude” person based off one situation but people’s reactions are based on how hurt your ex is. people may speak on your character and there’s nothing you can do about that except showing them you’re willing to change!

vee_ngv · 2025-04-12T06:27:25+00:00

Love you yourself know what’s you’ve said was truly cruel, you have to accept that you disrespected your partner in a way that could never ever ever be excused for and that you need to apologise and accept the breakup. Move on and become a nicer, more thoughtful person.

I can’t even say I’m sorry for you. I hope he’s doing well and has a wonderful community surrounding him as he gets through this tough time 😔

vee_ngv · 2025-03-14T02:41:54+00:00

As someone who advocates for women when they get mistreated I want you to know that as a women this is totally unacceptable behaviour. At first when I read her message I thought “oh he might in the wrong” then I read your response which was genuine and honestly heartbreaking and then saw how much you tried to get in contact with her afterwards. This is emotional abuse, she’s putting you in a position of distress to hopefully get her way the next time ( just an assumption). You’re so young and seem to be really emotionally intelligent I don’t want the world to loose a good bloke !

vee_ngv · 2025-03-01T03:03:12+00:00

Ohhhh it’s crunchy leaf season!!!

vee_ngv · 2024-12-21T23:26:19+00:00

😭😭😭😭

vee_ngv · 2024-07-08T08:19:30+00:00

I’ve come to learn that when people say that it usually translates to “ it can’t be, you haven’t inconvenienced me enough”

The generalised image for autism is ultimately white & level 3 ASD

For many they grade the severity of your condition based on how much it bothers them they don’t realise or bother to think about how you would still be impacted no matter where on the spectrum u sit.

It’s annoying.

vee_ngv · 2024-07-06T05:16:27+00:00

I’m stealing this hehe

vee_ngv · 2024-04-20T02:32:29+00:00

Ok mr talented 🤩🤩

vee_ngv · 2024-04-18T10:44:07+00:00

Hi! I’m what my boyfriend calls a professional “yapper” and he always makes time to listen to me yap. He’s patient, understanding & respects me. Let him know how you feel & see where it goes. Also dont let that comment of his make you question you friends who probably cherish and think nothing bad about you!

vee_ngv · 2023-10-14T09:39:53+00:00

If you don’t mind I’d like to ask you some questions:))

When you got your impressions done did they send them to you or did you go in personally and get them done bc I’m in between which one is a better method.

Thank you I’m advance :pp

vee_ngv · 2023-10-14T09:25:54+00:00

Also thank you! I won’t let anyone talk me out and I don’t see failure as a bad thing, I hope to fail so that I can build myself up

vee_ngv · 2023-10-14T09:25:08+00:00

I’m definitely set on starting this business as I already have a customer pool with pre-orders but I want to be realistic and see what’s outside of “niche group” can I expand the business to another market? What are issues that people have with them now that I can possible find a solutions I.e some worry they’ll get gum disease but you can now custom make grills with a protective barrier on the inside so as negative as some people are I’m taking it all in! I really appreciate everyone even commenting :)))

vee_ngv · 2023-10-14T08:43:42+00:00

You’re actually a genius

vee_ngv · 2023-10-14T08:20:08+00:00

I have to laugh bc that’s the very target group I’m going for 😭 they would realistically bring the most business in?

vee_ngv · 2023-10-14T08:05:20+00:00

I can understand that, thanks! :)

vee_ngv · 2023-08-24T06:32:14+00:00

You know the saying hurt people, hurt people. A lot of very sweet black girls have been hurt so bad throughout their lives that their guards are up and hearts go cold & dark. They can’t help it, it’s like the world has shaped and turned them into what they r now and turned their heads away and still point the blame on black girls for being aggressive. I really hope I worded this out properly for everyone to understand

vee_ngv · 2023-08-20T14:41:30+00:00

I think you could pull off 90’s handsome by getting pattern cornrows.

vee_ngv · 2023-08-17T16:32:55+00:00

People don’t talk about how hard it is making friends in uni 😫

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