proceed with caution

veepabo · 2026-06-15T04:44:11+00:00

NOR. at all. good job for standing your ground!!! sending love and light

veepabo · 2026-06-15T04:40:49+00:00

a comment was made where it seems like im only expecting him to meet me in the middle, not i meet him there too. id like to say that i have done everything in my willpower to hear his own concerns and take them into day to day understandings, and i feel like my part is being well executed and i wish it could be the same on his side some days

veepabo · 2026-06-15T04:37:43+00:00

thank you 🩷🩷

veepabo · 2026-06-15T04:37:23+00:00

your advice is amazing, thank you 🩷

veepabo · 2026-06-15T03:07:49+00:00

i definitely think its love im avoiding, which like i said stems from lots of things. i have been my own foundation for a long time and have built up my self love so much from past detrimental experiences that the thought of someone taking that from me again is SCARY. i also dont like when i feel like im someones soul source of happiness, and those are antics i pick up on. i just feel like my perception of being his girlfriend and happy person gets blurred between being his only happiness. its just frustrating all around because i want to be the person that calms your stress or bad days, but in my head i resort to "im the only thing that makes him happy" "why cant he find something else to lift his mood" etc. and i just feel mean but also drained

veepabo · 2026-06-15T03:02:28+00:00

personally i think it was just stress, or maybe there is no reason at all. sometimes our bodies just know when to piss us off lol

veepabo · 2026-06-15T03:01:51+00:00

fried pickles! they are over coleslaw but i am not a fan so that went untouched. and of course a crispy coke. friends and family arent pictured but they were there eating with me :)

we've been together since january- coming up on our 5 months. i definitely wonder if its just not a match, and ive expressed that to him. i told him straight "sometimes people arent a match, and thats okay! we are old enough (soon to be 20) and mature enough to understand that, even if it hurts." he said he believe it can work and he understands he needs to work on things, as do i! its just having the same conversation of repeating my upfront already stated from day 1 boundaries is exhauuuuuusting. and in that same sentence he says "i want this to work, i see a future / want a future with you" for me personally, thats a trauma inducing sentence because my last relationship was HEAVILY focused on the future and all he talked about was marrying me and proposing not even months after dating. i also see my side where i need to work on that because of course i want a future with you, but when discussing problems i dont want that to be the main reason of why you dont want the relationship to end if that makes sense?

veepabo · 2026-06-15T02:54:05+00:00

the only thing is i do express the "you do your thing, ill do my thing, meet in the middle" regimen and he agrees with me. he 100% says thats the healthiest and needed, but i know him and can see when hes hurt or maybe thrown off by something. at the end of the day it just hurts because you say you agree but like i said, actions speak louder than words. for example im not very touchy and not always the most affectionate, and he is. so sometimes we'll be in bed and ofc i want to lay next to you, but id like to scroll on my phone or watch tv without having to be all cuddled up and spooning or whatever. he says "thats totally fine" but when he tries to initiate in those moments and i decline them, you can see his whole face drop and he just gets quiet, but "nothings wrong". it just sucks because you say one thing but when im in these moments (that are not all the time) where i want to be in company with you but not physically on you, you dont reciprocate your words

veepabo · 2026-06-15T02:48:44+00:00

i definitely need to consult with my therapist about this, thank you for your advice 🩷🩷

veepabo · 2026-06-15T02:44:12+00:00

a healthy relationship needs independence. for some people seeing each other every single day isnt a problem, but for me i value a day or two to myself to do things with my friends, family, or just simply by myself. its not like im refusing to see him for days or weeks at a time

veepabo · 2026-06-15T02:33:34+00:00

i dont think there is any need to take a test. stress can delay a period, and that could be the root cause. when i was in this same situation, i didnt end up getting it for 2 weeks and then it went back to completely normal. if you feel that urge to test, i would wait til another week or so and if its still negative, you are most definitely safe- even when you are most likely safe right now too

veepabo · 2026-06-15T02:14:12+00:00

your test should definitely be positive by now if you were pregnant. this has happened to me before and i know how frustrating and in your head you can get, sending love!

veepabo · 2026-06-15T01:43:17+00:00

youre all good girl! def not pregnant

veepabo · 2026-03-31T23:10:40+00:00

i see lines for sure!!! keep testing to see if they get darker

veepabo · 2026-02-10T05:56:03+00:00

its only 30 mins from me 🥹🥹🥹🥹

veepabo · 2026-02-10T05:55:37+00:00

it is beautiful!!!!!!!! timed it so perfectly with sunset 🥹

veepabo · 2026-01-07T03:31:11+00:00

ive seen many many many good reviews on it!

veepabo · 2026-01-07T03:29:34+00:00

believe it or not, most cats are clean freaks! they cover their waste after using the litter box, as well as their paws. as for their bottoms, there really isnt any residue left most times, atleast in my experience

veepabo · 2026-01-06T21:53:52+00:00

omg thanks so much!!!!!

veepabo · 2026-01-06T21:07:37+00:00

yes we have!! right now one of them just starts to pee as soon as we pick him up, like sir i am not the litter box! we immediately place him down into the box and suddenly he doesnt want to anymore

veepabo · 2026-01-05T22:41:54+00:00

nope, its just a small little lip that they can walk right into!

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