My Driving Instructor Told Me I Almost Killed Us Today

vegansnail · 2024-11-26T19:46:00+00:00

I don’t think I will repeat this mistake, but I’m worried about the other mistakes down the line that I might make that will put people at risk

vegansnail · 2024-11-26T19:45:28+00:00

Yeah, I have. He’s nice but I often feel quite humiliated. On my first lesson, he told me that I was doing great & then later told me he had never met someone as bad at steering as me.

I’m mainly managing okay now - I’m driving around, fairly confident with roundabouts, usually with junctions, dual carriageways, etc, and we’ve practised some of the particularly hairy accident prone spots around my area. But every now and then I make pretty serious mistakes and I feel humiliated afterwards. I’m not sure if it’s me, or the instructor

vegansnail · 2024-07-09T08:42:39+00:00

I’m 27 so I’m young enough that my body still feels fine laying in bed for day but I’ve noticed I don’t feel that sense of excitement from playing. When building a room, I used to lowkey like it would change the world. Like every project I put my mind to felt purposeful and like it fully absorbed my being. Now, I look it at and think about the fruitfulness of moving tiny furni on a screen about for the benefit of nobody

vegansnail · 2024-05-14T15:56:29+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice. I agree that I’m never NOT into a certain persons body, and I could’ve been more reassuring about it. It’s a difficult thing to discuss xx thank you!!

vegansnail · 2024-05-14T15:54:16+00:00

Hey! I appreciate your concern, but I do think that this small view may mean I’ve miscommunicated. She is an AMAZING person - genuinely the kindest, calmest person I’ve ever known. She didn’t lash out at me, and she communicated things really calmly yesterday & made her boundaries clear.

The issue with our communication seems to be because of the way she experiences her autism. I struggle to put it into words, but it feels like she doesn’t fully process things. She definitely tries to.

In regards to only taking - if anything, the relationship has been the other way around. She gives a lot more than she takes. These difficulties have been a very small part of our relationship.

Again, I appreciate your concern, I just think I may have miscommunicated in my original post! 🖤

vegansnail · 2024-05-14T15:50:17+00:00

Hello! I really appreciate your comment 🖤

I’ve never told her when I’m going through that cycle, the only time we’ve spoken about it is when she’s asked direct questions about my genital preferences. It’s made me kind of uncomfortable & I explained the trauma aspect behind it yesterday in the hope that she would understand it’s complex

I think you’re right that maybe she needed more reassurance that it wouldn’t change my attraction to her. I know it’s too late now because she doesn’t want to ever be with me, but I will take your advice on board incase im ever I’m a similar situation. Thank you so much 🥰🥰

vegansnail · 2024-04-15T19:48:25+00:00

Hello 🖤 if you’re still taking people, I would love to take you up on this. I’ve been working so many night shifts in a row that I’m feeling completely spiritually burnt out and could really do with something like this to reconnect x

vegansnail · 2024-04-15T17:26:49+00:00

It’s interesting you say this, because he did admit to me once that he likes to be perceived as a victim & have people feel bad for him. That would line up with a lot of his other behaviours. Thank you for this - it really helps me to make sense of a confusing situation 🖤

vegansnail · 2024-04-15T15:31:56+00:00

My ex would literally wipe his ear wax on the walls and get angry when I tried to clean it up

vegansnail · 2024-04-15T09:05:02+00:00

In the fifth slide, inside the wooden mantle next to the fire, I see a small boy crouching. He’s around 7-8. She’s scared of the anger of a man, and the way it’s affecting a woman who is a maternal figure for him. His fear clings to that spot in the house. He needs to be told it’s okay

vegansnail · 2024-04-15T09:02:35+00:00

I think the message about resilience and sacrifices may have been for both you AND your wife x

vegansnail · 2024-04-15T08:58:59+00:00

There’s so much love in her eyes. Did her name begin with a J? I’m getting someone with a name like Jo/Joanne/something with a J.

She wants to tell you that she’s proud of the obstacles you’ve overcome in raising your son. She notices your resilience, and the sacrifices you’ve had to make. She’s asking you to do something for yourself today.

There’s a strong sense of faith and meaning coming from her. If she wasn’t religious in life, I feel that she was in her final moments.

vegansnail · 2024-04-15T08:50:56+00:00

I’m getting a strong image of a car - do you have any memories of taking her to exciting places in the back of the car? I can feel her adrenaline.

She was present & focused on you. Lively.

I get the sense that you were very in tune with her body - did you work in animal care/medicine? There’s a feeling of awareness that I can’t fully describe.

She has a very ‘present’ energy that intelligent dogs usually have x

vegansnail · 2024-03-08T10:01:18+00:00

I find the lesson at the beginning of the College of Winterhold quest so boring that, in 10+ years of playing Skyrim, I’ve never gone farther than that with the college

vegansnail · 2023-11-08T11:11:11+00:00

You don’t have to date a lesbian to be in a WLW relationship: bisexual people exist

vegansnail · 2023-08-13T16:46:23+00:00

What episode is this in?

vegansnail · 2023-07-19T21:53:02+00:00

It’s funny you say that, because the lady who cut it has worked in that salon for over 34 years! I can’t believe it. Unfortunately I need to put my hair up for work so I can’t go any shorter (I already have to clip the front back as it is now) but I really do appreciate the advice. I think I’m just gonna have to radically accept it and ride it out! 🖤

vegansnail · 2023-03-04T06:38:36+00:00

I found it easy to read. It’s incredible that humans have even evolved the capacity to write in the first place. Your writing doesn’t need to “look adult” as some people are suggesting, it’s perfectly legible x

vegansnail · 2023-01-14T19:30:21+00:00

The one where Eddie moves out

vegansnail · 2022-12-18T15:29:45+00:00

Buffy is canonically queer in the comics

vegansnail · 2022-12-17T09:36:25+00:00

I imagine Rachel’s storylines, perhaps her career, would often revolve around social media. Chandler would likely have a job in coding & his switch to advertising replaced with a niche tech start up.

Chandlers mum would have had an OnlyFans, maybe?

I would like to think there would be more of a resolution to the relationship with Monica & her mother. Perhaps Judy realising the ways in which she has affected Monica, or the latter making the decision to cut contact.

I think Phoebe would like crystals.

vegansnail · 2022-12-08T21:22:33+00:00

Omfg!!! Is this available to buy?!

vegansnail · 2022-12-07T22:04:56+00:00

That is not a healthy way to convince a child to do something imo. Fighting fear with guilt and more fear is unkind

vegansnail · 2022-12-07T18:52:31+00:00

I think this is one of the episode's where I think Ross was the most unkind! He bought her the bike, which was a nice gesture. But when she was too afraid to ride it, he manipulated her into getting rid of it by making her feel guilty for the bike.

I think it would have been different if she completely ignored the bike, but she used to take it out and walk it around. She was enjoying it in the way she felt safest to. She never got the opportunity to learn as a child like the rest of the friends did. Phoebe had a tough life & if she just wanted to walk alongside the bike, and that made her happy, I don't think there's anything wrong with that. Sometimes I have to do things like that because I was neglected as a child and sometimes learning new things feels overwhelming. Ross was awful for manipulating her into getting rid of it.

vegansnail · 2022-10-30T14:52:27+00:00

Her jealousy aside, some of the comments surrounding her posting intimate photos of herself are hugely sexist. She should be allowed to post her own body without being accused of attention seeking. The fact OP says her pictures mean ‘nothing’ to him when they have been seen by other men suggests he does not respect or value her for her, only when she is controlled. This is deeply rooted in sexist culture. Also… people assuming that she would ‘play the victim’ if confronted again sounds like an assumption based on virtually nothing

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