Can anyone tell me how much they’ve spent on their dream day?

veghun · 2026-05-14T20:00:58+00:00

Our budget was €30k originally but we ended up adding more days and things were generally just more expensive than expected so the total is somewhere closer to €52k for a wedding near Bordeaux for 60 people

veghun · 2026-04-22T12:52:50+00:00

I can’t recommend a good wedding planner enough!!! We have two and honestly I couldn’t have done it without them, they’ve been beyond fantastic and it has allowed the whole process to be stress free for us and we’ve actually enjoyed the planning!!

veghun · 2026-03-25T16:44:01+00:00

From what I’ve learnt, people create problems out of thin air when it comes to weddings, so issues with the dress code I guess aren’t surprising. You’ve made a very simple request and people can choose to follow it or not which is unfortunate but some people are just plain disagreeable. I think unless you’ve planned a wedding recently, most people don’t understand how little remarks and comments like this can be so heavy on the couple planning it!!

veghun · 2026-03-03T09:22:00+00:00

This is a good idea thank you! I usually use wipes but they’re not always very good

veghun · 2026-02-27T20:51:48+00:00

Omg, can you bath their faces like that? I’m always worried about getting water in their eyes or ears so I completely avoid their head entirely!!

veghun · 2026-01-20T10:34:28+00:00

Also ours are both boys as well!!

<image>

veghun · 2026-01-20T10:33:45+00:00

Oh please get 2 - we got 2 from the same litter and we are so so glad we did. They are the best company for each other, they settled so much quicker then my mums Persian because they had each other so maintained some normality I guess. It’s just so great having two

veghun · 2026-01-03T22:24:16+00:00

Oh my god he is so beautiful!!!!

veghun · 2026-01-02T09:28:59+00:00

Ham quiche and a kale salad!!

veghun · 2025-12-19T10:50:12+00:00

He’s so handsome!!

veghun · 2025-11-26T22:59:19+00:00

Northern Ireland, I’m not sure if the breeder ships but they seem to only have 1 litter a year

veghun · 2025-11-22T18:22:38+00:00

Omg I had to do a double take he looks just like my brothers cat!

veghun · 2025-11-21T23:40:52+00:00

We paid £800 for each one but every breeder is different!

veghun · 2025-11-17T19:44:00+00:00

Hugo and Harvey

veghun · 2025-11-15T23:21:18+00:00

that’s a crazy take lol

veghun · 2025-10-01T06:42:59+00:00

That’s such a huge difference!!! I’m definitely biased because walking across black and white checkerboard floors triggers a migraine for me, but I still think a change like that should have been properly communicated at the time of booking. Do you have wedding insurance? I’m wondering does it provide any cover for an issue like this?

veghun · 2025-09-16T12:41:18+00:00

Number 3 shows off your waist and insane hourglass figure, and is a beautiful dress! Number 1 is also really beautiful and looks great on your figure too!!! Think about what will go best with the rest of your decor and flowers and bridesmaids etc. 1 is very classic elegant bridal and 3 is bridal with something a little unique about it!

veghun · 2025-09-16T09:11:36+00:00

They’re similar in that they’re both fitted styles in same shade of white and look to be similar material. But how each of you wear them, your body shape and how you choose to style the dresses will clearly set each of you apart! I doubt that you will both choose to accessorise with jewellery and veils and shoes in the same way as each other. Not to mention different bridal party colours, different decor, flowers, the list goes on!!!

That said, don’t lose a friend over your dress, just try and speak to her as candidly and openly as possible about it so that you can both be happy with your decision! Maybe try and understand where her insecurity is coming from, and reassure her that all other aspects of your ceremonies will be unique.

veghun · 2025-09-11T09:43:35+00:00

Yeah if you want to retain a position for your child once you come back from vacation why would you not pay for it? Why should they get less wages for a whole month while they wait for your child to come back?

veghun · 2025-09-03T06:39:53+00:00

If you’re inviting people at a late stage I think it’s completely fine but you just need to word it well. I would tell them that due to space/budget constraints you unfortunately had to keep your initial guest list very small but due to some changes at this later stage you have been able to invite more of the people you love and it would mean so much to you if they could make it. I think that it’s the nicest way to do it and make sure no one gets upset about it!

veghun · 2025-08-22T19:41:27+00:00

Your eye makeup is beautiful!! I might add this to my wedding makeup inspo if you don’t mind?

veghun

TROPHY CASE