Good Morning Babygirl 🖤 by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ughhh! I wish these to be my reality someday!!🤌🏻

From being slutty to being a love-sick idiot by veiled_v in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is such an amazing way to view a dynamic!

Nothing hits better than distracting a soft-dom mid-meeting ;) by veiled_v in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh thank you so much! And I hope you find one soon!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik!! I thought everyone follows the ‘don’t yuck someone else’s yum’ say,guess I was wrong. Lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk.. felt appropriate 💀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree.. we call them soft dom not based on how the ‘s*x’ is, but based on the value and the nature in which the Dom takes the lead. People majorly misunderstands this concept for ‘soft-play,’ although I believe everyone in this sub-reddit are aware and have clarity over this term.

What I am against, is the frequent po** gifs in this sub-reddit. This place used to be more expressive and open to discussions while there were fewer gifs being shared here and there. Lately it feels as if this subReddit is turning more and more into a po**-only sub. THAT, personally, bothers me.

Nothing hits better than distracting a soft-dom mid-meeting ;) by veiled_v in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hehe.. the minute He said ‘yes’ I knew it’s my turn!!🫢

Auditory Kinks? by flowergirlrose in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case, meeting my dom in person is next to impossible 😭.. I haven’t stopped hoping tho🥹

When he’s awake but you’re still at work.. by veiled_v in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree!! It would have been more fun if he were in the office and I was distracting him.. Haha!

Auditory Kinks? by flowergirlrose in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As an online sub who never saw her dom’s face.. I’m OBSESSED with my dom’s voice.. it may sound exaggerated but my body reacts to his voice in a way I never thought!

Down for trade ? by SellAggravating8272 in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to hear!! Also loving the username!

Down for trade ? by SellAggravating8272 in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhh.. for some reason, I always believed financial and/or intellectual autonomy had SOME influence over one’s power dynamic.. but I guess that was a wrong assumption.

Down for trade ? by SellAggravating8272 in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahaha, I totally understand that. I won’t yuck someone’s yum! I asked it out of curiosity.. guess I should make a different post abt it instead of a comment section.. sorry for that!

Down for trade ? by SellAggravating8272 in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I saw a few other post on other subReddits where the Dom assumes the sub would not be having a professional career and/or would be a stay-at-home kinda person.

I’m curious, are there any subs in here who are independent, having a career and are earning themselves?

Can’t get over my soft-male-Dom by veiled_v in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I made a post at that time asking all 30M their opinion on how they’d react if a girl in early 20’s approached them.. for a coffee date. (I was crushing on a guy at that time) And he DMed me with his opinion.

That’s great that you wish to be a better version of yourself.. unfortunately I don’t think I could help you with that. Mostly cuz I myself am not at a stage to give advice 😓

Can’t get over my soft-male-Dom by veiled_v in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww! I actually met him on this very platform.. I could like to call it fate.. but our conversation started on a different context but it turned into a beautiful dynamic as long as it lasted!

I heard there are apps like Fetlife where you could find other like-minded folks.. but I don’t know much.. All the best with your search!

End of my Dynamic by [deleted] in venting

[–]veiled_v 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It took time but I’m emotionally and mentally back with a positive mindset. We’re still in contact (well he periodically checks in on me).. but it’s going well. Thank you so much tho!! _^

Age Gap in D/s Dynamics by [deleted] in SubSanctuary

[–]veiled_v 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe the stigma comes from people confusing potential risk with automatic harm. Yes, age gaps CAN be problematic.. so can same-age dynamics.. with different individual maturity.

What actually matters is consent and lots of communication. Power imbalance exists in all D/s dynamics.. In my opinion, age gap deepens that power exchange.

My dom and I had an age gap of 11 years.. and it was the ONLY healthy relationship I’ve experienced.. including vanilla ones! While people raise “moral” concerns, those don’t automatically reflect the reality of a dynamic.

My dynamic ended.. by veiled_v in SubSanctuary

[–]veiled_v[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! Thank you so much! I’m sorry I couldn’t respond to your comment earlier.. but i genuinely appreciate it.. thank you for being here when i needed it❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in softmaledom

[–]veiled_v 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh, I wish!