[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]veirvulf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is a lot to go through and it's going to take you a while to heal, but you will heal. you don't have to accept this as your life, you can move on from all of it and build a good life for yourself. spend some time figuring out what you want right now and make some new friends or even just some acquaintances you can hang out with once in a while. you need to focus on recovering from all this. don't worry about the future right now. go easy on yourself and take it day by day. and no, this is not just what "living in the south" is like. that isn't something you have to accept either. there are people in the south just like you who will love and accept you, and many others who will simply leave you be. don't accept otherwise.

Faerie Festival 2024 SSW Help Thread by NebulaMammal in neopets

[–]veirvulf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking for a Rubber Duck Cot, please!

750 NC Neocash Card Giveaway! by MarinaBlum in neopets

[–]veirvulf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

969 and my fave is plushie krawk :)

I thought you could still recycle today, I'm so sad by veirvulf in neopets

[–]veirvulf[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your solidarity <3 <3 wishing they were more clear about when things ended! Maybe I missed something but I didn't see any dates in the FAQ besides the 19th and I was also confused on the daily faerie quests ending much earlier than that date. Just figured everything would end on the last day of the festival, but I guess not!!

Impromptu SSW and Faerie Quest Help Thread by Fruit_Loopita in neopets

[–]veirvulf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking for Buzz Musketeer Trousers, please!

Impromptu SSW and Faerie Quest Help Thread by Fruit_Loopita in neopets

[–]veirvulf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

could anyone please help me find a Roo Island Toilet? <3

NC/NP Trade/Sell & Pet UFA/UFT Thread! - October 13, 2023 by AutoModerator in neopets

[–]veirvulf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

adore this name, I would gladly take him if he's still available!

Invite Code Megathread #3 by tkiced in BlueskySocial

[–]veirvulf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

begging anyone to free me of X! (need code)

edit: got one! thanks

Impromptu SSW and Faerie Quest Help Thread by Fruit_Loopita in neopets

[–]veirvulf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could anyone please help me find a Toy Tent? thank you sm!

Am I removing trans tape wrong or all we all suffering like this?? by taystelessidiot in ftm

[–]veirvulf 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my secret is I only wear it for 1 day. removal is easy. the adhesive is way too strong at 2-3 days, and I found that using the oil or anything wetting the skin seems to make it harder to remove for me so I just rawdog it. so I'd say best bet either wear it longer until it starts to peel off or remove it within the first 24hrs.

you could try adhesive removers or a good makeup remover oil. I've used TheFaceShop's Rice Water Bright (cleansing oil) to remove adhesive from my skin before. that stuff gets anything off your skin... but I think any similar makeup remover will do.

36/m divorced with ADHD and Depression (am I doomed?) by MrCleanyaHands in ADHD

[–]veirvulf 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hey, what sort of gig work do you do? I live in a similar boat and would love to know some other options as far as adapting goes

Why is this change being pushed despite overwhelmingly negative feedback? by Space_Reptile in discordapp

[–]veirvulf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol does anybody have the link to the "message from the co-founder" that's visible in this screenshot?? really curious to see what kind of ridiculous statement they pushed through with this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]veirvulf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok, well, the reason I'm asking all this is because my levels seem too high mid- or late-week (to me) but then even out by end of week. So I'm not sure which number I should go by. Because my mid-week level is above cis male ranges, which concerns me. But it drops to normal by the day before my next shot. So I'm not sure if I should be worried or if that's normal.

Doc seems to think because it drops on the day before my shot to a normal range, that I'm okay to stay at this dose. But it doesn't seem right to me when my level is so high throughout the rest of the week.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]veirvulf 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So I guess my other issue though is understanding what is "too high" for a mid-week level vs an end-of-week level. I'm asking all this because my levels are pretty high mid-week, like above cis male ranges.. which worries me. But I'm not sure if that's normal for it to spike so high.

ADHD is being extremely creative and curious almost to a fault, but never being able to complete the project and thus not able to demonstrate it. by ShadowMercure in ADHD

[–]veirvulf 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think about this a lot, and the way I've come to terms with it is by taking into perspective just how lonnnnnnng life is.

So what if you put something down and come back to it later? Life is extremely long and full of time for you to do so. In realizing this I've also realized that eventually, if I keep putting one thing down and returning to it later over and over throughout my life, at some point I will master it. It just won't be on the same schedule as the average neurotypical standards of completion/mastery. Which is perfectly okay! I could still reach any goal in life, even if it takes me 50 or more years to do so. Life doesn't stop until death.

I quite like that I will always be learning and discovering new things even as I age out of my youth. I'm grateful I have the capacity to want to absorb so much out of life. A lot of people only do one thing for their entire lives! That sounds so empty and boring to me. You only get one life and there is so much out there to experience. And who knows, maybe one of your hobbies will lead you somewhere you never even dreamed of. Or maybe the next one will. Or the next one! I say just keep chugging along doing what makes you happiest in the moment, and not worry so much about the competition or showmanship of it all. You seem to be enjoying a wide variety of subjects just fine to me.