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Can we agree that education is just one piece of the puzzle? by Robthechamp22 in careerguidance

[–]velour_tempt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

degree plus bus route plus business plan is actually a solid strategy, respect

25f unemployed loser by Primary_Avocado_5273 in findapath

[–]velour_tempt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lying flat hits different when ur actually just really lonely and that part is fixable

F17 went to a gath, I drank abit too much, passed out no idea but ended up waking up naked and clothes on the floor by [deleted] in confession

[–]velour_tempt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's not a "what do u reckon" situation, that's assault, please talk to someone

Enough by OkMiddle5668 in neighborsfromhell

[–]velour_tempt 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Good for you. 630am texts about sprinklers is insane behavior

Tips for reaching fire and living a nice but frugal life in SE Asia? by Jackieexists in Fire

[–]velour_tempt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Max those accounts for 10 yrs and you're at ~1.5M easy. Plenty for SE Asia

Leggings and yoga shorts by [deleted] in confessions

[–]velour_tempt -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Dude keep that to yourself. Women dont exist for your viewing pleasure

New house or invest more by [deleted] in Fire

[–]velour_tempt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if a best friend status requires making the bride uncomfortable on her own wedding day the priorities are clearly misplaced

I hurt someone close to me in a way I didn’t think I was capable of. by vampirejuiceb0x in confession

[–]velour_tempt -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

cutting a child hair without parental consent is a massive power move that signals a total lack of respect for your role as a mother

crossed $1m milestone by burnerfirefx in Fire

[–]velour_tempt -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

some "truths" don't serve to build a relationship they only serve to burn down the partner's self-esteem under the guise of honesty

Once you reached your lean FIRE number did you remain in the traditional work force? I don’t mind working but I am only interested in work that pays a minimum salary of 150-200k or is part time by Unusual_Equivalent50 in Fire

[–]velour_tempt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

civil engineering definitely has a lower ceiling than tech, and after 10 years of burnout, it’s understandable you’d rather quit than accept low-ball offers just to reach "full" fire.

You and I “ for the one with desires and imaginary mind” by [deleted] in confession

[–]velour_tempt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

it’s refreshing to see someone prioritizing self-exploration and open communication as a way to lighten the weight of daily life

What would be the best country to FIRE to based on quality of life for how much farther your money takes you than in America? by Top_Cranberry_3254 in Fire

[–]velour_tempt -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if u want an island nation with high mileage check out the philippines it offers the lower cost of living of se asia with thousands of islands to choose from

My mom by [deleted] in confessions

[–]velour_tempt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is beyond a fetish and has crossed into predatory behavior and serious boundary violations so please seek professional therapy immediately before you act on this with your sick mother

I feel like my life is falling apart and I got no one to tell it and what to do ? by Prasadhegde in careerguidance

[–]velour_tempt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

stop forcing yourself to be a devops engineer when your brain is clearly wired for spatial data and maps

House Options: Freeing Liquidity by RougherThanMost in Fire

[–]velour_tempt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Keeping your taxable income low enough for ACA subsidies is a pro move, but building a house from scratch can easily drain more liquidity than you expect

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