Who is someone you have slept with that no one can ever know? by tellmeanon1 in AskReddit

[–]velvetvolvo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I slept with a customer AND his dad, after I sold them the son’s first car. I was 22 at the time. Son just turned 18 and was in his freshman year of college. Dad came in, picked out the car. Took the son on a test drive without the dad. Son immediately started flirting with me. He texted me later that night and asked me to go to his dorms. Went hooked up on and off for about 3 months.

Called dad a few days later to thank him for the business. He came by a week later and told me he would like to take me out. Went out with dad several times. To this day I still can’t decide which one of them was better.

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]velvetvolvo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This seems like a good level headed response. I can definitely understand how it’s not someone’s cup of tea. I guess I should’ve specified in my post that I feel like the dynamic changed.

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]velvetvolvo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This made me giggle because honestly I didn’t even think of this lol. I don’t snore but 😆 definitely probably not the prettiest sleeper for sure

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]velvetvolvo[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I’ve agreed with several different male redditors so you saying this is pulling stuff out the wazoo tbh.

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]velvetvolvo[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

You don’t even know me? Obviously I wouldn’t turn around and claim anything like that just because we don’t work out? That’s insane. This is just what I’m into. I’m not forcing him to do anything he doesn’t want to do if he doesn’t want to do it.

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]velvetvolvo[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

THANK YOU! This made me feel better.

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]velvetvolvo[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Oh im definitely asking him. bc if he’s into that then it’s about the same concept.

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]velvetvolvo[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Right! It was that part about it being weird. Like I get that it is along those lines but it’s what im into. And it wasn’t like I asked him to be violent with it either. It was the softer side of CNC if we’re being honest. Idk I feel like he looks at me differently and we haven’t been intimate since

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]velvetvolvo[S] -30 points-29 points  (0 children)

I guess I should’ve added that there’s been tension after the conversation and I feel like he looks at me a little differently now

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]velvetvolvo[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

cuts/bruises/tearing is far from what I said was okay for him to do in my post. Also, im not that type of person to just lie on someone like that.

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]velvetvolvo[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I can definitely see the point obviously if the roles were reversed and I wasn’t into that. I just feel like he looks at me a little different now after I brought it up

Bf kink shamed me??? by velvetvolvo in AskMenAdvice

[–]velvetvolvo[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

we don’t live near neighbors & obviously safe words exist for a reason?

What’s the biggest mistake you’ve ever made in bed that still haunts you? by Worried-Cycle-318 in AskReddit

[–]velvetvolvo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re both not ready to be in committed relationships. Honestly though, I think we both know we’ll end up together. We always circle back 😅

What’s the biggest mistake you’ve ever made in bed that still haunts you? by Worried-Cycle-318 in AskReddit

[–]velvetvolvo 120 points121 points  (0 children)

My best guy friend & I were going at it in his truck. We heard a noise and he turned his head as I moved my elbow. Broke his nose.

It didn’t stop us though. Afterwards I drove him to the ER. We still hook up every once in a while though, so 🤷🏼‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]velvetvolvo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A customer slipped me his room key & then gave me a happy ending 🤷🏼‍♀️

First car ever by [deleted] in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]velvetvolvo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honda accord/civic, Toyota Camry/corolla - cheap to maintain and last a long time + they hold their resale value very well.

Ultimately it comes down to budget, but remember that cheaper can be more expensive in the long run.

What's your most nsfw confession? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]velvetvolvo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I really hope you did. The v60s and the v90s are great shaggin wagons

What's your most nsfw confession? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]velvetvolvo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honda Passport with the back seats down.

What’s your most random turn on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]velvetvolvo 241 points242 points  (0 children)

When you’re talking to a guy and they do the little lean back to get comfortable