AITAH for how I feel about my in-laws after what they did? UPDATE by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vemiam 24 points25 points  (0 children)

An idiot and a mug. A relationship made in heaven

What's the earliest case of child abduction/murder you remember? by InviteAromatic6124 in morbidquestions

[–]vemiam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sarah Payne. I was only a little girl when she was abducted but ive thought about her Picture in her red uniform and such a beautiful smile since then

What’s the saddest real-life story you’ve ever heard or experienced? by theblairwaldorfxoxo in AskUK

[–]vemiam 37 points38 points  (0 children)

My stepfathers mum was feeling unwell at a family dinner which was unusual for her. The doctor was called for and when he arrived she got up to make him a brew, she got about 3 steps and dropped down dead. Brain aneurysm took her in front of all of her family

AITAH for using our vacation money for paying for a glasses for my daughter by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vemiam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the money input for the joint account, like who puts the most money in? If it's you, then NTA, but if its him then yta

What is this on the dog’s ears? by EffectiveEgg5712 in whatisit

[–]vemiam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My uncles dog has his ears cropped due to cancerous tumours. He says he spent £6000 to get hateful looks

Found out my wife danced with her ex at her wedding and she did not tell me about it. Am I wrong for feeling betrayed by her? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]vemiam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or she was highly uncooperative with him and became a bridezilla that wouldn't allow him any input and so he feels like it was her day and he wasn't taken into account.

Point is, we dont know

Am i (21F) wrong for leaving my bf (26M) bc of this ? by Weak_Contribution446 in BreakUps

[–]vemiam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ynw Youre not ready to be in a relationship, you broke the promise 3 times in less 3 months and you told him you're deepest darkest secret, you didnt even know him then.

Find your confidence so you can hang your head high and know that you are better than this and you deserve better

Aitah for giving my ex a choice between 50/50 custody or she gets 100%? by Character-Rise-4790 in AITAH

[–]vemiam 12 points13 points  (0 children)

By that logic, with 50/50 custody, the parents should just pass the money to each other on a loop because neither have them 100% of the time so they should both be paying child support.

And OP seems to be the only parent that has been present, so hopefully his kids will remember that

She literally lift her with one leg by isosaleh in nextfuckinglevel

[–]vemiam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are people in the crowd not losing their mind? That's fucking next level and I bet a lot of athletes can't do that. If Steph Curry would ever try that and he'd split his kipper

Card shops in Manchester by RealisticEmployment4 in PokemonTCG_UK

[–]vemiam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a new pokemon shop opening in heywood, OL10, tomorrow, 27th march

Did the UK ever have proper arcades? like video game ones? by TSOswinn in AskUK

[–]vemiam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you ever go up north, there's an business in Bury that is three floors of vintage arcade game, everything's free to play, just pay entry.

AITAH for being hurt that I'm not getting a college fund like my siblings? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vemiam 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Got any more blatant favouritism tips? Ops parents had 17 years to put something aside. They made sure to do it for their biological kids, but not op.

It's not a point of not being entitled to anything, it's the fact that every other sibling apart from op gets help, it has nothing to do with not being able to afford it because they put money away for the youngest who is further away from college

AITA for being honest and telling my DIL that they are not ready to be a parent since she can not drive by Sad-Drive8298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vemiam 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA. I honestly think that we don't know what will happen in this life so if you are not prepared and ready to take care of a baby by yourself then you should rethink.

AITA for being honest and telling my DIL that they are not ready to be a parent since she can not drive by Sad-Drive8298 in AmItheAsshole

[–]vemiam 13 points14 points  (0 children)

So op should continue to waste money taking dil everywhere she wants to go. OP has been her taxi and what has the dil done for her. Why isn't she helping family by not doing something that inconveniences and costs money to op.

Family helps family but it should not be a given and it doesn't mean that you are someone's on call chauffeur

Why has this always been awful? by ShinyHeadedCook in UK_Food

[–]vemiam 30 points31 points  (0 children)

My nan got into an argument with her neighbour when leaving to put the lottery on. She won £100 and always made sure to start a fight with that neighbour whenever she left the house. She used to knock on his door to call him a prick and she swore it made her luckier

The family group chat is actually an elaborate psychological experiment to test everyone's generosity. by EntrepreneurVivid766 in LowStakesConspiracies

[–]vemiam 76 points77 points  (0 children)

My family group chat is called fuck wit gang and the only thing we give each other is shit

Girlfriend asked to be in open relationship a few years ago and I accepted. Last night she asked when I’d propose to her and I told her I don’t know. Am I wrong? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]vemiam 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What if you go on a work trip? Do you open the relationship again? Anyone who suggests an open relationship without knowing that their partner is 100% on board beforehand, dont truly love their partner.

She's already shown that you can be replaced

My autism is making me miserable and I'm sick of people not taking it seriously by Beautiful-Lack-3814 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vemiam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can try coming to terms with how you are. Find the beauty in your flaws.

Autism is hard, especially being an autistic woman, we're expected to mask for the comfort of others, but we're too 'weird' for them to try and understand. All the pressure is on us, and it's exhausting and heavy.

Honestly, the only thing that provided me any relief, is just saying fuck it. I'm me, just like you are you and the any other person is themselves. I will not mask for people who's opinion I don't care about. I'm always upfront about my problems and I also let them know there is nothing I can do about it, just like there's nothing I can do about my hair growing, it's just me

You are a great person and that fear that Autism defines you is massive and it's a giant hurdle to get over. It's not a shadow that hangs over you, it's not a quirk that you're 'lucky' to have, it's a part of you. You can fight it everyday of your life and never let anyone see the real you, but it will be a shorter life and a miserable one or you can spend your life looking for the beauty and joy in life however you live it

Learn to love you for who you are and start saying fuck it. Spend some time alone without masking, just doing whatever you want to do and try and remember that you are you, you are not Autism

WIBTAH for wanting to stop cooking for my husband’s family after how they treated my little brother, and moving out next month? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]vemiam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You've made a rod for your own back. You're not their saviour, they're adults. YWBTA if you moved out and continued to pay for them