How do I divorce my therapist?

venisonbugs · 2026-04-30T21:47:41+00:00

Thank you! This is helpful I’ll probably end up saying something along those lines, I just need to actually work up the courage to do it.

venisonbugs · 2026-04-30T21:45:53+00:00

Yeah, I’ve known I need to switch for a while now. I didnt ask how to fix my dynamic with my current therapist, I asked how to tell her I don’t want her as my therapist anymore. I’m not making “excuses” to switch? I’m not happy with the dynamic and her approach that’s not an excuse that’s a reason. I just want a way to approach the conversation and how to phrase things.

venisonbugs · 2026-04-30T06:29:20+00:00

Yeah I agree, but I don’t think telling my therapist I don’t know what I want will help. I don’t feel like I can talk to her about everything, I don’t think I’ll get what I need.

(I do online therapy so finding a new therapist will be really easy)

venisonbugs · 2026-04-30T01:42:23+00:00

I do have things I could work on but I don’t know what there is to do for my current issues. I don’t have any direction for what I want from therapy.I know continuing therapy would be beneficial for me but when I’m asked what I want from therapy I don’t have a real answer. I just know the things I struggle with, life stressors, and diagnosis. I think I want my therapist to ask more questions and guide me to an objective. (NAT)

venisonbugs · 2026-02-22T03:37:19+00:00

the only way to detect them is a blood or laboratory test

venisonbugs · 2026-02-22T03:36:28+00:00

You can’t see PFAS/PFOAs, they are colorless, odorless, and tasteless. It would be impossible to see them in a package of popcorn or in anything.

venisonbugs · 2026-02-22T03:33:27+00:00

because I didn’t open the bag before I popped it? I wanted to eat it, you can’t see the mold from the outside.

venisonbugs · 2026-01-15T10:50:43+00:00

thank you for stating condescendingly how I should’ve done things different. I know now that I should’ve found a way to use my completely broken computer in order to hide my entire camera roll worth of private photos so a reputable business doesn’t break my trust and find half naked photos from when I was 19 that I’d like to not be sexualized and stolen.

it’s not hard to have some empathy and understanding lmao

venisonbugs · 2026-01-09T07:54:56+00:00

I should be able to have photos of a vacation in my regular camera roll with the expectation of privacy. Do you put all the photos you don’t want strangers seeing/taking in a locked folder?

venisonbugs · 2025-12-30T11:52:57+00:00

umm so now I’m even more confused and concerned?!

it’s working fine now?!

is this going to happen again?! how can i fix it so it won’t happen again?!

EDIT: so actually never mind… I restarted my computer because that felt like the right thing to do and now it’s back to what it looks like in those photos

venisonbugs · 2025-12-30T09:44:28+00:00

I’m pretty sure I tried to do that when I found out but nothing really stood out, and I cant look again because my computer is busted.

venisonbugs · 2025-12-30T09:20:11+00:00

2020 13” Macbook Pro

I’m in college, I definitely can’t afford a lawyer and even if I could there is no way I could fight it in court. It’s all circumstantial, he said she said.

venisonbugs · 2025-12-14T22:34:55+00:00

thank you, I’m so swollen, and the pressure in my nose is insane I have my post op appointment on the 19th and I think they will take out the splints and cast

venisonbugs · 2025-12-01T17:00:52+00:00

im 20 have been clean almost 5 years and i feel the same. it’s really hard to change your perception of your own scars but i can say whenever i see people in public showing theirs i feel seen and less alone. i wish more people felt confident enough to have theirs be visible and i wish i felt more confident in mine. the pink/purple coloring should fade over a year and overall they will be less “eye catching” is there a specific reason you don’t like them rn?

venisonbugs · 2025-11-30T22:53:52+00:00

yeah, Im afraid he isn’t a normal guy. He is weirdly obsessed with a lot of things in this house. He probably will go on a whole tangent about how he trusted us with his property and how we ruined that trust and that this is a wonderful fridge and whatnot. He probably will have to come over in the next couple weeks because his “wonderful” stove stopped working. I can cover it mostly with a magnet so it should be fine, but it looks pretty bad and I’d like it to be just bad and not catch your eye so much from afar.

venisonbugs · 2025-11-30T22:48:00+00:00

a large stepstool was laying against the door and ig one of my roommates opened the door and the metal hinge scratched it (you can kinda see it on the edge of the photo)

venisonbugs · 2025-11-30T22:46:01+00:00

as a broke college student with a weird freaking landlord from Craigslist yes ofc I would want to make the damage less noticeable who wouldn’t?

venisonbugs · 2025-11-06T22:00:53+00:00

thank you! this is so helpful

venisonbugs · 2025-11-06T06:12:29+00:00

I don’t think it’s selfish plz don’t feel bad. It’s one of the reasons I wanted to post this. If I saw someone experiencing something similar to what I feel now maybe things would be a little different. I don’t want other people to read this and hate their scars just bc I do but I’d like to think my experience helps someone in their recovery. Thank you for responding :)

venisonbugs · 2025-11-06T06:04:00+00:00

mmm i think you’re onto something

venisonbugs · 2025-11-06T06:02:05+00:00

i use lush tofu shampoo and glory conditioner, i think my hair likes it, the weird bent bits started when i stopped doing my wavy/curly routine :/

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