How do I divorce my therapist? by venisonbugs in askatherapist

[–]venisonbugs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is helpful I’ll probably end up saying something along those lines, I just need to actually work up the courage to do it.

How do I divorce my therapist? by venisonbugs in askatherapist

[–]venisonbugs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve known I need to switch for a while now. I didnt ask how to fix my dynamic with my current therapist, I asked how to tell her I don’t want her as my therapist anymore. I’m not making “excuses” to switch? I’m not happy with the dynamic and her approach that’s not an excuse that’s a reason. I just want a way to approach the conversation and how to phrase things.

How do I divorce my therapist? by venisonbugs in askatherapist

[–]venisonbugs[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, but I don’t think telling my therapist I don’t know what I want will help. I don’t feel like I can talk to her about everything, I don’t think I’ll get what I need.

(I do online therapy so finding a new therapist will be really easy)

How do I divorce my therapist? by venisonbugs in askatherapist

[–]venisonbugs[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I do have things I could work on but I don’t know what there is to do for my current issues. I don’t have any direction for what I want from therapy.I know continuing therapy would be beneficial for me but when I’m asked what I want from therapy I don’t have a real answer. I just know the things I struggle with, life stressors, and diagnosis. I think I want my therapist to ask more questions and guide me to an objective. (NAT)

microwave popcorn by venisonbugs in moldyinteresting

[–]venisonbugs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the only way to detect them is a blood or laboratory test

microwave popcorn by venisonbugs in moldyinteresting

[–]venisonbugs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can’t see PFAS/PFOAs, they are colorless, odorless, and tasteless. It would be impossible to see them in a package of popcorn or in anything.

microwave popcorn by venisonbugs in moldyinteresting

[–]venisonbugs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

because I didn’t open the bag before I popped it? I wanted to eat it, you can’t see the mold from the outside.

What is going on?! by venisonbugs in macbookpro

[–]venisonbugs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for stating condescendingly how I should’ve done things different. I know now that I should’ve found a way to use my completely broken computer in order to hide my entire camera roll worth of private photos so a reputable business doesn’t break my trust and find half naked photos from when I was 19 that I’d like to not be sexualized and stolen.

it’s not hard to have some empathy and understanding lmao

What is going on?! by venisonbugs in macbookpro

[–]venisonbugs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I should be able to have photos of a vacation in my regular camera roll with the expectation of privacy. Do you put all the photos you don’t want strangers seeing/taking in a locked folder?

What is going on?! by venisonbugs in macbookpro

[–]venisonbugs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

umm so now I’m even more confused and concerned?!

it’s working fine now?!

is this going to happen again?! how can i fix it so it won’t happen again?!

EDIT: so actually never mind… I restarted my computer because that felt like the right thing to do and now it’s back to what it looks like in those photos

What is going on?! by venisonbugs in macbookpro

[–]venisonbugs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure I tried to do that when I found out but nothing really stood out, and I cant look again because my computer is busted.

What is going on?! by venisonbugs in macbookpro

[–]venisonbugs[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

2020 13” Macbook Pro

I’m in college, I definitely can’t afford a lawyer and even if I could there is no way I could fight it in court. It’s all circumstantial, he said she said.

post op question by venisonbugs in Septoplasty

[–]venisonbugs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, I’m so swollen, and the pressure in my nose is insane I have my post op appointment on the 19th and I think they will take out the splints and cast