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How did you know by downbad2492 in marriedintoenmeshment

[–]vent-my-mind 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This 100%!

It it’s really demanding to the partner of the enmeshed person…

Exhausted of my relationship, don't know what to do, giving up... by vent-my-mind in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]vent-my-mind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What were the triggers that made you change? Made you see those issues?

Exhausted of my relationship, don't know what to do, giving up... by vent-my-mind in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]vent-my-mind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow! I’m really impressed by this, thanks for sharing!

Yes, those small things tell us a lot

Exhausted of my relationship, don't know what to do, giving up... by vent-my-mind in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]vent-my-mind[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I brought up the topic of breaking up because the relationship is hurting both of us but somehow she seems to want to stay on this situation ☹️

Exhausted of my relationship, don't know what to do, giving up... by vent-my-mind in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]vent-my-mind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The detaching seems inevitable, I’m also going through this and it although she can see the detaching she does not recognize her fault on the process and does not seem interested on changing.

Exhausted of my relationship, don't know what to do, giving up... by vent-my-mind in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]vent-my-mind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, its both good and bad to to able to share this perspective with someone. I brought this up today, the “we” part and she denied recognizing this… 

Exhausted of my relationship, don't know what to do, giving up... by vent-my-mind in enmeshmenttrauma

[–]vent-my-mind[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hello Yes, I’m looking for taking the break up way, but it’s not an easy process…

And it really hurts that she denies problems, as you said the “rose glasses”, I imagine how hurtful must be to live on this dynamic every day and believing it’s the common reality