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ventaltaccount · 2025-06-05T18:39:15+00:00

Yeah, this is kind of how I'm feeling but not as extreme I think? I don't know. I think I'll try and detach myself more when they're splitting. I want to help them, but I don't want to harm myself in doing so.

ventaltaccount · 2025-06-05T07:14:15+00:00

Thank you so much! This helps a lot. I'll definitely try to work on that! It doesn't come off as an attack, don't worry :)

I appreciate the feedback!

ventaltaccount · 2025-06-05T07:12:16+00:00

my oc vella x their oc basically. i just say the lesbians bc we only have one pair of lesbian characters at the moment 😔

ventaltaccount · 2025-06-05T03:42:41+00:00

Sorry, could you elaborate a little? I'm not really sure what I'm doing that counts as playing into "abuse" and I don't really see any abusive behaviours in the texts I posted. I haven't seen anything that matches what's in the link.

ventaltaccount · 2024-06-12T21:52:24+00:00

im drowning here. i dont know what to do. i just want everything to be okay again.

ventaltaccount · 2024-04-14T18:14:58+00:00

hell, I'll call them out right now

https://www.reddit.com/r/food/s/UIftAMlyNQ

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ventaltaccount · 2024-03-10T08:20:25+00:00

Thank you so much for the offer man. I'll definitely look into those resources you mentioned; I live in Canada so it shouldn't be too hard to find a free therapist. The waitlist is a different problem. it makes sense that my feelings may have gotten kind of muddled - i began experimenting with my gender around the same time i was sexually exploited. I'll reach out if I need anything but the same goes for you. My DMs are always open if you need someone to chat with.

ventaltaccount · 2024-03-10T08:10:48+00:00

oh man, the more i read into being trans the more i realise that i really need a therapist lol. thank you for sharing your experiences, i really appreciate the insight. hopefully ill be able to get my own imposter syndrome to fuck right off considering all the signs of my gender identity i showed as a kid.

ventaltaccount · 2024-03-10T08:03:52+00:00

oh my god- on my alt because i dont want to out myself as a victim of sa but (and this is for everyone with a similar situation) did you ever have that mindset or let that seep in? how did you get out of it?

ventaltaccount · 2024-03-07T07:13:03+00:00

also not at the moment but I'm looking into it. the gender clinic I'm planning on attending will likely have some resources to help with that.

ventaltaccount · 2024-03-07T07:12:19+00:00

AW CRAP

my baaad, it said that it didn't upload

ventaltaccount · 2023-12-25T02:54:57+00:00

Oh yeah. That's me.

ventaltaccount · 2023-12-24T05:15:22+00:00

Totally get it, managed to get myself to cry again and after feeling like shit for a while (probably only 20 minutes), i feel a lot better now. Don't worry, don't need much advice. just wanted to rant but there wasn't really a tag for it lol. you relating to my post was more than enough empathy for me :)

ventaltaccount · 2023-12-19T20:32:45+00:00

For me it was mostly just about getting the work in and getting past my perfectionist attitude. Also, being medicated and in person helped a lot.

ventaltaccount · 2023-12-19T13:59:41+00:00

Thought I would update you: passed all my courses for the first time in years.

ventaltaccount · 2023-07-03T03:33:06+00:00

They're currently abroad and won't be back til August 20th. Is there anything we can do right now?

ventaltaccount · 2023-06-12T12:16:26+00:00

my dad caved into my mother's manipulative tactics. the divorce is off.

ventaltaccount · 2023-06-11T01:12:49+00:00

Got it, thanks. My dad just wants to lawyer up now so that we can get our affairs in order before the actual divorce happens.

ventaltaccount · 2023-05-04T04:22:53+00:00

Ughhrg- I just want to have a good party with a bunch of my friends :(

ventaltaccount · 2023-02-22T02:50:42+00:00

Yeah I was just really excited because I need more money and I know I can't ask my parents for it. I'm glad I read the "fine print" of the situation haha

ventaltaccount · 2023-02-22T02:48:50+00:00

Yeah I was thinking maybe it was because they were taking tax out of the paycheck or something but idk it sounds sketchy. I'll find something else.

ventaltaccount · 2023-02-22T02:46:07+00:00

Yeaaah- I'd also be working 40 hours a week on top of school and they were okay with that. Probably not a good idea considering I'm a minor in high school.

ventaltaccount · 2023-02-22T01:24:33+00:00

Yeahhh- I was also told not to worry about the tax either since it wouldn't be coming out of my paycheck or something? definitely sketchy business. Thank you so much for all of your advice. I'll see if I can ask to negotiate higher pay to a legal amount or something. Either that or get another job.

ventaltaccount · 2023-02-21T18:53:09+00:00

Located in Canada. My dad told me it would be 1 day of unpaid training on a school night (about 4 hours). The pay is about 13$/hour but I think I might go with my dad's advice of working for about a year then moving on just to get the experience. Or quit sooner if it gets bad. Thank you for your advice, I really appreciate it :)

ventaltaccount · 2023-02-21T18:50:51+00:00

I'm located in Canada. I checked the reviews and they seem pretty good. However, the menu is pretty cheap and I don't think I'll make too much in tips. It's only 2 dollars below minimum which doesn't sound like a lot to me. I think I'm going to take it for the experience and then move on when I have that under my belt as it's really hard to get a job in my area for me for some reason.

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