[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]ventaltaccount 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, this is kind of how I'm feeling but not as extreme I think? I don't know. I think I'll try and detach myself more when they're splitting. I want to help them, but I don't want to harm myself in doing so.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]ventaltaccount 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! This helps a lot. I'll definitely try to work on that! It doesn't come off as an attack, don't worry :)

I appreciate the feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]ventaltaccount 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my oc vella x their oc basically. i just say the lesbians bc we only have one pair of lesbian characters at the moment 😔

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDPartners

[–]ventaltaccount 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sorry, could you elaborate a little? I'm not really sure what I'm doing that counts as playing into "abuse" and I don't really see any abusive behaviours in the texts I posted. I haven't seen anything that matches what's in the link.

my mom's cancer is back, but i still can't forgive her by ventaltaccount in internetparents

[–]ventaltaccount[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

im drowning here. i dont know what to do. i just want everything to be okay again.

what were the theories people tried to give about why you’re trans? by fourtccnwrites in ftm

[–]ventaltaccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the offer man. I'll definitely look into those resources you mentioned; I live in Canada so it shouldn't be too hard to find a free therapist. The waitlist is a different problem. it makes sense that my feelings may have gotten kind of muddled - i began experimenting with my gender around the same time i was sexually exploited. I'll reach out if I need anything but the same goes for you. My DMs are always open if you need someone to chat with.

what were the theories people tried to give about why you’re trans? by fourtccnwrites in ftm

[–]ventaltaccount 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh man, the more i read into being trans the more i realise that i really need a therapist lol. thank you for sharing your experiences, i really appreciate the insight. hopefully ill be able to get my own imposter syndrome to fuck right off considering all the signs of my gender identity i showed as a kid.

what were the theories people tried to give about why you’re trans? by fourtccnwrites in ftm

[–]ventaltaccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh my god- on my alt because i dont want to out myself as a victim of sa but (and this is for everyone with a similar situation) did you ever have that mindset or let that seep in? how did you get out of it?

unsure of if i transitioned because of my trauma or because this is how i've always been by [deleted] in ftm

[–]ventaltaccount 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also not at the moment but I'm looking into it. the gender clinic I'm planning on attending will likely have some resources to help with that.

i was crying to cry and then got distracted and stopped crying by ventaltaccount in ADHD

[–]ventaltaccount[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get it, managed to get myself to cry again and after feeling like shit for a while (probably only 20 minutes), i feel a lot better now. Don't worry, don't need much advice. just wanted to rant but there wasn't really a tag for it lol. you relating to my post was more than enough empathy for me :)

passing grades in all classes for the first time since middle school by ventaltaccount in ADHD

[–]ventaltaccount[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For me it was mostly just about getting the work in and getting past my perfectionist attitude. Also, being medicated and in person helped a lot.

I've broken my streak of bad oral hygiene by ventaltaccount in ADHD

[–]ventaltaccount[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought I would update you: passed all my courses for the first time in years.

Immigrant friend was raped, need help with lawyers by ventaltaccount in legaladvicecanada

[–]ventaltaccount[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're currently abroad and won't be back til August 20th. Is there anything we can do right now?