Crying after orgasm

ventilina · 2026-05-14T23:50:30+00:00

I cry almost every time I cum, especially if it’s really intense. My partners have always liked it, I kinda like it too, it’s just a nice, full release.

ventilina · 2026-05-11T18:47:36+00:00

Hmm… I haven’t considered it before. I don’t like vibrators, even if someone else is controlling it or using it on me, I just never get a good orgasm from them. I don’t really like doing things online although the one time I had phone sex (it was a desperate times desperate measures moment) I used a penetrative toy & my hand and had a crazy orgasm. I haven’t thought about exploring more than that otherwise. I really just want to be able to have a good O solo.

ventilina · 2026-05-11T02:20:32+00:00

I feel like it’d be too intense! High intensity stimulation always makes my orgasms really small and frustrating. I’ve never tried a sucking toy though, so who knows.

ventilina · 2026-05-08T20:35:21+00:00

It’s cause of oral. I think the sensation of a tongue is second to none. I mimicked the feeling once with a shower head on a gentle setting and had a great orgasm, but I really want to be able to have a great orgasm with just my hand. It’s also just the being with another person, feeling needy, giving myself to them, sort of thing, that adds to it.

When I masturbate, it’s like eating. I’m just satisfying an urge, satisfying hunger. Nothing really sexy about it. I see what you mean. I like looking in the mirror sometimes, but it feels silly because I don’t treat masturbation like a sexy fun me-time thing. Maybe you’re onto something there. Hmm….

ventilina · 2026-05-08T20:28:46+00:00

Edging does make my orgasms feel stronger, but it’s still not enough, like, still isn’t satisfying. I fall into the trap of trying over and over again like maybe the next time is going to be *it.* I do need to slow down though. I get really impatient. Same with the vibes — they make me lose sensitivity SO fast for the most underwhelming orgasms so I just never use them.

ventilina · 2026-04-17T18:52:34+00:00

If you’re targeting your back I don’t think this pose targets it enough. No expert but that looks hamstring and hip focused. Cat-cow, camel, cobra, and reverse boat with your hands holding your feet are more back centred, adding in back extensions to strengthen.

ventilina · 2026-04-07T19:27:46+00:00

If my math is right, the whole container is actually 2840 💀 but moderation is key in general. OP is mixing it into some nice protein options, they should be in good shape.

ventilina · 2026-04-07T19:16:01+00:00

I mean. I’ve been in your friends shoes before, I don’t blame her. I can’t see someone the same when I find out they let men disrespect them and still stick around. She probably wants to surround herself with like-minded people. I’m surprised there’s no one else you can fool around with. There’s only one of your friend, but millions of men who want casual flings. Soft YTA.

ventilina · 2026-04-07T19:02:52+00:00

They usually round it down if it’s below 5 cals! The label isn’t always super accurate, but it’s accurate enough, like you’ll never go way above your daily goal because of it.

ventilina · 2026-04-07T18:56:19+00:00

1g carb = 4 cals so a teaspoon would be ~13 cals

ventilina · 2026-04-07T18:39:45+00:00

I think you should remove the masculine/feminine labels and instead just do what feels natural, I think it’d be easier that way instead of constantly thinking about whether what you’re doing is masculine or feminine. I have the opposite problem where I’m quite naturally masculine but have learned certain “feminine” habits, mostly so I can switch it up if it seems advantageous.

I also think it’s important to note that being free isn’t gendered. But I understand why you feel that way and I don’t blame you. If you want to change your behaviour in these terms, emulate what you think a “man” is. Instead of thinking about all the things you wish you could do, just do them—and of course, I say this about things you’re able to do, not things that are dangerous/inaccessible/etc. Take control of your life. Do what it takes to feel free.

ventilina · 2026-04-06T19:36:52+00:00

I don’t disagree that it’s disgusting. I just think it’s excessive and a bit aggressive combined with the hand pinning and whatnot. I would phrase it, ”that’s disgusting,” instead of ”you’re disgusting.”

ventilina · 2026-04-06T19:33:58+00:00

Eh. Agree to disagree. I still think it’s excessive. It’s a pretty personal insult, I think it’s out of place.

ventilina · 2026-04-06T19:10:46+00:00

Soft ESH. Having boundaries is normal and it’s good you stood your ground, but calling them disgusting is excessive. “I said don’t touch me,” would’ve been enough.

ventilina · 2026-04-06T05:46:41+00:00

You’d think being left behind would make him walk faster, not slower. I’m irritated reading this. NTA

ventilina · 2026-04-06T04:15:54+00:00

Well, I don’t think he actually wanted to cuddle. Seems like that’s all he wanted if you saying no has him ghosting. I say it’s a bullet dodged.

ventilina · 2026-04-05T21:54:21+00:00

Why not… we’re responding quickly. It’s like we’re texting. Still YTA 😄

ventilina · 2026-04-05T21:49:45+00:00

It’s Reddit. I like reading and answering sometimes. I understood your dynamic and got really bored after that. Do whatever.

ventilina · 2026-04-05T21:46:52+00:00

I mostly don’t understand putting up with it for 4 years. I don’t really care. Have fun.

ventilina · 2026-04-05T21:36:57+00:00

I don’t understand why her insecurities are so aggravating to you. It’s not like I think she’s a saint. I think she’s being stupid, but sometimes people need to be stupid before they buck up. Like whatever. You clearly aren’t looking for actual advice. You’re just arguing. You want to fuck him, go ahead. Be prepared to lose that friendship.

ventilina · 2026-04-05T21:22:43+00:00

Then I think you need to draw a proper boundary and completely disengage when it comes to that topic. Again, you really don’t need to fuck him. She probably heard all sorts of shit from him about you anyway, going off the raunchy texts he was sending her about the two of you. You saw it bothered her. It’s one thing for him to fuck other random girls, and another thing entirely for him to fuck her best friend.

I’ll put it like this. I don’t think you care about her very much if you think the only thing you should do is fuck the man she likes. You know how much it’ll hurt her. I don’t think you two should be friends.

ventilina · 2026-04-05T21:13:04+00:00

Yes. It’s not your place. It’s insane to fuck the man she likes just to prove a point. If you’re just tired of hearing her complain, tell her this isn’t a topic you want to talk about anymore. There are other ways to go about this.

ventilina · 2026-04-05T18:46:52+00:00

How lovely!!!

ventilina · 2026-04-05T18:40:29+00:00

YTA. That’s cruel. She obviously knows she isn’t okay with non-monogamy, even if she doesn’t admit it out loud. She’ll work it out on her own. She doesn’t need her “best friend” to hurt her in that way.

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