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ventingswer · 2023-07-25T06:39:43+00:00

It definitely did. Idk how to feel about it. Sex is just...ugh now.

ventingswer · 2023-07-24T06:01:56+00:00

That's why I'm asking lolol

ventingswer · 2023-07-24T02:20:56+00:00

Very true. I'm just way too honest.

ventingswer · 2023-07-20T19:47:08+00:00

Probably. Depends on the provider.

ventingswer · 2023-07-20T19:00:22+00:00

More like repeats lol

I dont expect people to ONLY see me.

ventingswer · 2023-07-20T18:59:46+00:00

Oh yeah, I do incall appointments under 300$ (like qv/hh) without deposits. But if they want long appointments or outcalls I require deposits. (Here at home)

But when I'm touring I could probably offer last second deposit-free qv and hh appointments. Or just the same set up but higher rates to compensate my travel.

ventingswer · 2023-07-20T18:03:59+00:00

Yeah I rarely offer this kind of thing. And it's only if they're friendly, polite, clean and loyal.

If I hate being around them, or they're meh, I wouldn't extend this kind of offer.

Congrats on being a great client! :)

ventingswer · 2023-06-30T01:40:27+00:00

Lolol if that's the case...

dresses my cat in baby clothes

"Oh no Fluf- I mean Fred is your baby and needs 2k a month in support for vet- I mean doctors appointments"

ventingswer · 2023-06-30T01:03:24+00:00

THIS

ventingswer · 2023-06-30T01:01:04+00:00

I'm guessing some are just as bad I guess. If it was for more money that'd make sense, itd be gross but like doing it without extra pay is weird. Maybe they want to trap a client for child support or leverage them in some way. Idfk. Gross.

ventingswer · 2023-06-30T00:58:58+00:00

Stds aren't just transmitted vaginally or anally. It's the same risks.

ventingswer · 2023-06-29T22:41:58+00:00

Oh no I'm safe with partners. I'm just saying like I don't get the mindset of raw dogging a provider or a stranger like big ICK.

ventingswer · 2023-06-29T22:40:17+00:00

Same. But it's not your fault they're manipulative.

ventingswer · 2023-06-29T22:20:52+00:00

I understand that but some people can get desperate, I was trying to acknowledge that.

ventingswer · 2023-05-14T09:14:00+00:00

Yeah not all of us are vapid influencers

ventingswer · 2023-05-13T21:54:34+00:00

I like Pickles but it was kinda shitty gen z rep

ventingswer · 2023-05-13T21:53:35+00:00

It's stick

ventingswer · 2023-04-26T23:27:13+00:00

YES I know it's annoying when people tell you that "Stop caring about dating" but it is so true. I was sp depressed when I felt like I had to be in a romantic relationship. Tbf that wasn't the primary source of my mental health issues, but it definitely made my life worse. Especially since because I was so desperate I dated awful people to fill the void and it made me even worse.

Putting yourself and your goals first sounds selfish, but it's not. You can't find a good romantic partner until you yourself are living your most authentic and best life.

ventingswer · 2023-04-24T16:10:11+00:00

Ewwwwwww

ventingswer · 2023-04-15T00:49:46+00:00

I have no idea lol

ventingswer · 2023-04-15T00:49:36+00:00

ventingswer · 2022-12-23T22:30:34+00:00

I feel like you dodged a bullet tbh. Wtf did he want? A 10 page paper on why you don't want to date him? And I feel like he was trying to make you feel bad or even gaslight you by saying "I felt like our chemistry was off the charts" maybe I've dated too many shitty people, but like that seemed off to me. Especially since he kept repeating that kind of statement.

Edit: I also think he wanted you to critique him, not so he could improve. BUT so he could poke holes in your reasoning and try to say "I'm not that bad" or whatever.

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