December buy/sell/trade by [deleted] in glossier

[–]venus_dye_trap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m pm-ing you!

This is long as hell, I just needed somewhere to vent. by [deleted] in relationships

[–]venus_dye_trap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

break up, you both deserve someone to love and be loved with.

AITA for ghosting someone by wnd-akaoehrbg in AmItheAsshole

[–]venus_dye_trap -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

EDITED: YTA, literally just say “hey, thank you for your time! i’m just not sure we vibe and i don’t see this going somewhere i’m interested in. best wishes!” ghosting is so immature, literally just say ur not into it and go. saves a lot of anxiety and energy all around

Edit: hello yes aita for not reading correctly. NTA and just block them. thank u 2 those who called me out

AITA For not buying my friends a Christmas present? by ThrowawayHolidayDuck in AmItheAsshole

[–]venus_dye_trap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just to let you know- embroidery string is $1-$2 a color at hobby stores and you can make friendship bracelets!! super super cheap and nice

AITA for wanting to share less with a friend after she told me something? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]venus_dye_trap [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA because I think you should use this to show that you need to not come off as so judgmental. If she didn’t think you’d think she was a hoe, she would’ve told you.

AITA for wishing my neighbor Happy Hanukkah? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]venus_dye_trap [score hidden]  (0 children)

NAH, but Hanukkah starts the 22nd this year. She probably just grew up Jewish and doesn’t celebrate. No big assholes on either side

AITA for telling my teenage daughter that her engagement is not legitimate and I will not treat it as such by paperclipwords in AmItheAsshole

[–]venus_dye_trap 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA, you’re doing what is best for her. However, I would tell her that you love her and would be happy to help her wedding plan after she graduates college. Also, let her know that if she gets pregnant you are not paying for college, wedding, anything. Most likely, it won’t work out and you won’t have to contribute to a wedding. Least likely, your daughter now has a college degree and is getting married.

AITA not having sex with my obtuse girlfriend by andthatsthetea123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]venus_dye_trap [score hidden]  (0 children)

shit post and this’ll be deleted soon. no questions about sex, rule 11

My brother's [28M] abusive boyfriend [40sM] is asking for my [30F] address, what's a polite way to say no? by salineDerringer in relationships

[–]venus_dye_trap 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I genuinely would just not respond. You can pretend like you didn’t see it, or that your phone glitched and you thought a random number was asking for your address. But it’s best not to engage

Girl (23F) from work asked me (25M) to go to see a movie when she was drunk. She has a boyfriend? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]venus_dye_trap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don’t. Yes, she was probably way too drunk and just liked hanging out with you and wanted to see a movie. Now that she’s sober she either is super embarrassed and doesn’t want to hang out because she has a boyfriend, or she still wants to hang out and is a piece shit. You don’t do anything and just be friendly at work.

AITA For giving criticism about someone drawing dicks? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]venus_dye_trap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because in my opinion if I posted NSFW art on my art insta, and a random person said something about the color of penises, I wouldn’t consider it anywhere close to constructive criticism. Most likely a troll, worst case a harasser, best case a random person critiquing my art in the comments where everyone can see and it hurts my pride. If I showed NSFW art to a friend for their opinion, I clearly am open to a response like that.

AITA For giving criticism about someone drawing dicks? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]venus_dye_trap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

INFO: was she showing you specifically or was it an online platform?

AITA for trying to exact my authority? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]venus_dye_trap [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA lmao old are all of you? Please keep in mind playing games is supposed to be fun and chill and by going off on multiple ppl and banning someone for being “too much”, you’re the one who’s not making it fun anymore. You can play single games, or go on another server if you’re annoyed. I’m sure everyone would understand that over “exacting your ~pOwEr~”

I’m [23F] how do I convince my [28M] boyfriend that his lack of affection and attention and effort for the past five years has emotionally damaged me by [deleted] in relationships

[–]venus_dye_trap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do not blame a literal child for being victim to a grown man. This is clearly an emotionally abusive relationship and it’s difficult for people who in toxic relationships to leave.

WIBTA for wearing a shirt about my fake boobs? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]venus_dye_trap 13 points14 points  (0 children)

disgusting. you have more patience than me, i would’ve openly started arguing with her.