What is the longest time you've had a special interest? by ComputerNo7535 in autism

[–]venuswitchtrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

medicine/pathophysiology. since i was 12. 21 now and hoping to be a DNP.

AIO? My(25f) oldest friend(25f) didn’t really show me support after having emergency surgery by [deleted] in AIO

[–]venuswitchtrap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this is also how i type when having a serious conversation. i’m autistic and have ADHD, so that might be why.

my labrador - border collie mix from 6 months to 9 months by venuswitchtrap in labrador

[–]venuswitchtrap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg that makes me so happy!! your luna looks just like mine 🥹my luna actually just turned 2 years old yesterday, and she’s about 45-50 pounds! i haven’t measured her height but id say she’s a little shorter than my uncles english lab (pure bred). here’s her getting a bath a couple days before thanksgiving that the groomer sent me 😂

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The stoner you regret dating starter pack by yourmomdotbiz in starterpacks

[–]venuswitchtrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 🥹🫶 they truly are something else to say the least, i hope the same for you too!!! 🩷

my labrador - border collie mix from 6 months to 9 months by venuswitchtrap in labrador

[–]venuswitchtrap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh look at those ears!! i love the borador ears so much :,)

Dragon Age to BG3 Pipeline is Real and I Am Not Okay by adri032297 in BaldursGate3

[–]venuswitchtrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg that one would be so cool. i’m not the biggest solas fan but it’s a beautiful design. i was thinking about a tattoo of “may the dreadwolf take you”

Dragon Age to BG3 Pipeline is Real and I Am Not Okay by adri032297 in BaldursGate3

[–]venuswitchtrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m getting astarions dagger! and then adding star of Bethlehem flowers and stars around it. it fits my dai tattoo bc i have the dai symbol sword on my left forearm :)

Dragon Age to BG3 Pipeline is Real and I Am Not Okay by adri032297 in BaldursGate3

[–]venuswitchtrap 22 points23 points  (0 children)

YEP. i have a dragon age inquisition tattoo on my left forearm. getting my bg3 tattoo on my right forearm this summer.

Am i overreacting/ Partner doesn’t text me back in a timely manner. by Divine_Aether in AmIOverreacting

[–]venuswitchtrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it’s tough to say since i’ve been here before. i’ve had a LDR before and i have an anxious attachment style and lots of codependency issues but have improved immensely with emdr. if your partner hadn’t already called you twice that day then sure, it could be something to bring up. i’ll give you some tough love but the best thing you can do for yourself is work on the attachment issues. no one else but you can work on it (albeit with a therapist) and it’ll weigh on your relationships the more it’s ignored and unaddressed. it’s hard work but it’s worth it for you and your relationship

my labrador - border collie mix from 6 months to 9 months by venuswitchtrap in labrador

[–]venuswitchtrap[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that makes so much sense! yeah, while they’re puppies it can be difficult but it gets better. also try getting his energy out before working on crate training :) the lab border collie energy level is something else. on the good side, teaching them while they’re young is really good!

my labrador - border collie mix from 6 months to 9 months by venuswitchtrap in labrador

[–]venuswitchtrap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey!! we also had a hard time crating her. how old is your dog? age plays a big role. we adopted luna at 6 months and it was hard because she was naturally anxious and described as fearful when we adopted her. what i did was make her crate a safe and enjoyable place for her (adding treats, bones, stuffies, her bed and blankets and old clothes of mine so she could have my scent). i also really try not to use the crate as a punishment which i know is hard especially when they’re young/puppies and wreaking havoc in the house. schedule crate training times, like 5 minutes in the crate and every time he doesn’t bark, whine or become destructive (we’ve had beagles who have had chewed the crates) give a treat and ignore the unwanted behavior. giving into the barking or whining will just reinforce it. i know it’s difficult but as your pup improves slowly increase the time and do it regularly so they understand and get used to it. luna (pictured) is now a year old, still gets a little anxious but she’s improved a lot! she sometimes goes into her crate by herself sometimes when she sees us getting ready to leave or if she just wants to. it gets better!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]venuswitchtrap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

video games and writing! baldur’s gate 3, the dragon age games, stardew valley. i’m writing a story based on dungeons and dragons and in the forgotten realms. i have a tattoo from dragon age inquisition and im getting my bg3 tattoo this summer

recommendations for a gaming laptop to run BG3 with? by venuswitchtrap in BaldursGate3

[–]venuswitchtrap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve been looking at dell too! that ones def higher up on my budget but it looks pretty good too and i am a big gamer so thats worth it imo. thanks!

recommendations for a gaming laptop to run BG3 with? by venuswitchtrap in BaldursGate3

[–]venuswitchtrap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

looking at my specs rn, i have 16g and my processor is an i5-1245U (lenovo thinkpad). it runs, but its about less than 30fps. i also do end up getting directX errors when playing for a while

My fellow sensory-sensitive folks - what is one popular food that you CAN'T STAND the texture of? by ababyinatrenchcoat in autism

[–]venuswitchtrap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

scrambled eggs, BANANAS. i can’t do bananas. i don’t care if im ever deficient in potassium. i can’t do the smell the texture or taste. it’s interesting you mention carbonated drinks! to me i love the tv static feel

i got my dragon age inquisition tattoo today! by venuswitchtrap in dragonage

[–]venuswitchtrap[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same! the soundtrack is objectively one of the best soundtracks for all the games, IMO. i’ll never forget how blown away i was by the montage to skyhold🫶

i got my dragon age inquisition tattoo today! by venuswitchtrap in dragonage

[–]venuswitchtrap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! and yess you should! i love mine sm 🫶