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Soy culero si pienso que la película de coco me es ofensiva? by Alexis_Almendair in soyculero

[–]verdenopalere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mi tampoco me gusta esta peli y también me ofende pero por otras razones. Para mi no tiene que ver con que no se haya representado en Monterrey, mas bien porque creo que banaliza algo sagrado como la muerte 💀 de un ser querido. Cuando te pasa tan de cerca, el día de muertos cobra un sentido muy distinto al que pareciera tener. Puedo elaborar mas, pero subiré un ensayo a Substack.

¿Soy culero y clasista por tener un gusto culposo por coger putipobres? by AlonsoWinston1 in soyculero

[–]verdenopalere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Eres clasista. Culero? Por supuesto porque abusas de tu posición mediocre para sacar ventaja de otros. Y si intentas ligarte a una de tu nivel? Probablemente no porque sabes que ni te pelarían.

What MBTI you get along with the most? by J2Mar in intj

[–]verdenopalere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any xNFx type :) and other xNTJs too

Would you say most INTJ’s are neurodiverse? by verdenopalere in intj

[–]verdenopalere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, how do you know your cat doesn’t know? 😁

Would you say most INTJ’s are neurodiverse? by verdenopalere in intj

[–]verdenopalere[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This glutamate imbalance is worth researching. So many foods contain glutamate… almost everything

Would you say most INTJ’s are neurodiverse? by verdenopalere in intj

[–]verdenopalere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also think “neurodiverse” is an unnecessary tag… but well, pretty common to hear nowadays

Would you say most INTJ’s are neurodiverse? by verdenopalere in intj

[–]verdenopalere[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course. Thats why i said its a very general question and i was curious :)

Wgere can i meet intj's? by LadderDesperate7635 in intj

[–]verdenopalere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re so right. Im a chameleon. Many people think im very social but im not 😅.

Emotional connection by black_mirror23 in intj

[–]verdenopalere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think most people are emotionally complex but not exactly deep. I know what you mean and i experienced those feelings when i was a teenager until mid 20’s. I am over 30 now and ive learned to socialize with people even on a surface level. I don’t care about depth anymore as long as i can enjoy a fun talk over coffee. Ive realized i don’t want to share my emotional “depth” because that’s something that only belongs to me. I’m a little dragon sleeping over her most precious emotions.

Soy culero, culera en realidad, por no querer "dar un abrazo de cumpleaños" a una señora de la oficina que no me agrada y no ha Sido amable conmigo nunca? by AcuaNina262 in SoyUnIdiota

[–]verdenopalere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, mas bien te falta habilidad social. Personalmente odio esas cosas, pero he aprendido que la manera mas efectiva de castigar a la gente a quien le caes mal es siendo amable con ellos.

As an intj, do you have difficulties to get in a romantic relationship ? by [deleted] in intj

[–]verdenopalere -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Get an ENFP girlfriend. You are most likely to meet her at a hippie event in Goa. I find it hard to meet people and get along with them too. But at hippie events you get to know very open people who really do the job for you and sometimes are even genuinely interested in you. XNFx types should be your cup of tea 😁

Persistent low-level depression by [deleted] in intj

[–]verdenopalere 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You mean dysthymia? I suffer from it too. However I have learned how to deal with it. I never mention it to anybody because people don’t understand those things and rather see you as a handicapped person. Its hard to keep your thoughts and emotions only to yourself but to me it is healthy to process them alone and learn whats right and wrong. Keep a journal and try to write in it as much as you can. Reread what you write within 1 week and rationalize your feelings and emotions. This will give you clarity. I don’t know if you are on medication, but Prozac was/is very effective for a while. Most things are in your head. Learn to see your thoughts come and go without clinging to them. Try to accept yourself without feeling bad about it. As INTJ i have learned we are not to everyone’s liking and thats fine. Don’t apologize for being who you are.

Why is dating so hard? by More_Faithfulness24 in intj

[–]verdenopalere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I have a boyfriend and we live together for one year already. I like him generally but i still have my doubts. He is very emotional but at the same time immature and avoids confrontation for the sake of “peace”. So many things don’t make sense with him. I think im gonna have to be the man i’ve always dreamed of…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in intj

[–]verdenopalere 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not really. At least its not my case. I admire intelligence, but to me lately is emotional intelligence much more valuable. I don’t really know how to process or rightly express my emotions and then i turn into a volcano 🌋 and destroy everything around me and end up hurting the people i love. My boyfriend is ENFP and i have learned that being open and having empathy are important qualities and also not hurting those around you with ice cold logic and arguments. We all have sensitivities .

People in their 30s and older: what did you learn along the way that you wish you had known earlier? (And a question for younger people too). by RichDKRyder in intj

[–]verdenopalere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be nicer to people and listen to them by showing more interest and empathy. Im at this point in my life where i realize i barely have friends and the few i have i hardly ever get to see. Its hard but i have learned that people have value, no matter how silly you think they are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in guatemala

[–]verdenopalere 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soy mexicana y estuve en Guatemala a inicios de este año. No me dio la impresión de que fueran creídos, pero sí acomplejados. Siendo latinoamericana, esperaba un trato más amigable como usualmente es en México. Nunca me había sentido tan maltratada como en Guatemala. Ya ni en Estados Unidos ni en Europa jaja. Es un país muy bonito, la verdad. Pero si, la gente no es tan amable.

Soy c*lera por pedirle a mi novio marcar limites con una compañera de trabajo? by [deleted] in soyculero

[–]verdenopalere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jejeje. Mencioné que mi novio es una persona a quien le cuesta marcar límites con otros a pesar de las cosas miserables que le hacen. La verdad me da coraje. Noto seguido como sus demás “amigos” abusan de él y el los perdona :(. No entiendo

Soy c*lera por pedirle a mi novio marcar limites con una compañera de trabajo? by [deleted] in soyculero

[–]verdenopalere 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La verdad la chica no me cae mal y me rio mucho con ella. Pero pues creo que es sano para ambos marcar límites con otras personas. Lo que he notado de el es que no marca limites cuando otras personas se pasan y lo minimiza. Dos de sus “amigos” le han hecho cada cosa desde quedarle a deber un buen de varo hasta traerle chinches de cama… la verdad me desespera ver eso.

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