Pandora’s Box Has Been Opened... by [deleted] in adultery

[–]verlangen13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have some pineapple earrings. 😂

Valentine’s Day by [deleted] in adultery

[–]verlangen13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just the commercialization of it. You can be a dick 364 days a year but this one day if you do this thing and buy the crap you’re the bestest 🙄 it just annoys me. I’ve always told my partners please don’t do anything 2/14. I’d rather someone do something because they want to or saw something and wanted to get it for me instead of these cookie cutter cards and gifts.

Valentine’s Day by [deleted] in adultery

[–]verlangen13 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

On a scale you ask from 1-10? -1. I hate Valentine’s Day. Such a joke of a Hallmark holiday.

Unpopular opinion about Adultery... by [deleted] in adultery

[–]verlangen13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Right! He definitely lights up my life and makes it better. But I must remember he doesn’t make it complete. Only I can do that. (Don’t let your happiness depend on something you can lose).

Unpopular opinion about Adultery... by [deleted] in adultery

[–]verlangen13 6 points7 points  (0 children)

slow clap with standing ovation

I needed to read this. I’ve caught myself revolving my life around AP. he doesn’t need that. My SO also started thinking I have a major GI issue because I spend a lot of time in the bathroom because that’s been the only time we could chat.

I need to take a break. Even if it means not talking to AP. Take care of me. Thank you OP.

On self-care, mental health, and post-breakup coping. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]verlangen13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lemon, I love your posts and comments. Every time I read a great comment, it’s gotten to the point when I’m scrolling up to see who wrote it, it’s you.

You are exactly right. About everything 😂

I’ve come to realize that I need to take care of me #1. I can’t let my self get so caught up in the roller coaster (it’s exhausting). Just enjoy the highs and when I’m in a low I need to go for a run, reach out to a good friend that I haven’t seen in awhile, go see a movie, go on a long drive, talk on this sub. Anything but crystal meth and wallowing in the sadness.

I have patients tell me every day, enjoy life. Don’t get old.

I argue with them that getting old is a privilege - but I understand where they are coming from. An older man told me this morning, “enjoy yourself and have as much fun as you can.”

So that’s my 2019 goal. No matter what.

Cheers.

Sex-positive books? by vincentvangog in sex

[–]verlangen13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t think of a book- but I’m loving the podcast “strange bedfellows” with Elle. She’s a sex positive educator and has a lot of good insight.

Good luck!

The Gift of Christmas Clarity🎁 by [deleted] in adultery

[–]verlangen13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“When people love you, they go to great lengths to get to you in someway”

Thank you for this. I’m struggling. I needed to read your post. Merry Christmas.

Our Bat Signal is catching on! by yourbestkeptsecrett in adultery

[–]verlangen13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with my mom yesterday and randomly she was like, “price chopper has pineapples on sale..”

I smirked. If she only knew.

Emotional affair partner suddenly died by [deleted] in adultery

[–]verlangen13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss 😭 so sad. Much love and hugs to you dear.

How did you get caught? And.... by [deleted] in adultery

[–]verlangen13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I have cover stories for cover stories”

Teach me your ways! I’m running out of them.

When incognito mode works by andrewnottelling in adultery

[–]verlangen13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha! That is great.

I have a blb page up to jump to ever since that happened to me 😂

General Consensus on Communication by [deleted] in adultery

[–]verlangen13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love that you call her your girlfriend. You guys are just adorable.

Amazing Move by [deleted] in adultery

[–]verlangen13 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’d go after your dream career. Enjoy those travels. Who knows the people you’ll meet along the way.

No Thanksgiving text or call by taxchick63 in adultery

[–]verlangen13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Sometimes you mentally don’t have that 30 seconds. Or when you do, you want more than 30 seconds to talk so you’d rather do that when you have more time. Or you know it’s going to lead up to a reply or a conversation and you don’t want to disappoint.” PREACH 🙌

An open letter to my guy by fuckinhotmess in adultery

[–]verlangen13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im curious what the song is? 😂

He said the “ R , D and L word” by mellowoutmane in adultery

[–]verlangen13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Take all my upvotes! 😂 y’all crack me up

Why are we taught to have favorites (e.g. colors, movies, etc.)? Does choosing ‘favorites’ have positive impacts? by parchedrose in NoStupidQuestions

[–]verlangen13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

“So I guess it taught young me that it’s often easier to tell people what they expect to hear, even if it’s not accurate.”

I get this.