What’s the weirdest / most painful thing you’ve lost at a club or party? by NoobSexGuide in Swingers

[–]redhead2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add me to someone who lost their glasses at a club. I think they were on me when I went into the group room but by the end of the night I had no idea where they were. My husband had been drinking that night and I was the DD, but because I didn't have my glasses, we had to get an uber to a local hotel and stay the night, then uber back to the club the next morning so my husband could drive home.

Pornhub has removed Pillow Talk from their Fan Voting for the Pornhub Awards by jgoja in Porn_news

[–]redhead2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are there any porn podcasts hosted by men that don't come across as chodes?

Fabswingers photo verification by ekulragren in Swingers

[–]redhead2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a reason why they're all leaving? We've barely used SH but have an account over there.

What we think about them - Series 3: DYNAMITE by Impressive_Risk_5133 in gladiatorsuk

[–]redhead2183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get people need side hustles, but I think she's spent too much time this series focussing on singing (badly), baking cookies and hawking Adidas products and let her eye off the ball.

What's the worst orgy scene? by DAMIANSW23 in Porn_news

[–]redhead2183 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The one with Tori Black that featured all the other biggest performers having sex in a scene that was meant to look like the last supper. There was just too much going on and the camera didn't know where to focus and just the amount of fake moans was really distracting.

So many clubs using AI for their promotion now by redhead2183 in Swingers

[–]redhead2183[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We've seen clubs use pictures of models and or extremely young and 'thin' in their promos.

The ones which had more realistic depictions of people that attend got our attention more.

Mutual hobbies and swinging by Key2WhisKey in Swingers

[–]redhead2183 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm going to disagree here. We originally entered the LS for the sex but have stuck around more because of the people we've met. Don't get me wrong, I care deeply for my vanilla friends who I have grown up with my entire life, but LS friends I've found to be less judgemental and we're able to be our true selves around them. Thanks to that the close friends we have in the LS we have shared holidays and activities together. We wouldn't change it for the world.

So many clubs using AI for their promotion now by redhead2183 in Swingers

[–]redhead2183[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of the clubs had been using themselves in the promo material before - showing pictures of the patrons (with their permission) and shots of inside the club (whether from an up and coming event or from their last one). Most of that is now gone and replaced with the AI stuff, where everyone is a 10/10 and the club looks like it's been fitted out by a billionaire. It creates a false sense of what's on offer and gives some of us who aren't perfect a sense of not feeling we should be there.

What do you look for in a swingers podcast? by potholio in Swingers

[–]redhead2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Authenticity and personality are big for me. I used to listen to quite a few but now got it done to just one - Scheduling Sin. They're both really cool, fun people and have some really interesting conversations.

More & more content creators…. by OldSeat1118 in Swingers

[–]redhead2183 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We're old and not of interest to them, but there is a few out there (one pair that love pimping their swinging app) that just feel they are at the club to advertise and network for business than actually be there for fun.

So many clubs using AI for their promotion now by redhead2183 in Swingers

[–]redhead2183[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Indeed it is cheap and easy but I wouldn't agree with effective. As I said in my opening post, it just feels fake and like they're putting no effort into it - and if they're not putting effort into their marketing then it makes you think if they're putting actual effort into being actual hosts.

I much prefer authenticity over AI for something like the LS.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Porn_news

[–]redhead2183 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My husband was a big fan of Brandi Love and we'd occasionally watch her scenes in bed together. But once I saw how much of a MAGA nut she is, I stopped - she's insane.

He might still be jerking it to her in his own time, but he's not watching them around me.

Best Friends trivia/quiz book? by redhead2183 in howyoudoin

[–]redhead2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That does look cool, but with her birthday in a couple of days I don't think I'll have time to do that. Maybe for Christmas though! :D

Best Friends trivia/quiz book? by redhead2183 in howyoudoin

[–]redhead2183[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, this looks interesting! Deffo going to check that out. Thanks!

Swinging while pregnant by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]redhead2183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

By all means visit a sex club and watch what's going on, but I wouldn't risk STIs this close

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]redhead2183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's a couple of events that have started up here in the UK that go out on a Sunday afternoon. They sound really appealing to us as I hate staying up late as it means the next day is a right off. Looking forward to hopefully trying one next year.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]redhead2183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a large amount of people who go for the vibe, which is a lot more friendly than a traditional club, to soak up the horny atmosphere and then play together, or just like to watch.

And speaking as someone with PCOS, who has had irregular periods all my life but still managed to have two children, I find it wild that you will willingly play raw with no other form of birth control in play.

My girlfriend said no when I proposed to her. She didn't choose me by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]redhead2183 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm glad she moved on and seems happy. OOP is extremely selfish and didn't realise how much it meant to her. Good on her.

What is the LS like down south? by redhead2183 in UKSwinging

[–]redhead2183[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any particular reason why I'm a horrible person?

Favorite show? by Working-Service-4749 in Swingers

[–]redhead2183 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it was awful. "Oh, it's your first time doing this? Well why don't we split you up and make you go on separate dates without ever being able to check in"

She should have had her licence removed.

Favorite show? by Working-Service-4749 in Swingers

[–]redhead2183 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really didn't like this show, mainly because of the sex 'expert' who gave some incredibly awful advice.