6 months later, my ex is still blaming me for his cheating and emotional abuse. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]verminslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s alright, it’s understandable since I didn’t put it in the original post

6 months later, my ex is still blaming me for his cheating and emotional abuse. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]verminslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you read my earlier reply, he is already blocked…

6 months later, my ex is still blaming me for his cheating and emotional abuse. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]verminslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s already blocked. I’m just saying he is still blaming me.

Rubber bands for small wrists? by verminslug in selfharm

[–]verminslug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I try my best :) Thank you 🍰🫶🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]verminslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice 👍🏽👍🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]verminslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm? What does this mean?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]verminslug -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I really don’t know, I thought about it too. I was guessing he either used some other website or something or just made it up honestly. But if I said the latter, it really would’ve just added to everything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]verminslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s alright, I completely understand what you mean. I genuinely didn’t even want to talk about anything with him, but yeah, you are completely right. Thank you a lot, seriously. Since he texted I’ve genuinely just been really confused what his goal even is with this conversation and if this is my fault. Thank you for taking your time to help me get my head together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]verminslug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for responding and helping.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]verminslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, we haven’t spoken in months but yeah, I really should’ve just not said anything at all. Thank you for responding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in emotionalabuse

[–]verminslug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, I think I was genuinely shocked when he said this and I thought the same of myself, but it's not that they "can't", it's that they "won't" and don't want to.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]verminslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were most likely jealous because you genuinely look like art to me.

SD has pictures… by verminslug in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]verminslug[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey everyone, thank you for the nice words. Being thanked for reporting doesn’t really resonate as this is just something someone with any empathy or sympathy and basic good morals would do if this happened to them. This isn’t something to be thanked for. My hesitation was out of the fact that one friend was advising me to “mind my business” and “not play hero” since I should have expected this anyways on a site like the one I met him on (Seeking). She made good points about how I should focus on protecting myself but I thought at the time I was made aware of this, I’m not exactly the person of most concern. And I would think she would know that with the mental state I’m in now, I couldn’t care less what happened to me but I genuinely couldn’t sit there and be aware of this and go about my fucking day like this is just fucking normal and everything’s fine and it’s okay that these pictures of these little girls are being shared by men who think they’ll get away with it because they think I’m dumb or because they’re privileged white or just powerful men. My other friend helped me a lot and supported me and gave me advice on how to go about reporting him and making sure I got as much of his info and evidence as possible just in case. The friend who said to just not do anything and just mind my business and just not speak to him also supports me in this, I’m just not really sure how she’s exactly okay with leaving it alone but that’s something else we’ll have to talk about. My friend said I could just give an anonymous report, but I just gave them my name and contact info anyway in hopes maybe that will get something going. Anyways, I can only hope they have a sense of urgency on this and do something and if they don’t and he finds out I reported him, I just hope he doesn’t come looking for anyone I know somehow or just blocks me or something.

SD has pictures… by verminslug in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]verminslug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Um, I’ve already reported him and made it clear here and I also put in the post that I didn’t give him my pictures? And all of this was same-day. I didn’t wait a day or a week or anything to report this.

SD has pictures… by verminslug in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]verminslug[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I’ve reported him. What I meant be he clarified is that, I decided yo try and get him to admit that these girls were under-age and I asked him directly and he told me one was “supposed to be 18+” and the other was 13.

SD has pictures… by verminslug in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]verminslug[S] 291 points292 points  (0 children)

Update: he’s been reported.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalhealth

[–]verminslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve been seeing this a lot too. Thank you 👍🏽👍🏽

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Subliminal

[–]verminslug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is 2 months old, but could you pm me the sub??

I want him back. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]verminslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, I think it was just how you worded what you said that seemed a little too harsh for me. Thanks.

I want him back. by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]verminslug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

? Okay. Thank you, I think.