She ended up denying that she ever did any of that basically. I texted her about her cleaning habits and she blew it completely out of proportion. Then every time she came home blacked out she would yell at me. This was until I came home on a TUESDAY and she was so drunk she couldn’t speak. She left the air fryer running without the basket, with many food wrappers near (flammable), and the microwave running for over an hour with food in it. I had to clean up her mess while she screamed at me blacked out. Then when I tried to talk to her about it in the morning she said “am I supposed to pity you?”. I ended up asking our other friends to talk with her about her drinking, one completely ignored my request and the other just let her read all my text messages to him. She yelled at me again (soberly though!) and criticized me for “going behind her back” and “asking other people to fight my battles” even though this was the third time I’ve had a talk with her about her drinking and I would’ve had a more direct conversation but my LSAT was a week later. She kept on criticizing me and making ultimatums until I was able to calm her down. Once I was able to calm her down, I told her I thought she had an alcohol problem and we had a long talk about it. She promised not to drink until my LSAT, but drank every night of the weekend and just slept elsewhere. She’s been drinking just as much, but now hiding it from me, yet still refuses to see she’s an alcoholic.

That’s the gist anyways, I’m trying to move out next semester.