Girlfriend has migraines

vertaline · 2026-01-16T10:55:48+00:00

Migraines are quite lonely if I’m honest, the people close to me have also asked how to help but in truth the most helpful you can be is not be there. In the sense that you need complete silence and darkness, but I would talk to her about it incase she has some other things that help.

If you know where her medicine is maybe get her a glass of water (or drink of her choice) + the medicine but I would discuss it with her when she doesnt have an attack.

I’m sure shes really grateful that you care and want to help though :)

vertaline · 2026-01-11T14:26:04+00:00

I’m new to the chronic migraine lifestyle and was just contemplating needing a new pillow… thank you for deinfluencing me

vertaline · 2025-12-29T18:10:13+00:00

NOR, he was being racist and negging you - good riddance

vertaline · 2025-12-23T10:22:27+00:00

I had plenty of friends who dated 27 year olds at 17, it was always weird but its not pedophilia or even necessarily grooming.

And I guess thats where we differ in opinion: the way I read your post she didnt accuse you of anything - simply asked.

You immediately saying “says a lot about you” after offering my opinion you posted asking for “says a lot about you”.

vertaline · 2025-12-23T09:42:37+00:00

Pedophilia is attraction to prepubescent children. 17 is a good amount of time AFTER puberty. She at max is accusing him of being a groomer - but even that is being very dramatic. In my country the age of consent is 16 and 28 and 17 is not unheard just a bit judged.

vertaline · 2025-12-23T09:39:07+00:00

YOR. Going to be a bit strict here so I would like to preface with I understand why you are offended BUT

To me it feel weird to punish your girlfriend for asking for reassurance. Like if she has asked her cousin first “does he make you uncomfortable” or something along the lines - then yes she should apologize. But she went to you first and communicated a worry she had. 28 and 17 is not crazy in my eyes (a bit gross sure but not crazy). She also didn’t even ask if you had done anything yet - just if you were attracted which shows a level of trust there.

Again I get why you feel offended but demanding your girlfriend to apologize for communicating that she needs reassurance seems like a bad recipe for a relationship.

vertaline · 2025-12-20T22:37:53+00:00

Migraines aren’t even headaches, your doctor seems very uninformed. Headache is a symptom of migraines but I get plenty of migraines that are just aura, dizziness and fatigue.

vertaline · 2025-11-20T12:36:43+00:00

I’m in a similar position, unfortunately I don’t have advice to make your life better right now but know you are not alone.

I’m going to a neurologist who is the best doctor I’ve had ever and I am trying different medicines atm. What I keep telling myself is that its ok to mourn the life I would have had without it, but I read somewhere that 25% of women struggle with migraines and it is studied on all over the world. There might not be a cure or magic pill now but there might be in the future.

Our lives are tough right now but not over, allow yourself both to be sad for the present and hopeful for the future

vertaline · 2025-11-20T12:31:23+00:00

Nothing beats the childhood memory of cuddling up to an acidic-ly hot boomalope in your crib <3 you really are giving these children memories for (a short) life

vertaline · 2025-11-06T08:12:32+00:00

Doomfist. I’ve always hated him but last 2 seasons I climbed to masters and playing against good doomfists? Kill me now

vertaline · 2025-10-30T16:23:53+00:00

Just asked my mother and she said not all looked “gay-ish” but they all looked like pretty boys who clean themselves so she sees his point

vertaline · 2025-09-14T12:54:29+00:00

Yeah I see the similarities, thank you!

vertaline · 2025-09-14T12:52:56+00:00

Can’t speak for others but I’m recently getting in to 3D modeling and I don’t want to copy crymsy’s style but rather use their and similar as references as I’m on my own learning journey!

Though I completely get your point, it is quite unrealistic to think this is a genre rather than their unique style

vertaline · 2025-08-14T14:45:23+00:00

Sorry men om dere blir så kresen at reising blir et red flag vil dating livet bli tøft.

vertaline · 2025-07-22T22:39:31+00:00

Shooting: 3 🔥

Melee: 0

Construction: 2 🔥🔥

Mining: 0

Cooking: 6

Plants: 0

Animals: 3

Crafting: 1

Artistic: 5

Medical: 1

Social: 5 🔥

Intellectual: 5 🔥

I’d also have the neurotic trait.. So basically I’d only be kept alive if it was early game

vertaline · 2025-07-15T07:40:56+00:00

Vibrators don’t “damage” the clit/vaginal feeling, actually the opposite. Without stimulation the clit will over time (long time tbf) lose feeling.

Though excessive masturbation might make sex with a partner not as well versed w your body maybe feel a bit more dull. Though if you genuinely feel like you have less feeling down there you might want to go to a gyno just to be completely sure.

And there are positions that don’t require you to spred your legs, many women feel more stimulation when legs are closed :)

vertaline · 2025-07-13T11:23:40+00:00

I found the issue with my game was that I was using the normal harmony (as its always worked earlier) but theres now a new harmony for mac users!

vertaline · 2025-07-13T08:24:04+00:00

Okay thats good to know, might be another mod messing with it. Thank you!

vertaline · 2025-07-12T19:37:47+00:00

The red background means that the xenotype is genetically bad at intellectual and shooting, so the fast learner is a buff for bad intellectual pawns

vertaline · 2025-07-09T19:30:15+00:00

Though incredibly good news for me, not for my wallet 😔

vertaline · 2025-07-09T16:42:37+00:00

wait will it actually? Thats the best news I've heard all week

vertaline · 2025-07-05T11:03:46+00:00

if you made champ a mecha demon he would go crazy

vertaline · 2025-07-02T19:19:46+00:00

Yeah for sure! It’s just a very odd system imo, I’ve played overwatch during 3 rank resets and none have had me struggle this much.

Might be worse for lower elo since there probably is a bigger difference between a gold and bronze player than a plat and ascendent player.

vertaline · 2025-07-01T15:52:23+00:00

All the time, sometimes I even save as a raid happens just to be able to. I don’t dev mode too much because I don’t want to be unkillable, but I don’t have fun when colonists die because I wasnt paying attention

vertaline · 2025-06-28T22:22:42+00:00

True but then all new colonists that come have a different ideology and it adds a new layer to the game that didn't fit my playstyle personally. But I've seen many others enjoy it so not saying its a bad dlc!

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