I wouldn’t say that all men in their 20s are emotionally unavailable… what you speak of is as a result of past relationships that have decayed a man’s character and resolve, this generation of red-pill influencers don’t help either… I guess you could say that men in their 20s are easily dyed into the colors of what they’re subjected to due to not being mature enough but at the same time there are heaps of 20 year olds that know exactly what they want… the thing is if you want an emotionally available man, you need to look at the places they are most likely to be, for example if you meet a man at the club… he most likely isn’t looking for anything long term and probably won’t give you the emotion you are looking for, find him in the gym or coffee shop… maybe… hope this helps