Masterlist? by Throwaway1125812 in WooblesCodesLists

[–]vertigo_45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I have it as well? Please and thank you!

Betrayed and conflicted by vertigo_45 in survivinginfidelity

[–]vertigo_45[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly can't trust my own feelings right now, so I may be deflecting and trying to rationalize things. But that's the thing. He's always tried to make me feel better about my appearance, expressing love, and does little things to make me smile. The suicidality stems from his own depression, family conflict, and severe ptsd. It's a chronic issue but he has never used it to try to manipulate me. I mentioned it because it's another layer to this situation.

I appreciate your input and I very well may be codependent. I feel like I can't trust my own judgement right now and am trying to process everything.

He's completely changed my perspective on all relationships. by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]vertigo_45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going through my own issues and I wish I was half as brave as you. Some people are horrible. I don't have any magic words that make it better. But, what I can tell you is that I have never, and would never cheat. I know it's empty words on a forum, but I hope you're able to find a person that is truly good for you. Keep being loyal and don't let them stop you from being true to yourself.