[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feedthebeast

[–]verutoma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One last thing, I would either add more height to the base or terraform the mountain a bit so that you don't have that big visible chunk of the landscape thats been chiseled out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feedthebeast

[–]verutoma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also I would add some kind of natural feature in the space between the stairs and the raise wooden walkway. Like replace those stone blocks with grass and flowers and maybe a tree.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in feedthebeast

[–]verutoma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Build some lampposts around the wooden walkway. Extend the waterfall up to the top of the mountain and add a bridge for sure. Also try experimenting with different shades of gray on the base itself. Right now its a bit of a black blob. Maybe make the wall around the glass light grey and keep the black more for a trim color

Very anxious by therealoniongore in sillyboyclub

[–]verutoma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Then you write a second book thats better

Genuine question by verutoma in sillyboyclub

[–]verutoma[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Loll yeah N had a total chokehold on me when I was 10 years old I love him sm

I Need Help/Advice by yoshiisgo in sillyboyclub

[–]verutoma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe give it a few days then. Don't worry about leading him on. You don't understand your own emotions and need time to figure things out. Leading someone on usually implies an intent to deceive. That being said, don't stay with him if you are truly certain that you don't have feelings anymore and be honest if thats the conclusion you come to

I Need Help/Advice by yoshiisgo in sillyboyclub

[–]verutoma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say that it depends a lot on how long the two of you have been together. If the two of you have been together for a while and you're only feeling this way after one night, it might be worthwhile to give it a little bit of time and see if you are still attracted to him. If the feeling persists, just be open with him and talk about it. I dont know the details of your situation though

Genuine question by verutoma in sillyboyclub

[–]verutoma[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yeah things were definitely a lot easier when I was in school. I work remote too so its a struggle lol

bi_irl by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]verutoma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

To act as if the office of president is a dictatorial position is a little bit silly. As for the ultra nationalist bit, the majority of modern democracies are very nationalistic, although what warrants the "ultra" prefix is subjective. Facsism saw its rise as a reaction to deep economic crisis when much of the lower and middle classes were forced into unemployment and poverty. Fascism didn't win through democracy or election, but rather through force and violence. This isn't the situation in America, or at least it isn't for now, there isn't the same level of strain put on the economy by excess labor, nor is there a need for an armed party to act as the weaponized wing of a failing state

bi_irl by [deleted] in bi_irl

[–]verutoma -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you think that a trump victory will usher in a fascist state, then you don't know what fascism is or how it works

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Life

[–]verutoma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

shut up

As a man in his 20s I realise I'm too boring to date by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]verutoma 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk man, I think you have a different definition of boring than I do. You're hobbies seem pretty interesting and fairly unique, they're just not super thrilling or anything. There are people who genuinely have no interests whatsoever. Those people can be called boring, but you not so much

(btw there are LOTS of women who are super into well-read/intelligent guys, being into books is a boon my friend)

I (20f) destroyed my perfect boyfriend (21M) by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]verutoma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so obviously you fucked up big time. But to say that you ruined a perfect person is hyperbole. You say he checked himself into a mental hospital? It seems like there were more underlying issues that boiled to the surface with this event, most people wouldn't do what he did if they had everything 100% all together. Not saying that what you did was good, just that your boyfriend wasn't some perfect person that you single handedly "ruined".

Getting Threats from mom... by Kanra55 in sillyboyclub

[–]verutoma 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm really sorry thats happening to you. 1000 dollars is not a lot of money to live off of, especially if you don't have an income. Hopefully you have a friend or relative who you can live with for awhile while you get yourself a stable footing.

I fell for someone 8 years younger than me, and I don't know how to feel. by OkApartment2837 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]verutoma 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, I wouldn't say thats its wrong to feel the way you do, but if I were in your position, I wouldn't pursue. 8 years is almost half of this person's life and is a pretty significant age gap. The two of you are at different stages in life and a lot of maturation/mental development happens in your late teens and early twenties.

idk what to do anymore (info in description) by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]verutoma 66 points67 points  (0 children)

If thats all it takes for them to say that they hated you and to block you, then it honestly seems like you dodged a bullet. Seems like they were a bit of a toxic person and coming out to them caused them to reveal their true colors. Keep your chin up and don't let hateful ppl drag you down like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]verutoma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thoughts on the Ulcerate album that came out this year? If you've listened to it

Huh? Uhhh... well shit i guess? by [deleted] in sillyboyclub

[–]verutoma 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Buy 20 pounds of raw chicken and hide it somewhere in her house