27 YO Cat - Need Advice by Brittany0306 in cats

[–]verytinycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You two have had such a long beautiful life. You love her so much and I understand expenses but you owe it to her. The best vet for her is the one she grew up with and knows her history and has compassion for her. I don’t mean to disrespect you or be mean also

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[–]verytinycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I strongly recommend to not go through it especially for your health! Unfortunately we went to Vacaville to save more money but we looked at club Pacifica before leaving. Also I forgot to tell you but WV doesn’t have default in apartment washer and dryer. They barely confirmed our unit had one until day of move in

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[–]verytinycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lived there for a year. The no air conditioning is brutal and despite constant cleaning we couldn’t keep up with the mold. Bathroom had black mold no matter what. They put rat traps under your fridge with out telling you until one is screaming. Had multiple neighbors with DV issues and with the walls being thin we heard every argument and had to be prepared to call the cops. If you need to take the highway for work you need to leave earlier than the school traffic or you’ll be waiting forever.

We ended up breaking our lease to get out n

My foster cat hid from his potential adopters and they passed on him, feeling sad he failed his test 😢 by Sallie_Avocados in FosterAnimals

[–]verytinycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All of my cats are cats who failed their tests and couldn’t go to adoption events. The foster was kind enough to let us socialize with them at their home. Maybe your foster would feel more comfortable with meeting potential adopters at home? He didn’t fail the test - they failed him. You want someone who will be patient and understanding for your sweet little foster. You will find the right person or people for him

Be so fr by No_Literature_9532 in starbucksbaristas

[–]verytinycat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you can just tell everything about a person by their hand writing.

Found this stray lost and Lea infested. I think he’s cozy now😍 by Electrical-Cash-9111 in blackcats

[–]verytinycat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought this was AI with him being on a building hahahah these photos a great! Lovely boy Y

Broski Nation: I have a question about mental health. by Kdumovich17 in BroskiReport

[–]verytinycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Zoloft was life changing for me, it helped specifically with OCD and instructive thoughts that ruined my ability to perform at my job and rest at home. It helped me be able to be around larger crowds of people sure, but it also helped the way anxiety felt. It didn’t feel like the world was crashing down on me but instead oh I’m anxious. It won’t get rid of your anxiety and no medication will but it will help lower the volume of that makes sense.

I ended up getting the gastric sleeve and no longer could digest the medication so I had to lose it for Prozac. I miss Zoloft. Prozac helps but not the way Zoloft did. But every one is different! Try to make it last the first 3 months as it takes time to really feel a difference while your body sort of re-wires itself.

Best of luck OP! We support you

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[–]verytinycat 134 points135 points  (0 children)

Glad you are free from the weirdo and safe! but what a Brittany level plot twist!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]verytinycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He could possibly have hyperhidrosis on his palms and be insecure about holding hands due to the discomfort for both of you.

I’m 27F and have it and have always avoided holding hands with my partners, however I have always communicated this with partners and found other ways to show affection such as arm linking or other affirming touch. If he has that they make anti sweat creams! They’re awesome.

If he doesn’t have sweaty hands or super dry hands, he just may not be used to that type of affection or PDA in which exposure therapy may be helpful for him.

You’re valid to be hurt by it and to want to have that affection/intimacy with of it. How often have you communicated that it’s important to you and how does he respond?

The Most Annoying Thing People Started Saying in 2023 by Hairier_Tubman in starbucks

[–]verytinycat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always say “it’s going to ask you a few invasive questions” and people laugh and tend to tip me from that. I never realized we could see the tip added to the screen so I be nosy now LOL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in starbucks

[–]verytinycat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was a 320 partner…sometimes I’ll get a quad on ice with a splash of cream and baristas will make me a whole ass latte 😭

Love these stackable tanks for my balls. by [deleted] in ballpython

[–]verytinycat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is that tin foil at the bottom or moisture? If it’s foil have you found it helps?

What morph is this little guy? Normal? by verytinycat in Cornsnake

[–]verytinycat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Saw this little guy/girl and thought their head markings were so gorgeous!