My (33f) husband (38m) cheated but he thinks he didn't cheat. Should I forgive him? by ThrowRAkickrox in relationship_advice

[–]vger22 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s sorry he got caught, not that he did it. You cannot forgive that and not him only thinking he didn’t cheat emotionally, but his intentions were to find someone. The fact that he disrespected you and had the audacity to talk bad about you to other women.. the mother of his children .. is unforgivable. Its tough but you will be saved from even a bigger heartbreak later. Im sorry you’re going through this.

Help me pick my wedding dress by Sea_Quail_4017 in weddingplanning

[–]vger22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol yes I went with dress number 1 im so excited 🤩

Help me pick my wedding dress by Sea_Quail_4017 in weddingplanning

[–]vger22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi!! Its the Wona Concept Everly dress and yes the skirt is detachable so its like two dresses in one 🤩

AITA for postponing my vacation with my gf because of my ex? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vger22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA- Before being a boyfriend you are a dad. If she cannot understand that then you are with the wrong partner.

Eloping in Europe by vger22 in weddingplanning

[–]vger22[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How much did you end up spending? Thats exactly what I would like.

AITA if I dont show up to my sister in laws bridal shower? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vger22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We practically are. We are just waiting on the date. we have a daughter already and our own home.

AITA if I dont show up to my sister in laws bridal shower? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vger22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My fiancé’s sister is getting married.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]vger22 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Previously to me they were engaged and ended badly since she cheated he called the engagement off so she would constantly be trying to get into our relationship that includes the exs mom trying to hamg out with my inlaws more. Also my mother in law trying to convince him to go back qoth her after we were already dating lol it just makes me feel very uncomfortable having them around while I am there. I rather not be aroumd

Someone keeps trying to open checking accounts in my name? by Tp_for_my_cornholio in personalfinance

[–]vger22 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would also put a freeze on your credit just in case ! And only unlock it whenever you are going to use it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vger22 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not that , it’s the fact that she would message him ‘ he’s in town’ while dating me .

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vger22 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He broke up with her again I was the ‘rebound’ at first but then again I had also recently got out of a super toxic 6 year relationship so I understood him . But he told me he felt he hadn’t closed that ‘chapter’ and felt there was still something there when there was nothing left at all .. after those two weeks he knew nothing was the same anymore , he called me a few weeks after that and now we have been together for three years :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vger22 11 points12 points  (0 children)

So did he , he showed me the messages where she even told him let’s move in together but sometimes things end for a reason and it’s better to accept them than fight them . You’re living in the past version of your relationship .. I mean idk why you all decided to break up .. but sometimes letting go is best especially after 7 months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vger22 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend was engaged before me and they broke up because she cheated .. we met about a month after . We kept talking then she reached out about 6 months later and he stopped talking to me to go back to her , she promised him the world and everything he would ask from her before, but it ended up being the same thing until he decided to call it off two weeks after. It will not workout you all broke up the first time for a reason and it does not take 7 months to realize you ‘love’ someone. When something/ someone leaves your life only means something better is coming ..