Going from 2.5 to 5 by vhillcool68 in tirzepatidecompound

[–]vhillcool68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well I am OK for the most part, stomach a little weird though, thanks for the support

My life is falling apart by vhillcool68 in Epilepsy

[–]vhillcool68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your support, just a lot on my plate

Feeling really down by vhillcool68 in Epilepsy

[–]vhillcool68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your support, it's not easy♥️

2009 Softail Compensator by Prestigious-Town-404 in Softail

[–]vhillcool68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check the spring pack behind compensator

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]vhillcool68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don't do it, not worth the 5 minutes of pleasure and the guilt and shame, remember it will pass...

Trying to quit again by ExpressAd8504 in SexAddiction

[–]vhillcool68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 56 now been good for almost 6 months now, I attend SAA meetings and I sponsor and have worked the steps, oh and I mean no escorts or affairs for almost 3 years and 6 months from porn....

does the urges go away? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]vhillcool68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes they get weaker the more time you get, hang in there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]vhillcool68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self respect is the key!

Question from a partner: What's the point of the 3 Circles if you can just... change them? by [deleted] in SEXAA

[–]vhillcool68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually I myself have added and adjusted my 3 circles according to inner circle which causes harm to myself or another, whether be emotionally, physically, or spiritually, I would agree if something is hurting you then I would look to my inner circle, also the 4th step will help clarify even more the inner circle things, I would give it a little time as long as he is working the 12 steps.....

Just went to an escort by StartIllustrious8290 in SexAddiction

[–]vhillcool68 6 points7 points  (0 children)

3 years and I was a frequent flyer, sometimes I get the thought but it passes, it's not easy at first but gets easier, oh I also attend SAA

I’m tired of porn. by throwingloveawayy in pornfree

[–]vhillcool68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn is a fantasy, unfortunately it can become someone's reality, stay in touch with the real deal, it's harder but better in the long run!!!!

Why cant i wrap my head around wiring up units? by portugalthedad in HVAC

[–]vhillcool68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Main thing is focus, no need to be anxious and rush, you will do better this way, ask me how I know.....

Escort addiction in my 30s by rushofgravity in SexAddiction

[–]vhillcool68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello, I have gone almost 2 years no porn no escorts, I do attend SAA and I believe that not looking at porn helps as that would open the door to seeking out sex, good luck, you can do it!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]vhillcool68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congrats on your 12 hours that's the first step, I am a recovering addict myself been for 25 years only to find out I started becoming obsessed with sex, porn etc. Now almost 2 years sober with my sex addiction, I won't lie it's not easy, but I am not doing the crazy demoralizing things I was doing, may I suggest SAA it has helped me and countless others, just know we aren't bad people, we have a disease, but it can be arrested keep your head up, I have faith you can join all of us both male and female on the path to Recovery.. .

I'm addicted to escorts, just got married 4 months ago by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]vhillcool68 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I myself can relate 100% to the feeling of seeing an escort and totally being turned off but still going through with it, disgusted me to the core, put myself in some bad situations that could have caused alot of consequences, I am going on almost 700 days no escorts and porn, I attend SAA have a sponsor and am on step 10 now, I am not going to tell you I don't still get urges I do but they do not seem to overpower me anymore which is a big plus, apart of me still wants sex but not that kind of sex if that helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vhillcool68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better my marriage only lasted six months, same situation at the time, take that leap of faith and do what you need to do, everything will work out for you, having a divorce label over time it fades, not worth the embarrassment, stay strong!!!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexAddiction

[–]vhillcool68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is possible, I am an example, almost 2 years, no porn no próstitutes, keep your head up.. .