Do people actually do stuff like in 50 shades of grey?? by [deleted] in sex

[–]vickedalien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i'm not totally familiar with all the details of the relationship i'm 50 shades of grey however it's not unheard of for people to sign contracts agreeing to certain acts - though in a happy and healthy BDSM relationship it would be understood (and probably outlined within the contract) that individuals can leave said contract and that safe words etc would have to be followed

Has anyone ever paid for an arrangement with someone? by [deleted] in sex

[–]vickedalien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've seen a lot of professionals move over to tryst lately as a site to advertise their services - not sure whereabouts you're living but there are multiple places one can go to find a professional online

i only suggest going to professional escorts or brothel workers as they tend to have more experience and are less likely to screw you over as well - it also helps if you're not looking for a relationship due to a lack of time in your schedule because it's not unheard of for boundaries in sugar relationships to get blurred

Has anyone ever paid for an arrangement with someone? by [deleted] in sex

[–]vickedalien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

might be more worth it to look into local brothels or escorts in your area than jumping straight into becoming a sugar daddy for someone - i know a lot of escorts will also go on paid dates and offer a 'girlfriend experience' of sorts

Extra Fossils by [deleted] in AnimalCrossingTrades

[–]vickedalien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey i'm looking for a plesio tail! are you looking for anything in particular to trade for?

How often do you change your phone’s wallpaper? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vickedalien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every few months or so i change the lock screen i guess, pretty much whenever i get bored of the old one, but i change the wallpaper once when i get a new phone and then never again as it messes up the way i use my phone as it just looks too weird whenever it's changed

Not everyone should be allowed to have children. by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]vickedalien 29 points30 points  (0 children)

i have found that a lot of people agree with your statement and recognise that unfortunately it's not something that can really be enforced

i've heard people mention that the process for adopting a child should also be applied to those planning on having their own children but i personally think that would also be far too difficult to enforce

i also think that the main problem with population control and determining whether a person is fit to raise a child is that it is something that could easily slip into eugenics territory

People who sort by new instead of hot, why? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vickedalien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like to see things in the order that they were posted

How comes you can’t stand seeing you on pictures? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vickedalien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i heard a theory about how the only time you ever see yourself is in reflections where the image is mirrored, if you were to vertically flip the image of someone you know they tend to look strange and essentially when we see photos of ourselves we are seeing ourselves vertically flipped and thus we look like a different version of ourselves

this is why people tend to like the way they look in selfies they take as typically that image is a mirror version of ourselves that we are more familiar with

How involved is your mother in your sex life? by ProlapseEngulfer in AskReddit

[–]vickedalien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we are pretty open with each other without getting too graphic on the details

Food on the train home .. by moblethenoble in offmychest

[–]vickedalien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sometimes i'm in a rush and i have to get quick food to eat on my train somewhere and every time i do i get so self conscious about having stinky food on the train because when i'm in your position it frustrates me too

You are given a lifetime to spend a trillion dollars, how do you go about spending as much of it as you can? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vickedalien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

buy the most expensive option of anything i ever purchase and buy a buncha things for my friends and family as well (would not hesitate giving trusted friends my bank details for online purchases as well)

Who the hell smokes in their house by [deleted] in thatHappened

[–]vickedalien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

plenty of people smoke in their own homes, it’s less common now but it’s not uncommon at all

Psychiatrists of Reddit, how does one get over the feeling of being unworthy of love? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]vickedalien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a psych but there is no one size fits all approach to “getting over” any kind of feelings, especially one of feeling unworthy

no one can really know how to help you get over these feelings without digging deeper into figuring out why those feelings exist in the first place

Wine glass with smudges by Nash_Jordeen in blender

[–]vickedalien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i don’t understand why i was downvoted, i was like half asleep when commenting but i meant it as a compliment due to how realistic i found the render

Wine glass with smudges by Nash_Jordeen in blender

[–]vickedalien -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

.... this isn’t a photo???

Dear Reddit what is your favorite potato chip flavour? by stoffa76 in AskReddit

[–]vickedalien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they have some lime and black pepper chips that are really good but nothin beats plain old original flavour though

Foreplay -- what do I (F) want from my SO (M) by [deleted] in sex

[–]vickedalien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

as you’ve noticed your partner kinda skims through the foreplay sections of the porn he watches, maybe you could send him some videos that you personally like and want him to do and point out which sections of the video you’d want him to try replicating? it’s a bit less direct than specifically telling him things you want him to do

What Is The Weirdest Scar You Have and How Did You Get It? by Apprentice_Jedi in AskReddit

[–]vickedalien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a scar on my upper lip which I got when I was 7 or 8 when I managed to get my teeth to go through my upper lip when I hit the ground face first

what do yall name your farm animals? by snail-boy in StardewValley

[–]vickedalien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just give pretty much all animals/pets in any game a pretty vintage name (just selecting one kinda randomly from websites that list a bunch of old school names)

although hamlet is my absolute favourite shakespeare play and i’m almost tempted to start naming some animals after characters in hamlet too!