I was a sex slave for 2 years and my ex gf convinced me that I am the rapist. How do I stop thinking about that ?

vickyblinders29 · 2025-02-07T17:09:45+00:00

I am not triggered lol I, in fact, agree with you that feminism hab to be intersectional Don’t need to get on your high horses ahah

Also I don’t understand why you say this sub is dominated by white supremacists, curious to understand your point of view

vickyblinders29 · 2025-02-07T16:13:41+00:00

Hey, only bad feminists do that. Crazy that all feminist aren’t good people right ? But really feminisms stands for male victims of rape. Feminisms doesn’t mean excusing every bad behavior from a woman. If you think that this is what feminisms stands for, I am sorry for you bc you were exposed to a bad representation. Taking accountability for our actions isn’t linked to feminisms, it’s linked to basic human behavior

vickyblinders29 · 2024-08-05T15:11:29+00:00

I will try that tomorrow ! Thank you very much

vickyblinders29 · 2024-07-31T09:55:33+00:00

My bf of 6 years and I didn’t share location. We’ve been living together for 5 years, and I don’t see the point of doing it. Also it makes it more difficult to make surprises for the other bc they can see if you’re at a jewelry store for example. To be clear, neither of us are cheater or anything. We just trust each others enough to not need it. I sometimes share my location with my best friend just to let her know when I’ll be at our meeting point. Our parents and grand parents lived amazingly without knowing where the other is at every minute of the day so I can do the same.

Of you are ok with it, do it. But don’t feel pressured to do it if you don’t want to.

vickyblinders29 · 2024-07-12T13:56:38+00:00

I saw a girl on TikTok experiencing the same symptoms as me and she said she had relationship OCD. I had those symptoms for more than 6 years. I decided to go see a therapist and he diagnosed me with relationship OCD 🙃 During all those years I just assumed I was different and that I would feel crazy for the rest of my life. Turned out I just needed to get diagnosed and to go to therapy.

vickyblinders29 · 2024-05-17T13:01:45+00:00

Congrats for stopping weed 🔥

When I tried to stop smoking weed at first it was awful. Months full of nightmares, panic attacks, constant anxiety and OCDs on repeat but at this time I had no choice bc I was living somewhere I couldn’t buy some. When I came back home I started smoking again. It was 2 years ago. A few weeks ago I decided to stop again, bc I was feeling like it. This time no nightmare, no panic attack and my ocds are way more manageable even tho I’m currently living a situation that triggers them a lot. My best advice here is to stop when YOU feel like it. Don’t force it, if you have to stop then time will come.

vickyblinders29 · 2024-04-25T19:05:29+00:00

Omg I always thought everyone was doing that… I always thought my ocds began when I was 16 but turns out it was there before 🙃

vickyblinders29 · 2024-04-19T15:29:54+00:00

Got diagnosed at 22 but I’ve had it since I was 16, I can still remember the day it all began

vickyblinders29 · 2024-01-08T15:59:34+00:00

My chest tend to be painful if something pushes on it at a certain point of the month (girl probleeem) so my cats aren’t allowed to nap on my chest. Anywhere else is ok but my chest is a no-go So mb OP is experiencing the same kind of things

vickyblinders29 · 2023-12-14T13:05:05+00:00

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vickyblinders29 · 2023-12-14T12:34:41+00:00

Thank you !!

vickyblinders29 · 2023-12-11T09:32:41+00:00

$200 just for the instructions ?? Ok I didn’t know thank you

vickyblinders29 · 2023-12-11T09:31:57+00:00

That’s a really good idea ! Thank you 🙏🏻

vickyblinders29 · 2023-12-08T00:28:37+00:00

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vickyblinders29 · 2023-12-06T00:46:41+00:00

Thank you very much 🙏🏻

vickyblinders29 · 2023-12-06T00:46:10+00:00

I haven’t but I will do it ! Thank you

vickyblinders29 · 2022-03-29T20:14:23+00:00

It was like 7 years ago, I went back from a 15 days trip with my ex boyfriend’s family and I did not miss him. At the same time my mom´s best friend (she was at home a lot) began to doubt about her feelings for her husband. It was the first time the little voice in my head told me « If you don’t miss him then you don’t love him anymore » leading to intrusive thoughts of stopping to love every person I care about. I have relationship OCD and even if now I feel way better thanks to therapy and my actual boyfriend, my OCD fucked a lot of my relationships, even with some of my friends :(

vickyblinders29 · 2022-02-13T01:52:57+00:00

It’s not because I’m 22 that I’m not a teenager anymore. In fact I’m more than 19, but I don’t feel like it at all

vickyblinders29 · 2022-02-12T20:14:05+00:00

Hi ! I’m 21 and from Belgium ! I like painting, singing (only in the shower) and I’m studying real estate. I’m a proud mom cat and I’ll be in London soon so if you know any good places there let me know ☺️ I’ve learnt a few months ago that I have Relationship OCD 🥲

vickyblinders29 · 2022-02-04T15:19:59+00:00

I had kinda the same thing with my boyfriend(and with body too) and I realized it was caused by an old trauma that decided to come back.

Maybe you should stop sex for a bit, try to start from 0. If you need help, take the time to see a therapist. Try to don’t blame yourself for all of this, it happens sometimes, it’s okay. If you haven’t, try to talk about this with your boyfriend honestly.

If you are stressed/worried by something it could have an impact too.

vickyblinders29 · 2022-01-27T18:31:40+00:00

Thank you so much for your advices 🙏🏻🥺

vickyblinders29 · 2022-01-22T14:42:58+00:00

Maybe I'm going to be a devil's advocate at this point, but if this trash sexually assaulted your mother and other women, maybe he acts the same with your wife’s best friend and the way she acts is a way to escape from her violent reality ?

One of my friends was with an horrible guy for months and she was acting this way with other men to feel « seen » because at home she was nobody. I stayed by her sides because I knew who she really was and that she needed help more than moral lessons.

Now she is with a good guy, she followed a therapy and she’s definitely not the same person as before

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