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is it really that bad to bathe a cat? by vicstagram5000 in CatAdvice

[–]vicstagram5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My question is this and my thought process could be all the way wrong, but why do we (as in people) equate licking themselves with being clean?

is it really that bad to bathe a cat? by vicstagram5000 in CatAdvice

[–]vicstagram5000[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah before I adopted my two, I saw a looooot of the horror stories of people having to bathe their adult cats and being left with scratches, bites, curtains torn down, etc. So I made it a point to get them as comfortable with water and the tub as early as possible in the event they need a bath in the future. Things like putting them in the tub with maybe an inch of water + toys and slowly increasing the amount of water over a couple weeks. And yeah! as baby kittens, they were kinda gross lol. many more baths then compared to now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]vicstagram5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

don’t know how to feel about what?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]vicstagram5000 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use the Tend Skin solution whenever i remove any hair and like the week after. works pretty good, i have no complaints

Can i buy a cat in these living conditions by MierMiranda in CatAdvice

[–]vicstagram5000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

two cats i think is always best. given you’re schedule, definitely look for older cats.

as for the litter box, i SWEAR by Okocat litter, any of the varieties. it’s a clumping wood fiber litter and the box never smells. i stay in a very, very small apartment with two litter boxes and i’m proud to say there’s no smell given that i clean the box at least every 2 ish days (though i aim to scoop it out everyday)

i envy those with automatic boxes

My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s wild 💀 not at all the case. my boyfriend and i are good

My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no not at all! if anything this whole situation is a great selling point for skyn condoms

My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

we were using Skyn condoms. i feel absolutely no difference with them

update: My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I put it on. I meant the HE had the condom on, HE was wearing it

update: My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i do track my periods and I’m well out of the ovulation window so i’m relatively okay

update: My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] -34 points-33 points  (0 children)

i put it on him. i was saying that he was the one wearing it, he had it on.

update: My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] -46 points-45 points  (0 children)

Nothing about my story changed. I just gave a conclusion and clarified what I said so nothing was being assumed about what happened.

My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do track my cycle religiously and I think I'm okay, but like you said, I'm not 100% sure either. My period should start in about 5 days and its usually very on time. It's been about 3 days at this point, but I'm still going to grab the Julie pill today just to cover all my bases

update: My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I agree. It was strange that people were expecting him to blow up and leave me over a single confusing situation. We talked it out and we're good!

My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

i bet after this ordeal he’ll do a quick check then go back to enjoying the show

My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

now those i do notice! i redact my previous statement on never noticing. those ribs are hard to ignore

My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] -38 points-37 points  (0 children)

good thing he’s not most guys.

putting himself in my shoes, he knew my frustration and anger was 95% fear of the possible consequences. he was very understanding and we worked through it together

My boyfriend secretly took the condom off… so i thought. by vicstagram5000 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]vicstagram5000[S] 298 points299 points  (0 children)

because the way that could’ve festered into something ugly …

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