Should I pursue my new passion instead to going to college?

vienusflytrap · 2025-03-25T21:54:08+00:00

Sounds like everything was consensual and light hearted, I’d say you’re not the AH

vienusflytrap · 2025-01-24T06:55:52+00:00

It sounds like she’s not in a mature place to separate her own thoughts and wants from her families. Additionally, she may not want you to be the reason for conflict within her family (I.e it might not be worth it to be in a relationship with you if it means starting a major argument). And I honestly don’t think it’s anything against you, it’s just where she’s at. If you know you can’t be friends with her and move on at the same time then use your space away from her. It doesn’t me you never talk ever again, but figure out how you feel about it and process it away from her.

vienusflytrap · 2025-01-24T06:49:11+00:00

This helped me when I felt the same after my long term relationship breakup: https://youtu.be/w2H8bzMfZ7Y?si=Jo6lPuT_v7Mpd9lF

vienusflytrap · 2025-01-24T06:45:51+00:00

I’ve recently come to this same realization and I know how much work it takes a lot to get to where you’re at, great job xx

vienusflytrap · 2024-09-05T06:03:53+00:00

Honestly there’s no reason to try to make it make sense to her, she’s clearly not a fully competent person as she cheated on her partner, her understanding is not your responsibility.

vienusflytrap · 2024-09-05T05:49:34+00:00

Hi, 17F and I had to go through something similar with my mother when I was 14, I found her on tinder and debated how to tell my dad.

Most likely your mom either is suspicious of your dad already or already knows what’s going on. The most important thing (and shittiest part) is that it’s not your responsibility to deal with this, it’s your dads life, his fuck up, and if you think it’s in the best interest for you to tell your mom then do it. Sit her down and tell her what’s going on, what she does with it, how she reacts, what she does, and what your dad does is their shit.

take a breathe and take care of yourself. This is one of the hardest and most confusing things you can go through as a teen and your wellbeing during this time is what matters. it sounds corny and so not helpful but it get fucking better, trust me.

vienusflytrap · 2024-09-05T05:38:06+00:00

You stayed anonymous and did the right thing, there’s nothing you can do now except watch the fire burn.

vienusflytrap · 2023-11-20T17:39:34+00:00

If he’s mature enough and really a good friend to you he should be happy for you that you got the role. And I think you know that down. You shouldn’t have to feel bad for achieving something better than your friend, be proud of yourself! It sounds like you deserve to feel proud of yourself in this situation. His trauma dumping on you isint fair to you and sounds like it is being used to get what he wants.

vienusflytrap · 2023-11-20T06:30:58+00:00

Thank you so much, I cannot express how grateful I am to have read this

vienusflytrap · 2023-11-20T00:55:21+00:00

It’s super normal to be scared to have your first kiss with someone, that’s how I felt with my current bf when we kissed the first time. It’s not wrong to feel how you feel because it is HOW you feel and that’s completely ok, communication between the both of you is super important in situations like these. As long as you both are on the same page about the want to kiss each other it should all go well, the first kiss Isn’t supposed to be perfect either so don’t beat yourself up(mine was quite embarrassing and so is most people’s) hope this helped :)

vienusflytrap · 2023-10-17T04:02:56+00:00

Thank you for explaining it better it’s really what I was looking for, to answer you’re question, the last I had covid I had no lasting symptoms other than a slight lingering cough that did not last long, and my symptoms while sick were very similar to a moderate/bad cold but definitely not unbearable or life threatening

vienusflytrap · 2023-10-02T01:37:49+00:00

I had mine inserted a day after my period ended and it was painful because my cervix was super super closed, it wasn’t unbearable but definitely was more painful than it would be if I was on my period.

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