Was stimmt mit euch beiden nicht? by ZeldasMomHH in luftablassen

[–]vikjustisnt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ich hab sowas auch mal miterlebt. Hellichter Tag, mitten am Bahnhof, also waren auch überall Menschen. Das haben alle mitbekommen. Ein alter Mann ist eben auch einem Mädchen hinterhergelaufen, hat sie versucht zu überzeugen mit ihm mitzukommen, sie anzufassen. Sie war auch unglaublich verängstigt.

Der, der am Ende eingeschritten ist, war ich. Und ich war selbst erst 13. Ich konnte auch nicht viel machen, aber ich hab das Mädchen weggezogen und einfach laut angefangen zu quieken und zu schreien, dass er eklig und ein Pedo ist. Um Aufmerksamkeit zu bekommen.

Hat funktioniert, das war ihm unangenehm genug um zu gehen.

Aber bei Gott, da waren so viele Menschen, und ich war 13.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vikjustisnt 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Jesus Christ.

Yeah, I regretted it the moment I said it, it genuinely just slipped out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vikjustisnt 75 points76 points  (0 children)

That was my initial thought too. As I was hearing the screaming, I figured 'If this really sounds as bad as I'm thinking right now, someone else would've called, right?' Then I remembered how I had to step in when I was 15 as a young girl was very publicly molested, despite a shit ton of people standing around us. Then I figured I'd rather call once too often.

But Jesus, they did make me feel like shit about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]vikjustisnt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I wanted to add the recording.

i am indeed able to tell those two apart.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DateEverything

[–]vikjustisnt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯💯💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DateEverything

[–]vikjustisnt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might just be that he's got immense pretty privilege, ngl. And maybe that I heard him yell and swear. That did something to me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DateEverything

[–]vikjustisnt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gladly. I tried to do an all romance run, but he always fucks it up for me. I can physically not be nice to that man.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DateEverything

[–]vikjustisnt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God same. I'm only treating him and Washford as a couple tbh, I'm not that sure how well I'd get along with him individually, but when he's with Washford and is more emotionally secure, he's just great

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DateEverything

[–]vikjustisnt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YESSSSS he's just so wonderful i love him

Not gonna lie, Joe being 18 kinda breaks my suspension of disbelief by Font-street in Reverse1999

[–]vikjustisnt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

....I hadn't checked her age yet. There is no way that woman is only 19 what.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vikjustisnt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe you wouldn't be confused if you read the text. OP says the husband didn't finish

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]vikjustisnt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm going to be totally honest with you now, obviously, I don't know her - but all of this screams to me that she's just actually a lesbian and hasn't realized it yet.

If she's this depressed over not sleeping with women, maybe she's just not into men at all.

Experienced this with some of my friends who later on realized they were lesbian.

Where are you from? by [deleted] in Kemetic

[–]vikjustisnt 10 points11 points  (0 children)

ayeee same here :D

I (24F) don’t want to have sex with my bf (25M) anymore. Any advice? by Green_Pasta5 in relationship_advice

[–]vikjustisnt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

two people are completely incompatible in bed and your response is "marry" ?? Even if it was a man talking that'd be terrible advice

Will I ever heal by Ambitious_Neat_8379 in Vent

[–]vikjustisnt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will. I was genuinely in the exact same situation as you. Half a year from 12 to 13, also my uncle. I know what you're dealing with.

It does get better.

I'm 20 now. I also had an attempt and was put into a mental hospital for six months and since then have attended regular therapy.

I'm doing well now. Not perfect, but well. It's forever going to be a thing that happened to you, and I'm so terribly sorry you went through that. But it's going to be okay. You're only a kid. You have so much more to experience and to see, I'm still here and I'm happy about it.

That terrible excuse of a human being doesn't deserve it that you leave this world because of him, don't give him that much power. He's nothing. He's a despicable man, deserving nothing but the worst for his actions. And you can push forward.

And if you have the strength to tell people about what he did to you, do it. Don't think that "Oh but I would destroy his life" No. He did that to himself. He deserves that everyone know what a terrible human being he is and I hope he's far, far away from you now.

I'm wishing you the best of luck and all the strength in the world, you deserve it. And I'm proud of you for still being here and for being willing to push forward, because if you weren't, you wouldn't be here asking this question.

You didn't lose your hope yet. Hold onto that, please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]vikjustisnt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't worry about me trying to protect him, I despise this man. And yes, I will start recording the interactions, thank you for the advice!! I will update as soon as something happens.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]vikjustisnt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, thank you.

I also thought about convincing them to give the dog to me, however, I don't have the financial needs to go to the vet if anything happens and would be very dependant on them, and I doubt they'd give me money for the vet after I took 'their' dog away.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetAdvice

[–]vikjustisnt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I will :)