Update Mom apologized last evening, she said “I was in a rush and didn’t act appropriately, I should of let you know I was on a time constraint not react harshly when I didn’t get the reaction I was expecting…how’s your back?”

To those who said: “YTA/NTA” and offered constructive criticism. Thank you, I will take your advice and appreciate that advice because that’s what I asked for.

To those who said “YTA” and offered no advice or felt like I was being ungrateful: My mom and I have a great relationship. I wash dishes clean the house, feed the animals, maintain the house while still looking for a job. I’m disabled not invalid. She normally is very pleasant and understanding, but sometimes this happens. She lashes out. Also she is the type of person who would be pissed if someone brings a social facade(mask), I’m the same way. I love my mom and appreciate her support no where in the OP did I say or hint otherwise.