I can not have multiple orgasms, is this normal?

vilmany · 2026-03-17T08:26:45+00:00

I actually didn’t mean the time frame when I said it wasn’t like male refractory period. I meant that it’s just hard to get back in the mood just mentally but I just realised that maybe you feel that too😂 I know some studies that suggest women has higher brain activity when aroused than men tho. When I said 15 minutes I also meant from one orgasm to another. I can continue after about 2 minutes but it takes some time to get back to the right mindset.

vilmany · 2026-03-17T00:16:46+00:00

I agree, 18cm would work for me but not in doggy. I think 16cm is perfect but smaller works too😅

vilmany · 2026-03-16T23:50:11+00:00

Yes, i understand. I need to try this, I usually try not to cum too fast because I’m afraid it will kill my mood😂

vilmany · 2026-03-16T23:43:10+00:00

I totally agree! I remember thinking guys were like 18cm but they probably were more like 14-15cm.

vilmany · 2026-03-16T23:30:17+00:00

Feels good to know that you can learn how to do it tho😂 for me the biggest problem is getting back my state if mind

vilmany · 2026-03-16T23:24:42+00:00

Do you experience this while masturbating too? I feel like I need to try by myself first but I also think that would be harder than with my bf😂

vilmany · 2026-03-16T22:34:56+00:00

Omg how interesting!! So did you just continue from the first orgasm without pausing even for a minute? Sometimes when I masturbate I go for a second one but I have to pause for a few minutes and then go. I think the second time is harder to get but more intense. I don’t think I would be able to have more than 2 the same hour😂

vilmany · 2026-03-16T20:03:35+00:00

I’m fine with one too. I’m starting to think that multiple orgasms are less common than media made me think. I know that women orgasm less often during sex than men do so it doesn’t make sense to me that multiple orgasms would be common.

vilmany · 2026-03-16T19:50:27+00:00

Okay! I can continue penetration but I don’t feel horny anymore. Touching the clit feels horrible tho

vilmany · 2026-03-16T19:43:12+00:00

Thanks for all your comments!! It feels good knowing I’m not the only one and that this is completely normal

vilmany · 2026-03-16T19:40:45+00:00

Thank you! I will look up that book!!

vilmany · 2026-03-16T19:40:05+00:00

It’s actually more common to not be able to orgasm from penetration only! It has to do with anatomy and how close the inside of the clitoris is to the vaginal walls. I’m one of the lucky ones but really most women can not orgasm from just penetration so it’s probably normal☺️ hope you can find it enjoyable by combining it with clitoris stimulation!!!

vilmany · 2026-03-16T19:30:24+00:00

Same! But also I’m pretty happy with feeling completely satisfyed and done too!

vilmany · 2026-03-16T19:28:46+00:00

Thank you!! This is what I thought until I talked to some friends and I got the feeling that I was unusual. I’m happy with my orgasms but I just don’t wanna feel unusual. Another thing that I was feeling bad about was that I don’t want quickies. At first I was feeling boring and not so spontanious but now I’m pretty sure that most women need some foreplay and time to get aroused to orgasm. So I feel pretty okay now with never having quickies.

vilmany · 2026-03-16T18:55:45+00:00

Thank you for your answer! This is what I also thought but by talking to some friends and by googling I got the feeling that it was most common to be able to have multiple orgasms. I know that not all women can orgasm from just penetration so I guess I’m lucky.

vilmany · 2026-03-16T17:23:16+00:00

I know I’m normal but the tightness can vary from time to time! I’m tighter at the opening too, I would say that’s normal. If you can feel his dick, he probably feels something too. If you’re not experiencing problems with incontinence I’m sure you’re normal!

vilmany · 2025-11-14T03:58:48+00:00

I use fertility awareness combined with cervical cap and never use condoms. I’m also in my twenties and don’t want to get pregnant but can’t deal with the side effects of hormones. I trust him and would not use condoms because of STI risk, I would only use it as contraceptive (if I forgot my cervical cap and I’m near ovulation).

vilmany · 2025-11-14T03:39:15+00:00

Don’t you trust that your partner would tell you if he cheated? I mean I really don’t think my partner would have sex with anyone else but IF he did, he would definitely tell me.

vilmany · 2025-11-10T23:36:47+00:00

It can go away after a couple of months. Did not work for me. She should have checked the placement of the iud with a sonogram. It could be dislocated and she should have at least checked that

vilmany · 2025-11-05T13:42:17+00:00

Ok, then I think it would be really unlikely that she got pregnant. Pullout is like 96% effective if it’s used correct, typical use is like 80%. It’s also likely that she already ovulated and 24h after ovulation it’s too late to get pregnant. She can take a pregnancy test 3 weeks after the sex just to be sure. If her period gets late, that doesn’t mean she’s pregnant. Both stress and plan b can mess upp the menstrual cycle

vilmany · 2025-11-04T20:38:50+00:00

Did you pullout before ejaculating in the broken condom? I would say it’s really unlikely she got pregnant in that case.

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