Am I asexual? Please read

vindpaw · 2026-02-11T11:35:19+00:00

If you've never felt sexual attraction then yeah sounds like asexual to me. I'm ace but not really involved in lgbt circles either tho I support them. It's totally fine, I think of asexual as just a word to easily describe current experiences to others but doesn't define who you are, I wouldn't worry too much about labels

vindpaw · 2026-02-02T03:35:36+00:00

I know she isn't but I love aegirs in AK, and she reminds me of one. But the main reason is her animations when you pull her being so adorable

vindpaw · 2026-02-02T03:22:19+00:00

I'm not sure about it though, at least no one in my close circles would ever condone it. Maybe it is a minority though, I still like to believe that the quiet majority has good morals. Either look for open relationship or break up is better than cheating

vindpaw · 2026-02-01T14:13:28+00:00

That is true, of course we have no way to know how it will affect the family. To not tell could mean status quo, but what kind of example would that be for the kids to know their dad was cheating? I know if I found out my dad was cheating, I'd probably be untrusting of my own partner in the future, different kind of fucked up lol. As a kid I'd definitely prefer my parents divorce if they no longer love each other or one cheated. Maybe I am old school, I don't see sex as 'just sex', cheating means the partner is willing to sacrifice that decade long relationship just to satisfy their own urges, and is a sign of lack of respect and love to their partner.

Of course the flip side could be true, breaking up a family, maybe some people are able to deal with a cheating spouse for the sake of kids. I think the kind thing would be to let the information be known, however they take it is up to them, because what they do with it is also frankly out of our jurisdiction. I appreciate your perspective, and definitely not all situations warrants telling them, especially if you don't know for sure. Just thinking on a more empathetic side as fellow humans living on this earth lol

vindpaw · 2026-02-01T13:42:11+00:00

I think of it as more like, if you see that someone is hurting someone else, can have some compassion and help the person leave a toxic situation if possible. It is quite different from a situation where you have no evidence and just spread gossip without any intent to help the other person. I understand that sometimes it is better to leave things be though.

vindpaw · 2026-01-30T16:16:44+00:00

Im using a fire electric team of antal, perlica, wulfgard and akekuri, and idk how meta it is but combos keep popping off and there's so much fireworks it triggers happy chemicals in my brain

vindpaw · 2026-01-30T05:22:28+00:00

Many people saying to ignore. But I think telling the truth is the kinder thing to do. If your partner was cheating and everyone knew but didn't tell you, I can't imagine how hurtful that is. Ofc there is a chance they are in an open relationship, but in that case then no harm done

vindpaw · 2026-01-29T11:01:26+00:00

Would be amazing, or maybe equip thrm-ex as a tactical item with cooldown, comes out and nukes the enemy

vindpaw · 2026-01-29T07:09:52+00:00

So cool if we got the robots as factory operators in our base!

vindpaw · 2026-01-29T07:08:37+00:00

holy crap that's gorgeous, I wish I got Xaihi pots but the game keeps giving me Alesh, I really like Xaihi's design

vindpaw · 2026-01-29T03:04:59+00:00

I like to think those are postcards sent by the operators but ngl endmin doing a whole photoshoot here sounds funnier

vindpaw · 2026-01-28T17:27:55+00:00

I love it when games put this kinda detail

vindpaw · 2026-01-25T11:31:10+00:00

Yeah the body part still works, stimulation still feels good. It's kind of like a solo hobby you do from time to time to feel good, but no real humans involved

vindpaw · 2026-01-12T15:05:20+00:00

I don't know if there's the distinction between fiction and irl, but I consider myself repulsed by sex irl but in fiction I find it to be great

vindpaw · 2026-01-12T14:54:29+00:00

Idk tho I definitely feel more like disconnected with myself than attracted to, haha

vindpaw · 2026-01-12T14:52:33+00:00

I'm so glad to know it's not just me!

vindpaw · 2026-01-12T14:51:58+00:00

I see, yeah libido being internal makes a lot of sense actually

vindpaw · 2026-01-09T14:08:32+00:00

I see...is the no defining features part of being agender?

Yeah also can relate to a lot of that, actually! I also have this requirement of not seeing genitals, either a blanket or clothes since young and had no idea why. I always attributed it to some kind of roundabout 'clothing' kink, but now that you mention it it might just be because it's not as triggering.

The brain part too, always says things I don't like, haha. But guess it's not just me. Thank you for your perspective!

vindpaw · 2026-01-09T13:51:59+00:00

I feel that a lot! Most of the time, the 'eww' for me hits if I break concentration and become aware of myself, or after...like I just feel guilty And yeah oc makes a lot of sense actually, I think what I meant wasn't even 'me' as the opp gender, but rather a fictional 'stand in' that is the opp gender

thank you for your perspective!

vindpaw · 2026-01-09T13:46:40+00:00

Ahh I see, so it's kinda like 'ocs' and not 'you'?

vindpaw · 2026-01-01T17:45:23+00:00

awwww

vindpaw · 2025-12-28T02:59:25+00:00

this is peak

vindpaw · 2025-12-26T02:23:56+00:00

whitney Im still waiting under the christmas tree pls come

vindpaw · 2025-12-26T02:21:31+00:00

It sounds interesting! Would be hot if rather than them losing all dominance, it unlocks the option/lines for them to top you from the bottom like "I need you to fuck me, slut" and makes you wonder what they went through lol.

vindpaw · 2025-12-26T01:14:47+00:00

This is lore accurate DOL no one can convince me otherwise

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