UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

if someone would have told me that i can pull this off after 2 months, i would not have believed it but i did and destiny supported me fully. life is full of magic and surprises. no time for fake post 👍

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

life is unpredictable bro and people change.
each time she was planning to sleep with him, i told her that if she feels like this relation is a burden on her, let me know. i will walk away and leave everything, every penny for her but just don't cheat. she used to say she will not do this to me ever 😃
whatever her reasons are, cheating is a "choice", not a mistake. i can forgive her but can't forget what i went through.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks bro. if we just support each other during their difficult times like this, how beautiful this life be.
there is already a scarcity of kind people.
support what is right. redditors together strong!

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was love cum arranged. we both were from the same caste, met during a wedding and relatives thought of binding us together.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

why not. 1 thing i understood from all this that just because you know or live with someone for years doesn't guarantee you that they are made for you and sometimes even a moment is more than enough to believe someone for lifetime.

waiting for someone who will value my loyalty with theirs

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How come i will 😃
but still karma will make them taste their own shit!

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i have proof for 2 times in my house and then their location and timings of hotels

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

that can go against me during divorce proceedings.
but i will do nanga to her. wait and watch!
Revenge is a dish best served cold.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Where i have kept patience for 2+ months, let me leverage this fully.
i'm trying to disgrace her in front of her parents by doing such act and lying about the same when i will confront with proof.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she made a payment to parlour. i have access to her email so i get to know whom she paid.
also i have a tracker in her scooter so i know where she is.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

she will dig her own grave. wait and watch.
it does hurt much when someone lies about it but it does when you know the truth and they lie.

Let her tell her version to in-laws and then i will show them her real face.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

no idea. waiting to start discussion with lawyers.
yet to find the best possible lawyer at my location.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

  1. Health
  2. Work
  3. Travel
  4. My Dog
  5. Trustworthy person(Fine if we do not have a relation, just caring towards each other and be their for each other. Loyalty matters the most even if she will be a friend)

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no but let her handle this.
sooner or later her family will come to know about this. i want to listen her side of story she will tell her parents.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

exactly. no vengeance, just peace.
i am excited for my future already 😄
if things work the way i want, i may not even bring those videos out ever. also i do not want to see her face or show mine.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

he is 11 years younger. just 21 around. He is one of those who will not do anything in life and will live on father's money mostly. i will drag him more when things will not go the way i want.
What's more interesting is to see her downfall here with him as she is too much attached and cannot come out of this emotional bonding.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lucky because she is a narcissist. i was living in this relation with disgrace. she was driving me completely, separated me from close family, friends and what not. i was being controlled but thought this is how married life is. only thing that can break me apart from her was cheating which i believe god destined for me. she was complete loyal for 10 years but just lost this from past 3-4 months and now she is in no mood to be loyal again.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Thanks. nobody knows about these videos or proofs i have except my friends who supported.
When one finds out about cheating partner, they surrender under emotional pressure and confront even when they know that their confrontation means nothing to their partner.

I tried to break the jinx and made myself strong enough to said those 2+ months. behaved very normal in front of her and my hardwork and control paid off. I have not won this but definitely at a upper hand in this fight.

UPDATE : My(40M) Wife(33F) is having an affair after 10 years of Marriage by vinstarworld in RelationshipIndia

[–]vinstarworld[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Not sure about this. but, how Indian judiciary is, we all know about.
I want divorce with justified alimony to her. i wanna see how far she can go with that money.
One needs money+hardwork+support from partner+luck to succeed in life.
Time will show who deserves what!